Vacation wife here. 4 month update
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Anonymous
| I don't remember any of this. Can someone do a TL;DR? Looks like she got back with a cheater? |
Anonymous
| So much drama. I could never live like this. |
Anonymous
| Wow PP this may be the most timely bump ever in dcum history because he moved out yesterday. Literally saw this bump as I woke up without him here for the first time. |
Anonymous
Wait, what? Where did you see anything about him moving out? |
Anonymous
In my real life lol I'm the OP |
Anonymous
OP, when you have the energy if you feel like sharing more about the past year, I would be so interested to know. Many of us were so invested and you worked so hard to try to come back from what he did. I’m just so sorry he let you and your kids down. |
Anonymous
+1. And hugs! |
Anonymous
I’m sorry op. I’m sure it’s been a long road. Hugs. |
Anonymous
Your virtual community is clearly standing by. |
Anonymous
| I remember you! At least you know you gave it your all |
Anonymous
| OP sounded like a lovely person and she wrote beautifully. I am pulling for her and her kids. |
Anonymous
| I need a recap. TLDR |
Anonymous
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Op here:
I don't have it in me to write a recap now bit my first post was titled something like help I'm on the other side of the world and my life is falling apart Maybe someone can search it and link. I believe it was locked/can't be bumped |
Anonymous
| It was 9.5 years between my husband's affair and him moving out two months ago. OP, I'm glad that you got where you needed to go much sooner than me. I'd like to believe that couples can reconcile after an affair, but that sense of deep safety and relaxation never returned. Mine didn't do the work and had another (he claims "only" emotional) affair. I'm reading Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and it's really eye-opening how much the immature parent describes him. Now I'm focusing on helping my kids process and avoid life-long trauma. |
Anonymous