Is DH/DW more attractive as a result of zepbound and the likes?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Rapid weight loss makes people healthier, it does not make them more attractive.

It just makes them lose fat and muscle by killing the food Josie and appetite.

Skinny fat is indeed not attractive. Not healthy. Healthy is eating good nutrition, heart health and decent muscle tone.

Some people will hate other people no matter what.

Not healthy. And not attractive either. Ugly AF

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:These drugs have been the great equalizer. Now women can't brag about being skinnier than other women.

But most guys don't want to date someone that used to be fat and you have the problem of skin sagging.

And most women, of any size, don't want to date these guys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My ex’s AP/my former friend clearly has been using them. I saw her up close recently and the skin is sagging like crazy. It was pleasing to me.

She's dropped the weight but you haven't dropped the grudge. Honestly, this is your L.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is DH/DW more attractive as a result of zepbound and the likes?

DW went from 205 (she is 5'4) to 140. She is on zepbound..she is happier, but I will be honest she is not attractive naked. She has a lot of loose skin all over. Does the loose skin ever go away?

No. You can have it surgically removed.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Not without surgery, especially if the weight loss was rapid. I lost 80 pounds slowly and did a ton of toning workouts. I was also under 40 so my skin was still in decent condition. I had minimal loose skin, but still struggled with some in my lower abdomen.

Congrats. Its much harder for women to loose weight so kudos to you.

I am 6'1 and 160lbs. I have the opposite problem. I have always wanted to gain weight.

It isn’t harder for women to lose weight. What nonsense.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My husband is taking the weight loss injections. To answer your question OP, he is less attractive now both physically and mentally. Physically, he does not have much muscle tone. He lost fat and muscle. I don’t like the fact that I can wrap my arms around him and touch my elbows. He also looks weak and moves at a slower pace. He does not have much energy to do anything. He just bed rots. Mentally, I wish I had my husband back. I wish he had the will power to actually work out before and during the injections.

Once he starts working out, you love his new physique. Give it time.

Did the weight loss have any impact on his erection and stamina? How old is he?

Anyways good luck to you guys. I applaud people who take positive steps to improve their health.

I do not know if it is related to the injections but yes, it is harder for him to stay hard and shoots blanks. He is taking testosterone medication but it has not helped much and he is taking a high dose. Because he is so fatigued, he takes medication to keep him more alert. Because he is taking medicine to make him alert during the day, he needs to take sleeping pills at night. I am sorry but I have a hard time with all of this. It is unattractive but it also seems so unhealthy. It has been two years, when will he start working out? We have a gym in our basement with all necessary equipment. He said losing the weight would help him work out but he has not done it. He wont even go on walks with me. He just prides himself that his first meal is at 6pm. How do I congratulate that? He is 45 years old.

Sounds very disordered.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not without surgery, especially if the weight loss was rapid. I lost 80 pounds slowly and did a ton of toning workouts. I was also under 40 so my skin was still in decent condition. I had minimal loose skin, but still struggled with some in my lower abdomen.

Congrats. Its much harder for women to loose weight so kudos to you.

I am 6'1 and 160lbs. I have the opposite problem. I have always wanted to gain weight.

It isn’t harder for women to lose weight. What nonsense.

I know. I don’t get this mentality. Women use having kids and going through menopause as excuses. I am 52, and have not had my period in 3 years. I am fit because I exercise regularly and eat properly the old fashion way. I do drink wine, though, so I am not perfect.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not without surgery, especially if the weight loss was rapid. I lost 80 pounds slowly and did a ton of toning workouts. I was also under 40 so my skin was still in decent condition. I had minimal loose skin, but still struggled with some in my lower abdomen.

Congrats. Its much harder for women to loose weight so kudos to you.

I am 6'1 and 160lbs. I have the opposite problem. I have always wanted to gain weight.

It isn’t harder for women to lose weight. What nonsense.

Regardless of your gender you don't understand female biology and that's why you utter nonsense. Put that the pacifier in your mouth.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not without surgery, especially if the weight loss was rapid. I lost 80 pounds slowly and did a ton of toning workouts. I was also under 40 so my skin was still in decent condition. I had minimal loose skin, but still struggled with some in my lower abdomen.

Congrats. Its much harder for women to loose weight so kudos to you.

I am 6'1 and 160lbs. I have the opposite problem. I have always wanted to gain weight.

It isn’t harder for women to lose weight. What nonsense.

I know. I don’t get this mentality. Women use having kids and going through menopause as excuses. I am 52, and have not had my period in 3 years. I am fit because I exercise regularly and eat properly the old fashion way. I do drink wine, though, so I am not perfect.

Are you sure you are a woman lol because you wrote like an incel

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not without surgery, especially if the weight loss was rapid. I lost 80 pounds slowly and did a ton of toning workouts. I was also under 40 so my skin was still in decent condition. I had minimal loose skin, but still struggled with some in my lower abdomen.

Congrats. Its much harder for women to loose weight so kudos to you.

I am 6'1 and 160lbs. I have the opposite problem. I have always wanted to gain weight.

It isn’t harder for women to lose weight. What nonsense.

I know. I don’t get this mentality. Women use having kids and going through menopause as excuses. I am 52, and have not had my period in 3 years. I am fit because I exercise regularly and eat properly the old fashion way. I do drink wine, though, so I am not perfect.

