If your teen is sexually active...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's not much different than your kids masturbating in your house either. Doubly gross if it's boys and leaving their ejaculate in random tissues/socks or not washing their hands after.

You just get used to it. It's nature of life, man.

Oh hell no - I would never clean up my son’s cum. Wtf

You probably don’t know it’s on the carpet

I remember watching Bridesmaids and so grateful for girls lol

Everything is so sticky

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP. Wrong again. Many aren’t. My friends and I didn’t.

If OP thinks her teen might have sex soon, their teen has done "stuff." Sexual exploration is a progressive process when it's healthy. You don't go from kissing to sex.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP. Wrong again. Many aren’t. My friends and I didn’t.

If OP thinks her teen might have sex soon, their teen has done "stuff." Sexual exploration is a progressive process when it's healthy. You don't go from kissing to sex.

We don’t know that. It’s JUST an assumption.

[Anonymous]

At age 17 I used to lie to my parents about spending the night with a best friend when I was really alone with my boyfriend while his mom (single mom) travelled for work.

However we never had intercourse. We messed around in other ways (oral, making out). I just wasn't ready and I felt really strongly about it.

So I bristle when people say that every normal teen is horny and having sex at the first opportunity. Many of us did not and we had healthy sex drives and ultimately had plenty of fun in college and 20s and beyond.

That said, I have no idea what my own teens have done (or not done) in terms of sex. I mean, I would guess that my 17 year old daughter has not not sex as she attends a girls' school and has not had a boyfriend and tells me she has not kissed anyone but who the heck knows! She's been out of my sight on many weekend nights. She's gone to parties. She could be giving blow jobs in the bathroom at all of them. I truly have no way of knowing!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP. Wrong again. Many aren’t. My friends and I didn’t.

If OP thinks her teen might have sex soon, their teen has done "stuff." Sexual exploration is a progressive process when it's healthy. You don't go from kissing to sex.

We don’t know that. It’s JUST an assumption.

Okay? lol But that's not what OP is asking. Sure, some teens don't have sex, but she's asking a very specific question assuming her teen will have sex soon.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP. Wrong again. Many aren’t. My friends and I didn’t.

If OP thinks her teen might have sex soon, their teen has done "stuff." Sexual exploration is a progressive process when it's healthy. You don't go from kissing to sex.

We don’t know that. It’s JUST an assumption.

There is no "we." This is coming from the parent of one of the teens.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP. Wrong again. Many aren’t. My friends and I didn’t.

If OP thinks her teen might have sex soon, their teen has done "stuff." Sexual exploration is a progressive process when it's healthy. You don't go from kissing to sex.

We don’t know that. It’s JUST an assumption.

There is no "we." This is coming from the parent of one of the teens.

It was a random person who said “they’re having some form of sex.” She doesn’t know that.

[Anonymous]

I bought my girl a vibrator and a dildo. She is not interested in having sex but probably has needs too. She is now such a happy girl. Less crabby!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP.

The responses here indicate there are MANY naive parents of teens out there.

Your little children are teens now. Yes, teens think about SEX. Many try it before they get to college.

That’s just a fact. Sorry, not sorry.

And it’s a FACT that many don’t.

Sorry, not sorry.

Many parents who claim: “my child would never do THAT! Nooo - not my daughter; she will wait until her wedding night,”

- have teenage children who are having s*x.

You don’t know what you don’t know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:At age 17 I used to lie to my parents about spending the night with a best friend when I was really alone with my boyfriend while his mom (single mom) travelled for work.

However we never had intercourse. We messed around in other ways (oral, making out). I just wasn't ready and I felt really strongly about it.

So I bristle when people say that every normal teen is horny and having sex at the first opportunity. Many of us did not and we had healthy sex drives and ultimately had plenty of fun in college and 20s and beyond.

That said, I have no idea what my own teens have done (or not done) in terms of sex. I mean, I would guess that my 17 year old daughter has not not sex as she attends a girls' school and has not had a boyfriend and tells me she has not kissed anyone but who the heck knows! She's been out of my sight on many weekend nights. She's gone to parties. She could be giving blow jobs in the bathroom at all of them. I truly have no way of knowing!

Oral s*x IS s*x.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Um... where are they active? When I was in HS, it was someone's home while the parents were away, or in a car. Ugh.

My kid has been in a relationship for almost a year, and while I know they haven't yet, it's probably coming. Yes, we've had and continue to have all the talks, and I have a good kid who I trust to be careful and caring.

We live in a small house and I am WILDLY uncomfortable with the idea that my kid would do sex stuff while I'm just down the hall folding laundry. That said, I'd be a hypocrite (and deluded) if I tried to ban it. One part of my brain says "normal, natural, you were doing it at that age" etc. Another part says "ew no hell no not in my house ew."

I just don't know how to approach this stage on the practical level.

Sometimes they just do it very quickly. It’s not like adults or in college.

Teens can be really creative.

[Anonymous]

Meanwhile, in Europe, co-ed sleepovers from age 14-15 are common. Nudity at home promotes body positivity. Sex at home between teens (behind closed doors) is considered to be the safest place to do it. Condom dispensers are everywhere. Teen girls can walk to their local doctor and get their own birth control and the appointment costs nothing. Sex education begins in the 5/6th grades and continues at the 8th and 10th grades.

Meanwhile, in the Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave, we still have our collective heads stuck in the sands of religious purity culture.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP.

The responses here indicate there are MANY naive parents of teens out there.

Your little children are teens now. Yes, teens think about SEX. Many try it before they get to college.

That’s just a fact. Sorry, not sorry.

And it’s a FACT that many don’t.

Sorry, not sorry.

Many parents who claim: “my child would never do THAT! Nooo - not my daughter; she will wait until her wedding night,”

- have teenage children who are having s*x.

You don’t know what you don’t know.

Nobody is denying the existence of bad kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP.

The responses here indicate there are MANY naive parents of teens out there.

Your little children are teens now. Yes, teens think about SEX. Many try it before they get to college.

That’s just a fact. Sorry, not sorry.

And it’s a FACT that many don’t.

Sorry, not sorry.

Many parents who claim: “my child would never do THAT! Nooo - not my daughter; she will wait until her wedding night,”

- have teenage children who are having s*x.

You don’t know what you don’t know.

Nobody is denying the existence of bad kids.

So your child can never tell you? Sad

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP.

The responses here indicate there are MANY naive parents of teens out there.

Your little children are teens now. Yes, teens think about SEX. Many try it before they get to college.

That’s just a fact. Sorry, not sorry.

And it’s a FACT that many don’t.

Sorry, not sorry.

Many parents who claim: “my child would never do THAT! Nooo - not my daughter; she will wait until her wedding night,”

- have teenage children who are having s*x.

You don’t know what you don’t know.

Nobody is denying the existence of bad kids.

So your child can never tell you? Sad

Sorry you’re sad!