Haha I agree. He speaks the truth but that way of speaking…. |
My kid was rejected from HyPSM in the early round but got into other multiple HYPSMs in RD. My advice — do not REA if you are unhooked. |
It is really hard to listen to a podcast giving advice in the negative. I know he is trying to be clever, but it is not effective. |
The YCBK host takes donations to run the podcast. Still sounds terrible though. Another blowhard with a microphone |
All these podcasts are essentially feeding FOMO and scaring parents into making the admissions process sound as complicated as possible so that they get hired as counselors.
If you pick up any good book, you get all the advice you need. |
Ok, did anyone hear his (the Game) latest podcast from this week?
I skimmed the transcript (it was 2.5+ hrs. long!! Whoa). He's so anti-sports in the activity lists - thinks it adds no value if you aren't a recruited athlete or it is not otherwise tied into your entire "story". And he is really critical to parents who don't want to give up their summers to help their kids develop a strong narrative (just give up the time from family vacations or mountain retreats or whatever). Some of his other severe advice makes (professional) sense to me from a strategy perspective (standing out from a crowd, doing different things from what everyone else is doing, developing a super-specific niche, and becoming an expert if that's your thing). No, I am never hiring him. Think there's plenty of free advice around, and I'm willing to learn it ALL. |
I like his no-nonsense style, and I think he’s honest about a lot of stuff. But we have to remember he’s talking only about elite tip-top universities. What he says doesn’t apply elsewhere. For example I know Notre Dame does like athletes. So do many other selective universities. High school sports aren’t a vehicle to get into college. It’s a way to make it through high school with community, connections, and purpose. As a side benefit, you build a healthy body and hopefully have a good coach who mentored and inspired you. When he disparages sports, he doesn’t care or consider these benefits. His is strictly talking about top 15 colleges. I happen to think it’s nice to show an academic hook PLUS a sport. It won’t get you in, but it shows you’re a dynamic person instead of being one-note. |
Take the free advice from the podcasts, but do not pay for their counseling services. |
I dont think he's a guy who understands how to signal PQs in an application.
He's also clearly a counselor who wants kids to ED to a low reach. Lots of them do. Makes their numbers look better. ED to Chicago! |
I agree with you 100%. In one episode, he expressed surprise (and disdain) about a school having a sports requirement every semester. This is very common in private schools. It made me wonder how experienced he really is with preparing applications from prep schools. |
Not sure what you are recommending here. Are you saying your kid should have just done RD instead, even if they have a clear preference? Or ED'd somewhere not as competitive as HYPSM and given up that hope? |
Every podcast/ counselor type out there has their own angle to differentiate themselves from the masses of college counselors. They have to say something to instill fear in you to hire them. There is clearly no one way or they would all be saying the same thing, it's not like one has special knowledge that none of the others have. Their guess is good as mine. So, I listen and learn and then let my kid be themself and wherever that fits, it fits. No curating or pretending, just write down what you did. If it doesn't help, fine. But if a college turns you down because you played a sport yet didn't win a gold medal, then that's not the type of college worth going to. Our kids are not just productivity machine pawns in this economic system, to become another stat in the lonliness epidemic. They are humans who need to keep their bodies and minds healthy in addition to contributing to society. |
Agree, but they definitely know more than the average parent from their volume. Assuming they have really elite candidates applying to the most selective schools, they know what works at certain schools and what doesn’t work at other schools. That’s really the only reason to pay for one of these counselors. I hired a counselor for my eldest child who is subpar in some ways, but was helpful in framing what was valuable to each school and what to highlight for each school - based on recent experience. |
Where do you find a transcript? |
This |