How do you get an affair/relationship started with another married person?

[Anonymous]

It isn't too hard to find IRL, if you are attractive. Oh, and not everyone believes in gawd. Also, to some people, morality doesn't have anything to do with sex.

[Anonymous]

Well first of all I didn't get married intending to cheat. But then I also didn't get married intending to be celibate. However my kids mean the world to me and I can't see myself as a part time parent.

[Anonymous]

im the OP so has anyone taken advice from this thread and applied it to a real situation?

curious to see if it worked.

[Anonymous]

I was RICO-ed and a willing participant feigning ignorance. Ask me anything?

[Anonymous]

I was too, but my guy already new these secrets. It was Before the thread but followed it tO a T.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Agreed, an affair at work only risks everything. A steady job can help you through a hurtful divorce, but an ugly breakup at work can lead to the failure trifecta: 1) getting fired thus ending a career 2) ending your marriage, and 3) the loss of most of your friends because you can blame your spouse for your infidelity.

OP -

I got no sex and possibly won the failure trifecta. Still waiting for fall out to finish playing out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Agreed, an affair at work only risks everything. A steady job can help you through a hurtful divorce, but an ugly breakup at work can lead to the failure trifecta: 1) getting fired thus ending a career 2) ending your marriage, and 3) the loss of most of your friends because you can blame your spouse for your infidelity.

OP -

I got no sex and possibly won the failure trifecta. Still waiting for fall out to finish playing out.

OP here.

Damn so you had an affair that didnt even consummate and your shit is all fucked up? What happened?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Agreed, an affair at work only risks everything. A steady job can help you through a hurtful divorce, but an ugly breakup at work can lead to the failure trifecta: 1) getting fired thus ending a career 2) ending your marriage, and 3) the loss of most of your friends because you can blame your spouse for your infidelity.

OP -

I got no sex and possibly won the failure trifecta. Still waiting for fall out to finish playing out.

OP here.

Damn so you had an affair that didnt even consummate and your shit is all fucked up? What happened?

Wife found other woman's phone number and called her. That ended any hope of any type of affair with other woman. My wife is also going ballistic and has me by the balls. Other woman is a client. I will probably lose my job if my boss finds out.

[Anonymous]

1022 so if your wife found the number and nothing happened between you and the other woman, why is she going ape shit?

did the other woman confess that something was on the verge of happening?

while i assume the both of you were probably going to fuck, since it didnt happen, couldnt you just have lied when your wife found the number?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Agreed, an affair at work only risks everything. A steady job can help you through a hurtful divorce, but an ugly breakup at work can lead to the failure trifecta: 1) getting fired thus ending a career 2) ending your marriage, and 3) the loss of most of your friends because you can blame your spouse for your infidelity.

OP -

I got no sex and possibly won the failure trifecta. Still waiting for fall out to finish playing out.

OP here.

Damn so you had an affair that didnt even consummate and your shit is all fucked up? What happened?

Wife found other woman's phone number and called her. That ended any hope of any type of affair with other woman. My wife is also going ballistic and has me by the balls. Other woman is a client. I will probably lose my job if my boss finds out.

Rico Suave views this post with utter contempt. You bring shame to your gender. Ladies and gentleman, this imposter did NOT follow Rico's advice. Rico is blameless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1022 so if your wife found the number and nothing happened between you and the other woman, why is she going ape shit?

did the other woman confess that something was on the verge of happening?

while i assume the both of you were probably going to fuck, since it didnt happen, couldnt you just have lied when your wife found the number?

1) Wife is going ape shit because she doesn't trust me that nothing happened.

2) I don't know what was said between my wife and the other woman.

3) Number was with a flirtatious note from the other woman. It was the other woman's way of letting me know I could contact her. I thought about going for it but never called her to follow through. My wife then found the note. I told my wife nothing happened, but like I said she doesn't believe me. She is also angry that another woman would be giving me her phone number and I didn't chuck it in the trash. In hind sight, if I wasn't going to call, that's what I should have done.

[Anonymous]

Im loving this forum. “A purpose of human life, no matter who is controlling it, is to love whoever is around to be loved.”
? Kurt Vonnegut, The Sirens of Titan

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You people are crazy! Why get married then? Just continue whoring around like an animal if thats what you wish to do with your life. I find this disgusting and selfish. This is so destructive and damaging to the entire family. Does anyone believe in morals or God anymore! Whats wrong with you people!

Thing is, you are probably right.

But how many minds and hearts will you affect by coming off as ranting and raving like that?

[Anonymous]

sloots

[Anonymous]

an interesting read