I hear ya. MAKE ALL OF THE MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But spend none of it because shhhhhhhhhhhhh people might find out. |
Yes consume in the way I approve of and you're fine. I personally don't care that KK took her family to an island. She can afford it and she did it. I can afford what I can afford so I do that. |
"Give me attention! I'm rich but insecure!" That's what your flashy car, gaudy ring and expensive purse really say to the rest of us. Sorry. |
The attack on conspicuous consumption is misplaced IMO. It is often hinged on characteristics like "need", or "public display", but none of these exist solely in the market for extremely expensive or luxury products/services.
The fact is that at every income level, people spend money in a way that their finances allow them to do. In terms of absolute "need", the line drawn is typically very arbitrary and entirely self-serving to the argument. When does an "Italian dinner" become more than need? Is the Italian nature of the dinner in and of itself beyond the definition of "need"? Is a $10 plate of spaghetti a need? What about $20? $30? Why could you not just boil some spaghetti at home for the price of $0.50? As people's lives have gotten better, what was previously considered luxury goods have become cheaper and cheaper to obtain. Things like automobiles, digital watches, cellphones, big screen TVs, were all at one time considered luxury items. Clearly, then, none of these things meet the definition of "need". Or do they? Public display is also a rather subjective bar to meet. Even the clothes sold at Wal-Mart gives *some* consideration to how it looks to other people. Is that public display? A $2000 Burberry sweater can certainly be considered "public display" but where is the cut-off line between Wal-Mart and Burberry? Again, this is an arbitrary standard. So what conspicuous consumption amounts to, is one group of people using their lower standard of living to cast aspersions on the higher standard of living of other people, until they themselves begin to enjoy that higher standard of living. |
The poster specified the “us” in the previous sentence. |
Only big spender I ever liked in my old town of blue collar split levels was a grand dad who was a widow and rich but stayed in starter home as wife loved it.
He was like 75 had a brand new Ferrari he often parked in street in winter when his massive speed boat was in his driveway for winter. Once drive 80 mph up my block driving his granddaughter to school and gave the head of PTA the finger when she said slow down. |
Really? My $10 NASA hoodie from Walmart gives the same public display as something with the obvious Burberry print on it? Someone's non-brand-name purse is the same as someone's Chanel? Come on now. |
Most of the people I know who judge conspicuous consumption are wealthy or upper middle class. |
Sounds like a complete a$$. |
I like you. |
I only see it among strivers who have some strange idea that very wealthy people don't buy themselves nice things. |
It sends a message. It could be that you are poor and can't afford a better quality purse. But people like you want to virtue signal with these choices and that is no better than conspicuous consumption as you hoard wealth and try to pretend to be just like "the poors." |
Who said they are the same? Read my previous post again. It says nothing of the sort. |
I think it's somewhere on the spectrum between rude and boastful and inconsiderate to those who have less. We don't need to further highlight the great divide between haves and have nots in our country. Isn't it enough that you can provide for your family and enjoy financial security without flaunting it in everyone else's faces? |
I really don't understand how people can be so limited intellectually to think that THEIR point of view is the only one that matters and is widespread. This kind of thinking is judgmental and self-absorbed. And does nothing to help the world a better place. That is not to say I agree with conspicuous consumption, just that your holier than than attitude is equally as unappealing. |