My kid has become a total loser

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:WOW, just wow. I can't imagine calling my child a loser. You seem to be more interested in the appearances than parenting her. You're the loser.

Agreed. This poor kid is probably breaking down because they have such a cold, worthless parent.

[Anonymous]

Op is a troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Something is going on. Depression, bullying, some kind of abuse? I don’t know. You should probably figure it out.

+1 something happened. If she was thriving in MS but is now a loner with no hobbies, interests, not caring about academics, there's something going on there.

I would not call her a loser. I would be worried that something terrible happened to her.

My spouse told me that one day, when their older sister was a teen, she came home crying and was never the same after that. They suspect she was raped, but she's never talked about it with anyone in the family.

Not saying your DD was raped, but a 180 like this usually indicates something serious happened. Get her to a therapist.

My first instinct was trauma

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Something is going on. Depression, bullying, some kind of abuse? I don’t know. You should probably figure it out.

This.

Having a parent who thinks their kid is a ‘loser’ is pretty traumatic too.