How to handle insults of my kid’s college choice?

[Anonymous]

“It is a really great school incase you didn’t know.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Omg he’s going to love Austin and leaving these small-minded idiots behind. Excellent choice of a college.

As one of my good friends from there says, “Austin is amazing…unfortunately it’s still in Texas.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My kid was lucky to be going to one of his top choices of college (UT Austin). He’s a normal high stats kid with decent ECs, so we’re realistic about his chance for the T30. While his pipe dream school is my alma mater, UT Austin is his realistic dream school. We also like the area a lot. Unfortunately last week a classmate of his (they’re friends for some time, but have sort of drifted apart) gave him a lecture on why he would choose a college in Texas and went on to insult all Texans. I was like, WTF?! How to deal with crazy people like that?

Your kid should say: “I’m going to a potentially purple state and try to help get Democrats like Talarico elected. Trumpie propaganda has persuaded you to go to a college in a place your vote will have no impact whatsoever.”

[Anonymous]

You seriously have to crowd source how to deal with rude people? Come on, OP. You can handle this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My kid was lucky to be going to one of his top choices of college (UT Austin). He’s a normal high stats kid with decent ECs, so we’re realistic about his chance for the T30. While his pipe dream school is my alma mater, UT Austin is his realistic dream school. We also like the area a lot. Unfortunately last week a classmate of his (they’re friends for some time, but have sort of drifted apart) gave him a lecture on why he would choose a college in Texas and went on to insult all Texans. I was like, WTF?! How to deal with crazy people like that?

I would dismiss his friend's comments as a "kid thing." Kids (whether they're 15 or 50) can be very narrow-minded. Perhaps your kid could point out to him that Austin is a very liberal city, that Texas is more purple than red, and that there's plenty of variety amongst Texas' almost 32 million citizens.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My kid was lucky to be going to one of his top choices of college (UT Austin). He’s a normal high stats kid with decent ECs, so we’re realistic about his chance for the T30. While his pipe dream school is my alma mater, UT Austin is his realistic dream school. We also like the area a lot. Unfortunately last week a classmate of his (they’re friends for some time, but have sort of drifted apart) gave him a lecture on why he would choose a college in Texas and went on to insult all Texans. I was like, WTF?! How to deal with crazy people like that?

Is their name on the tuition bill? No? Ok they can screw off. That’s all you have to say.

[Anonymous]

I had a mom, who I’ve only talked to twice before this incident last weekend, tell me the two students she knows who went to my DCs school “transferred out after a year for various reasons” after asking where mine was attending.

I went home and unfriended this mom on social, who added me to begin with by the by and went on with my day.

These happiness-drains of human beings are not worth space in our lives.

When people on DCUM get snooty about schools and/or majors after parents excitedly post about their kids future paths, I say the same thing to myself.

Some people are just miserable fukks. Can’t be helped, can’t change them. Best to pity or ignore them.

[Anonymous]

If your HS senior doesn't know how to handle his friends insulting him then he's got big maturity issues. He should not need your help with this. It shouldn't even register as a problem for him to tell you about.

[Anonymous]

My kid goes to Rice and I had a neighbor tell me "I hope she doesn't get pregnant." Sh*tty people say sh*itty things (including on this board.) hang in there.

[Anonymous]

Give the kid a swirlie. Seems like a jerk.

[Anonymous]

stupid people are everywhere.

Just get used to it.

[Anonymous]

“Don’t get so excited about my son’s college choice.”

[Anonymous]

Texas is not a great state but you do you.

[Anonymous]

The less he engages the better.

“Cool, bruh,” said slowly with a completely neutral face, has a way of shutting it down. Especially when followed with silence and a slow blink or two.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My kid goes to Rice and I had a neighbor tell me "I hope she doesn't get pregnant." Sh*tty people say sh*itty things (including on this board.) hang in there.

That’s completely messed up!!!

How did you respond???