You should take a seminar about where babies cone from and learn the ways not to have so many if you can't afford them. |
Don't let the trolls get you, OP. They have nothing better to do. With four kids, you are likely to get some financial aid. It will really depend from school to school how much that amounts to. Is your current private a K-12? Could you ask the FA office for an estimate? As to the PP's comment, our DS is in a "Top 5" competitive school. No one is treated as "the poor family," so please don't let that be a concern. Congratulations on your new addition! |
And you should find a dictionary and learn the meanings of “adoption” and “secondary infertility”. |
Sorry if people here are sounding judgy. I would have loved to have 4 kids. Congratulations on your little one. We did a few years at an independent K-8. Tuition in our last year was over 40. With increases I’d assume it’s easily 50k. We got FA for 3 years (3 kids at home, one SN, and HHI was probably around 150k but I don’t remember exactly). Each year they increased tuition and reduced our FA. We knew we couldn’t afford to continue. There was zero chance we could have paid for 3 kids. We are Jewish so a parochial school was not an option. However we do know many families who have shared that they give large sibling discounts and tuition is already reasonable compared to non-religious privates. You might want to consider only placing your oldest in private to save money since the HS seems to be the biggest concern. |
I realized my post is unclear. We could only afford private for one child so we did it for the child who needed it most at that moment in time. |
Your current home (2-bedroom row house for 6 people) and location are not ideal at all. At that HHI, I would definitely move to a nicer suburb. Your quality of life will be so much higher, as the suburbs are more family-friendly and you can find good public schools. There are private schools in the suburbs too, if you are adamant about private schools. (Maybe you'll qualify for financial aid because your HHI is not particularly high for a family of 6.) In any case, I would move ASAP. |