Are you sure you are a woman lol because you wrote like an incel

Um, no. I am enjoying my life as a single woman who raised their kid on their own because I kicked my ex to the curb. I am now enjoying my life with much younger men. The sex is amazing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Rapid weight loss makes people healthier, it does not make them more attractive.

It just makes them lose fat and muscle by killing the food Josie and appetite.

Skinny fat is indeed not attractive. Not healthy. Healthy is eating good nutrition, heart health and decent muscle tone.

😂

Who says they are not also « eating good nutrition, heart health and decent muscle tone »?

I’d agree with that statement.

My spouse only ate coffee and Diet Coke for months on zepbound or whatever. I’d tell him to force down some protein or veg and he’d refuse like it was a stupid suggestion.

He’d also belittle me and then kids for eating well balanced meals. Then once the weight went down - 240 to 190- he turned super vain. Looking in the mirror all the time, making faces, bought a handful of $1000 suits. But never worked out or ate much nutrition.

He looks younger, I’ll give him that. His silhouette too. But after that it’s just flesh and skin dripping from bone. I’m not sure he’s as strong as he used to be either.

Furthermore he refuses to stop the prescription, he seems to want to take it less often and forever.

It’s become his Easy Button and Vanity Project.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband is taking the weight loss injections. To answer your question OP, he is less attractive now both physically and mentally. Physically, he does not have much muscle tone. He lost fat and muscle. I don’t like the fact that I can wrap my arms around him and touch my elbows. He also looks weak and moves at a slower pace. He does not have much energy to do anything. He just bed rots. Mentally, I wish I had my husband back. I wish he had the will power to actually work out before and during the injections.

Once he starts working out, you love his new physique. Give it time.

Did the weight loss have any impact on his erection and stamina? How old is he?

Anyways good luck to you guys. I applaud people who take positive steps to improve their health.

I do not know if it is related to the injections but yes, it is harder for him to stay hard and shoots blanks. He is taking testosterone medication but it has not helped much and he is taking a high dose. Because he is so fatigued, he takes medication to keep him more alert. Because he is taking medicine to make him alert during the day, he needs to take sleeping pills at night. I am sorry but I have a hard time with all of this. It is unattractive but it also seems so unhealthy. It has been two years, when will he start working out? We have a gym in our basement with all necessary equipment. He said losing the weight would help him work out but he has not done it. He wont even go on walks with me. He just prides himself that his first meal is at 6pm. How do I congratulate that? He is 45 years old.

My aforementioned spouse is the exact same way.

He doens have the self discipline to be active or work out, or to manage his portion size, or eating/snacking, or his caffeine addiction. Female self medicated on coffee and soda to “focus”. The zepbound worked as a kind of adhd med for him to cut that impulsivity and hyper eating and food noise (I’m bored again, oh look I ate a bunch of stuff again).

Similarly he crashes at 8pm in the couch, migrates to the bedroom at 10pm alarm, takes 1-2 Tylenol PMs a night,wakes up at least once in the middle of the night so walks around or does the bathroom, then wakes at 4 or 5am to drink a pot of coffee and surf the web/ do work emails. Who knows. Def does not work out. Despite the home gym and gym membership.

I give up. He’s not a child and I’m not his mother.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Rapid weight loss makes people healthier, it does not make them more attractive.

It just makes them lose fat and muscle by killing the food Josie and appetite.

Skinny fat is indeed not attractive. Not healthy. Healthy is eating good nutrition, heart health and decent muscle tone.

😂

Who says they are not also « eating good nutrition, heart health and decent muscle tone »?

I’d agree with that statement.

My spouse only ate coffee and Diet Coke for months on zepbound or whatever. I’d tell him to force down some protein or veg and he’d refuse like it was a stupid suggestion.

He’d also belittle me and then kids for eating well balanced meals. Then once the weight went down - 240 to 190- he turned super vain. Looking in the mirror all the time, making faces, bought a handful of $1000 suits. But never worked out or ate much nutrition.

He looks younger, I’ll give him that. His silhouette too. But after that it’s just flesh and skin dripping from bone. I’m not sure he’s as strong as he used to be either.

Furthermore he refuses to stop the prescription, he seems to want to take it less often and forever.

It’s become his Easy Button and Vanity Project.

If a man wrote this about his wife, you would be SO MAD. Stop being such a B to your husband. How about you support him and suggest couples counseling or some other sort of counseling. It can't be easy for him live with a judgmental jerk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not without surgery, especially if the weight loss was rapid. I lost 80 pounds slowly and did a ton of toning workouts. I was also under 40 so my skin was still in decent condition. I had minimal loose skin, but still struggled with some in my lower abdomen.

Congrats. Its much harder for women to loose weight so kudos to you.

I am 6'1 and 160lbs. I have the opposite problem. I have always wanted to gain weight.

It isn’t harder for women to lose weight. What nonsense.

I know. I don’t get this mentality. Women use having kids and going through menopause as excuses. I am 52, and have not had my period in 3 years. I am fit because I exercise regularly and eat properly the old fashion way. I do drink wine, though, so I am not perfect.

Are you sure you are a woman lol because you wrote like an incel

+1. There’s a male poster who sounds exactly like pp, from beinf single parent who “kicked (spouse) to the curb” to the having amazing sex with much younger partners.

[Anonymous]

Ah yes. The illusion of control drug.

It helps one control what goes into their mouth- though they still may pick garbage, just less of it, what they look like- though they still may never jog a mile or lift a free weight ever, and apparently what they think of others - they’re never hungry so wtf are you or the kids!?!