I'm not sure any girl can count on getting married these days with the crazy gender imbalances at schools. very few girls are even dating. |
That is great, it is working out for you. But your situation isn't everyone's. We know NPs who work pretty flexible hours - three or four eight-hour shifts a week, or less. Our daughter is lucky to, as a new graduate nurse in her unit, not to have to work only nights. However, nursing friends at other hospitals aren't as lucky for their first two years. There are nurses on her unit who are also Moms who prefer nights, but I don't think that would be her thing long-term. Our daughter, who loves her job now and her patients, thinks the intensity of the unit she works in would be a lot to maintain for a career. But it has informed what direction that she wants to take, at least right now. She has been a nurse for not quite a year, so everything can change. And her NP or other grad school, if she chooses that route, is covered by a generous Godparent. |
you don't get it. When you are working those 4 shifts a week as an NP you are locked in, 6 months in advance because patients are scheduled. There is no flexibility. I'm an NP and have a half dozen friends who are NPs. |
Probably shouldn't read DCUM without glasses. Missed that you are an NP. I am sorry that you aren't happy with the switch. I hope you find a more flexible situation. We have three kids, my youngest is a high school senior, and I picked a career long before I had kids (not healthcare) that allowed me to work remotely at least part of the time and gave me flexibility to be able to go to the kindergarten things, volunteer, be with our kids when they were sick, etc. I am not going to lie, it was sometimes still a serious juggling act but I also so appreciate the flexibility. And I think our kids did too. |
| Seeing patients as a provider is an incredibly rigid career and hard as a mother. there is no "oh sure , I can come in and read to my kindergartener's class next Friday." no, those patients were scheduled 6 months ago. |
PAs can write prescriptions in all 50 states. The previous poster didn't know what they were talking about. Some PAs work in offices, some are surgical, some do urgent care. They do rotations in verious specialities in PA school and then go on to further training depending upon where they end up. |
They do not make the same salary at all. They are never in charge, they do not have control over their schedules or vacations like docs do. They do not have the training to manage the most complex patients nor identify the rarer cases in primary care. The insurances used to reimburse similarly for NP versus MD visits as NP were "overseen" by MD. That has changed in the past 5 years and is almost gone. The lower reimbursements make physician groups and hospitals less likely to hire as many NPs because they are not the financial boost to the bottom line as they once were. The online training is terrible and a huge red flag. No one prefers to hire them now that we all have seen the poor quality of the education. These are predatory programs and should not exist. The recent surge in medical school financial aid is rapidly making the cost for 4 years of medical school the same or less than 2 years of the reputable(non online) NP and PA schools. Med school financial aid, merit and need, has exploded this cycle and will continue to grow, after the loan limits happened. It is happening at all MD programs not merely the very top or the weaker ones. They all want to get the best students they can get for their relative level of med school and are using merit $ to get the class they want. The top 25 or so have need based aid for all who are admitted. Even with loans for 4 full years of medical school, the low-end doctor salary of 250k for primary care will pay off 4 years of loans much faster than an NP salary for 2 yrs of school loans. For specialist MDs, they make 400-600k and beyond, while the NP in those areas if they can even get a job in that area make 110-120k, only 10k more than primary care NP. |
MDs are in control of our schedule and yes we can move patients. It happens all the time. It happens to me when I see my own doctors. No big deal, we all know we have families. NPs are not allowed to move patients unless they go through the MD and we do try to accommodate when possible. The majority of docs are able to be at all the parent events they want to attend, though it helps to be highly organized and aware of how the school schedule works, ask at the beginning of the school year and block accordingly. One of my kids had doctors (and a dentist) as the room mom many years. I did it for my other child for two years. My colleague who is a single dad doc did it one year. Being a mom or a dad and a doctor is no less compatible with family life than a lawyer or engineer or professor. Gone are the days when one is the only doc in a group or one of two and on call all the time and running to the hospital. Those who work in hospitals swap call or shifts with colleagues all the time for kid stuff or other reasons. |
This post is spot on! I'm an NP married to an MD. I trained 20 Yrs ago and back then you could go to graduate school and become an NP for around 30-50k. Almost everyone who did so were experienced RNs and most forms required 2-3 years of acute care (i.e. hospital based) nursing experience for admission. Now the NP graduate programs are like 150-200k!!! You'll never recoup that an NP because you're going to be making 120K as an NP vs the 100k you were making as an RN. it makes zero financial sense. Also, the idea of going straight to graduate school AND many of the programs being online (!!!) is complete lunacy. |
Very dependent on specialty, employer, and level. It's highly variable. You can't compare the experience of an experienced pediatrician working in a family practice to a urologist fresh out of their fellowship working in a hospital. Totally different schedules and demands. It's like comparing a District Attorney with a trusts and estates lawyer. |
That is so interesting, I'd love a breakdown on why that happened. It sounds predatory, frankly. It reminds me of what happen to the librarian career over the last 30 years or so. You used to be able to get library jobs with a BA, then the masters in library science emerged and that gradually became the standard until it became impossible to get a librarian job in almost any library setting without an MLS. Then 20 years ago I started seeing more dual degree librarians, JD/MLS, MBA/MLS, etc. because of requirements for librarians with specialized research knowledge. But the math doesn't make sense. A JD/MLS has five years of graduate school totaling over 200k, and even with recent salary increases is going to top out at maybe 180k (and is much more likely to wind up in a role making 100-150k with no or very limited opportunities for advancement). Why would anyone ever pursue that? Yet I'll see it requested as a qualification for roles in law libraries and know maybe a dozen people with this background. All women. I think credentialism for women is often a trap. They'll create a masters or certificate program for a female-dominated industry with the promise of higher salaries or a leg up in hiring, and women are particularly susceptible to this spin because they are more likely to doubt their qualification for a role or to not apply for roles unless they meet 100% of hiring requirements. But then it just becomes a cash cow for universities who then crank out more and more people with the same credential, thus devaluing it. The credential then becomes essential to proceed in the profession but offers no additional financial value. Like I said, predatory. |
Nor should you. |
This is the funniest thing I’ve ever seen on DCUM… |
Interesting. My CRNA SIL, who has been doing it longer than you have, makes 1/3 of that. |
Not if you marry a surgeon and work PRN a couple times per month (or never again). Being a CRNA or NP allows you a lot of part time flexibility if you don’t need benefits. You can work just enough to stay current |