NYT: Men where have you gone, please come back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

+1.

No one cares about the football captain. No one did even in high school. In my high school, the smart boys who had any ounce of social skills got the beautiful girls.

No, sweetie, he did not care about you.

And it shows.

PS - Any smart boy with an ounce of social skills would have avoided you as well.

Never said they were interested in me. Where did you get that from?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.

Correlation does not equal causation. It might be a matter of convenience. Men will date whoever is around. College educated men are surrounded by college educated women so that's who they date.

But yeah, good luck to Passport Bros. They will enjoy the women worshipping them for about 3 years. That's how long the fairy tale lasts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.

Correlation does not equal causation. It might be a matter of convenience. Men will date whoever is around. College educated men are surrounded by college educated women so that's who they date.

But yeah, good luck to Passport Bros. They will enjoy the women worshipping them for about 3 years. That's how long the fairy tale lasts.

Intelligence of children and success in school is directly correlated to the educational level of the mother, not the father. (Probably because it's mostly the moms signing kids up for tutoring, reading at night, planning educational stuff). So yeah, good luck to passport bros.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.

Correlation does not equal causation. It might be a matter of convenience. Men will date whoever is around. College educated men are surrounded by college educated women so that's who they date.

But yeah, good luck to Passport Bros. They will enjoy the women worshipping them for about 3 years. That's how long the fairy tale lasts.

This really isn't true. Doctors are mostly surrounded by nurses, but they're not dating them. They used to however. Now it's much more common that a doctor is married to another doctor or someone with equal education. Similarly, CEOs aren't marrying their secretaries.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.

Correlation does not equal causation. It might be a matter of convenience. Men will date whoever is around. College educated men are surrounded by college educated women so that's who they date.

But yeah, good luck to Passport Bros. They will enjoy the women worshipping them for about 3 years. That's how long the fairy tale lasts.

This really isn't true. Doctors are mostly surrounded by nurses, but they're not dating them. They used to however. Now it's much more common that a doctor is married to another doctor or someone with equal education. Similarly, CEOs aren't marrying their secretaries.

doctors are also surrounded by other doctors, but nurses are also educated.

CEOs are surrounded by other executives, managers, etc.

But, fraternizing in the workplace is a no-no.

Regardless, educated people do generally socialize with other educated people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.

An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.

+1
It's hilarious that women here are dictating to men that we must like them. And if we don't, then they insult us. Who would put up with this nonsense?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.

An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.

+1
It's hilarious that women here are dictating to men that we must like them. And if we don't, then they insult us. Who would put up with this nonsense?

Your fellow educated men who are marrying educated women apparently put up with it.

If it's not for you, you are in the minority. Or perhaps educated women do not bring their resumes to dates and you and the other PP are just entitled incels who have special hatred for women who think they can be proud of anything other than getting a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.

An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.

So she can't put it on her profile, can't discuss it on a date. Almost sounds like you don't even care about the woman you're trying to get to know You're one of those "don't talk about your accomplishments, men dont like that" huh.

Men like smart women. Smart women don’t need to put it in their bio, though, to prove their worth. Striver women may, and men typically don’t want strivers.

I am a highly educated woman. I met my husband when he was in grad school. He knew my credentials and was upfront when we got serious that his career would always come first. I said fine and we’ve been happily married for over 15 years. He was clear he would not have married me if I wanted a career more than a family. I think most men are like him.

Also, he had lots of options back then so I knew if I didn’t snap him up, someone would soon thereafter. For years, I didn’t understand why he picked me, but over time I’ve come to understand my husband valued that I wanted to have a family more than a career. Most women in his orbit back then did not have my priorities.

My choice isn’t for everyone but it was perfect for me.

*snort* sure you are bud

[Anonymous]

When it comes to relationships, well-educated men tend to prefer well-educated women. And vice versa. But in 2025, it can be difficult to find a partner outside college and grad school. Work is a no-go zone these days. The professional risks are far too high to consider flirting or asking a colleague out. And bars and online dating are lame. I can see with my own kids at elite schools that they are locking things down far earlier than my generation. I think there is a general recognition - even among college students - that dating with the intent of a relationship after 26/27 sucks. Everything is about serendipity at that point. With work out of the picture, there's no natural milieu where men and women can meet each other without the "dating" thing hanging over everything. It's difficult in this era for men and women to meet and get to know each other organically.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.

An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.

+1
It's hilarious that women here are dictating to men that we must like them. And if we don't, then they insult us. Who would put up with this nonsense?

Your fellow educated men who are marrying educated women apparently put up with it.

If it's not for you, you are in the minority. Or perhaps educated women do not bring their resumes to dates and you and the other PP are just entitled incels who have special hatred for women who think they can be proud of anything other than getting a man.

OK super nerd with the bogus premise. You keep dating strivers and we'll date whoever we want.

[Anonymous]

Nah, we’re not coming back. You women know why.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nah, we’re not coming back. You women know why.

No, they don't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Educated men generally prefer educated women. 81% of educated men marry fellow educated women.

The world benefits greatly by having more educated individuals. If you don't want educated women, I hear Afghanistan is a great place to find them, being illegal for women to get educated and all.

An educated woman is great. A woman who brings her resume to a date is not. Relationships aren’t about resumes.

+1
It's hilarious that women here are dictating to men that we must like them. And if we don't, then they insult us. Who would put up with this nonsense?

Your fellow educated men who are marrying educated women apparently put up with it.

If it's not for you, you are in the minority. Or perhaps educated women do not bring their resumes to dates and you and the other PP are just entitled incels who have special hatred for women who think they can be proud of anything other than getting a man.

OK super nerd with the bogus premise. You keep dating strivers and we'll date whoever we want.

Educated woman =/= striver
But interesting that you equate the two. Is that something low/non educated people usually do?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nah, we’re not coming back. You women know why.

No, they don't.

Then that’s their problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When it comes to relationships, well-educated men tend to prefer well-educated women. And vice versa. But in 2025, it can be difficult to find a partner outside college and grad school. Work is a no-go zone these days. The professional risks are far too high to consider flirting or asking a colleague out. And bars and online dating are lame. I can see with my own kids at elite schools that they are locking things down far earlier than my generation. I think there is a general recognition - even among college students - that dating with the intent of a relationship after 26/27 sucks. Everything is about serendipity at that point. With work out of the picture, there's no natural milieu where men and women can meet each other without the "dating" thing hanging over everything. It's difficult in this era for men and women to meet and get to know each other organically.

Here we go again. Every DCUM kids are in elite schools. GTFOH.....