The room and video games is real. But by the same token, teens are teens and are who they are. My oldest likes what he likes and isn't going to do what he doesnt want to do. So he works a nonimpressive teen job and does the 3 very common activities he does, and will probably get some modest recognition or a modest leadership role in ONE of those because he has some relative talent/skill in that one. Why would I push him to do more? It's not his personality or where he is at developmentally and he'll be a lot happier NOT attending a super competitive school. But he also likes school and is serious about learning. So I think the OPs question about fit is a good one. Smart, academic, regular teens at a non T20 or T50 will be successful too. What are some good options for them? (I am also cracking up from the fish EC comment because I agree it opens up a lot of EC possibilities but I know I couldnt in a million years convince my kid who loves to fish and aquascape aquariums to START any sort of fish-related club at school and could only imagine the conversation if I tried). |
These are excellent ideas! Well done. |
Agreed. Just stole some of them ![]() |
Multiple AP 5s
High GPA Very high SAT No ECs and you want prestige? Dust off the passport. The following amazing universities have primarily stat-based admissions: Oxford Cambridge University of British Columbia McGill University of Sydney University of Melbourne And… several others if you start looking around. The American admissions game is silly. Other countries get it right. |
Oxbridge, LSE, Imperial, St Andrews, UCL, Edinburgh, Durham, Amsterdam, ETH Zurich, St Gallen, Science Po, Bocconi, etc….. |
My kid sounds like yours and they were admitted to multiple T-50’s. It’s definitely not too late for your kid to get involved in a couple things. Maybe a friend or teacher or his CC can encourage him to get involved? Sometimes it’s better when the nudge comes from a peer or a teacher. |
One thought is to consider if your child would even be happy at a top school outside of gaining admission. It’s a very motivated and “extra” study body, it’s not for everyone. Lots of go-getters that are never idle is who they’ll be competing with for grades and opportunities. |
Do regular T50 instead. Pick 3-4 reaches (1-2 for ED) and find other T50 (depending on size/location/feel). At our private this kid gets into 2 of the T25 listed earlier but only ED. Also schools like BU/Tufts/BC/NYU/Lehigh. Maybe Wake. Schedule a meeting with the CCO. Look at your school’s data. Family is full pay and not looking for international discount. I’d skip these schools PP listed. |
don't UC schools only basically look at GPA? |
If OP was happy with T50, she would not even come here to ask for input. You think? From what she described, T20 level schools are what she is looking for. I think Oxibridge and Science Po make sense. |
Didn't we just have had a lengthy discussion on Berkeley v HYP? Karen and Gretchen had a pillow fight there? I don't think OP would be happy with UCs. She was asking for ED options. |
T50 is more elite than that, if you plan to work in major markets in the US. |
I don’t think these are good first choice options for him.They’re good fallback options for the full college list for a kid like this, according to our counselor. |