This actually made me LOL. I’d happily trade that for my unemployment check |
Seriously PP?? I am not the poster with the severance package, but I read your response and thought "what a pompous ass". Do you realize how self righteous and what an a$$hole you sound like? Looks like you've got it all figured out, why don't you run for Congress because obviously your experiences are universally transferrable to everyone else. You sound like a callous tool. The poster with the husband who has lost his job in one day after 37 years, has family that is in dire straights and is reeling from trying to keep it all together doesn't need your lecture on how easy it would be to just fix their situation. While I agree with the fact that the stimulus wasn't meant for people like her, your insensitivity and smugness are grating. I hope if catastrophe hits you someday you get the same amount of empathy and support you seem capable of giving..... very little. |
This. And also, your adult children and sister should each have their own stimulus check and not need yours |
I am sorry your DH lost his job. One where he worked for so long. That is difficult. On the positive side, you have a house that is paid up. Adding the $47k to the $150k (in three years) you saved since paying off your house means that you have nearly $200k to use for emergencies like this. Your DH is also eligible for COBRA for 18 months and that allows you enough time to figure out the ACA options. Since the cost of health insurance through the ACA is based on income, you can probably quailify for aid since your income has gone to $0 if you are also not working. If you are working, you may have options there. You should be able to tap into your IRA because you are both over 59 1/2- there is no tax penalty. Will your DH get any sort of pension? He started working before pensions started to be reduced and eliminated- was he grandfatheried in ? |
Also, have him check the Federal Government job site. He might be able to find a job there- it may not pay close to what he was getting but they have health insurance and if he works there 5 years he can get it in retirement. |
No, no pension. We maxed out yearly on the company IRA. We have another small one so when he got the boot we transferred that to our personal IRA. And you're right, we are in a good place. Our biggest worry is family. And the reason we will share our stimulus is because no matter what happens, we will always have more than them. That fact alone makes the sharing more important. If we can help their burden, we will do it. And we want nothing in return. It doesn't matter if they get a stimulus check too. This is our heart center. We have no parents still alive. My kids are lucky they have us. I never remind them of that but I'm sure they know. The one question I ask myself is what if no one cared. The absolute most heartbreaking feeling is thinking I'm alone. I have no one to help me. I cannot let anyone feel like that. But, good news. Things will work out. Avenues opened up that will help us all. We just have to ride it out a little longer. Thank you all for the replies. You have been nice. I appreciate all the advice. We're going to be okay. |
| I don't think undocumented immigrants are considered for stimulus payment under CARES act. I wouldn't be surprised if democrats are pushing for it though. |
| Wow it’s the first time I heard people saying they suffer in coronavirus. All my friends are boasting about their stock earnings and new house purchase, or beach vacations, made me feel I was so left out. |
If you’re paying for COBRA, it could be worth checking out your options through ACA -and even other self-pay plans. I’m not sure how to check this — but I think you might be able to tap into your IRA without penalty — as part of the CARES act. I really admire the way you’re helping your family! I wish you and your family all the best as you move forward. |
Thank you. I told my sister recently our mother would be happy to know she's being looked after. I think my FIL would be happy knowing his oldest son was looking out for his younger brother. All in all it does my heart so good doing what we do. In my perfect world I want everyone to have what they need and some wants. I want smiles not tears. My husband got a job offer today. He's going to take it and work another two years then officially retire. We'll have affordable healthcare and enough coming in to still help when needed. What a surprise. Was not expecting that at all. Thank you all for the replies. Life really is beautiful. |
Why is he retiring early? 62? Really. 65-67 is normal retirement age. |
My sibling isn’t going back to her gym job for a while because she’s making way more on unemployment |
Mnuchin just said he wants the new legislation passed by July 20th. Giving them 3 days to get it done when back from recess. I'm guessing they're hammering it out between now and then. The Trump administration will work “on a bipartisan basis with Republicans and Democrats,” on the bill, Mnuchin said, adding it is a “priority” to have legislation passed by July 20. The second round of checks would come months after most Americans received a $1,200 sum as part of the $2 trillion rescue legislation passed in March. https://nypost.com/2020/07/09/mnuchin-wants-another-round-of-stimulus-checks-passed-this-month/ |
| MCConnell wants the next stimulus check to only go to people making 40k or less. Is this a stimulus check or welfare? |
Did you consider it welfare when you were included in the payout? |