Why do women want to hang on to cheating men they seem to despise??

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Between my kids, parents, friend, job and hobbies, I redirected my energy completely away from my husband. It was like flipping a switch and I just don’t care about him in the slightest. I haven’t divorced simply because I don’t feel like it. I haven’t an attorney, am ready to file at any time, but going through it right now isn’t what’s best for me.


NP: does he know that you know about his cheating? Have you called him out? Do your friends know? I am curious as I am also where you are except no family support
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.


Yet women like OP are eagerly reaching in



They love their trash. That trash =$$
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A woman I knew was unattractive, overweight, low skilled but from a wealthy family. Husband was a gold digger and their household was financially supported by the wife’s mother. He cheated on her from the time she was first pregnant (kids born 2000, 2003 and desperate attempt to save the marriage last one born 2010, no sons) and she just threw up her hands. She enjoyed making snarky comments about people she knew who got divorced. I think she looked down on people who were divorced. It was one way she could feel superior. When her mother died and the husband realized $$$ would be divided among her siblings he served her divorce papers, and a restraining order.


What does “no sons” have to do with it?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A woman I knew was unattractive, overweight, low skilled but from a wealthy family. Husband was a gold digger and their household was financially supported by the wife’s mother. He cheated on her from the time she was first pregnant (kids born 2000, 2003 and desperate attempt to save the marriage last one born 2010, no sons) and she just threw up her hands. She enjoyed making snarky comments about people she knew who got divorced. I think she looked down on people who were divorced. It was one way she could feel superior. When her mother died and the husband realized $$$ would be divided among her siblings he served her divorce papers, and a restraining order.


What does “no sons” have to do with it?


NP
Lots of women think their cheating no good men will stay put if they have a son.

Yes, ridiculous but I heard it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A woman I knew was unattractive, overweight, low skilled but from a wealthy family. Husband was a gold digger and their household was financially supported by the wife’s mother. He cheated on her from the time she was first pregnant (kids born 2000, 2003 and desperate attempt to save the marriage last one born 2010, no sons) and she just threw up her hands. She enjoyed making snarky comments about people she knew who got divorced. I think she looked down on people who were divorced. It was one way she could feel superior. When her mother died and the husband realized $$$ would be divided among her siblings he served her divorce papers, and a restraining order.


What does “no sons” have to do with it?


NP
Lots of women think their cheating no good men will stay put if they have a son.

Yes, ridiculous but I heard it.


Studies actually show men (cheaters and non-cheaters) are more likely to stay married if they have sons.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.


I’m really sorry he didn’t leave his wife for you.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.


I’m really sorry he didn’t leave his wife for you.


Seriously. Why else would you be so irate that another woman stayed in her marriage? I find these threads so weird. The vitriol directed at betrayed women. It comes from the poster and whatever weird sh@t they having going on in their own lives.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.



I laffed so loud at this OMG


Laffed??? OMG.

The women that are secretly rolling around it and trying everything to get him to leave the wife. They have every advantage while the wife doesn’t even know they exist or that she’s even in a competition. The AP is at her “best” whenever she gets those 45 min in a hotel and still can’t win. Ha.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.


I’m really sorry he didn’t leave his wife for you.


Seriously. Why else would you be so irate that another woman stayed in her marriage? I find these threads so weird. The vitriol directed at betrayed women. It comes from the poster and whatever weird sh@t they having going on in their own lives.


It is strange.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.


I’m really sorry he didn’t leave his wife for you.


Seriously. Why else would you be so irate that another woman stayed in her marriage? I find these threads so weird. The vitriol directed at betrayed women. It comes from the poster and whatever weird sh@t they having going on in their own lives.

Lol it's an old meme. Sorry you think everyone else married trash. Enjoy yours!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.


I’m really sorry he didn’t leave his wife for you.


Seriously. Why else would you be so irate that another woman stayed in her marriage? I find these threads so weird. The vitriol directed at betrayed women. It comes from the poster and whatever weird sh@t they having going on in their own lives.

There are a lot of triggered APs here misplacing their ire at not getting the ring.
Anonymous
Yeah, another post where an OP invents a fake scenario and then gets upset about it
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.



I laffed so loud at this OMG


Laffed??? OMG.

The women that are secretly rolling around it and trying everything to get him to leave the wife. They have every advantage while the wife doesn’t even know they exist or that she’s even in a competition. The AP is at her “best” whenever she gets those 45 min in a hotel and still can’t win. Ha.


Ma’am no one wants your miserable spouse FT.



Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.



I laffed so loud at this OMG


Laffed??? OMG.

The women that are secretly rolling around it and trying everything to get him to leave the wife. They have every advantage while the wife doesn’t even know they exist or that she’s even in a competition. The AP is at her “best” whenever she gets those 45 min in a hotel and still can’t win. Ha.


Ma’am no one wants your miserable spouse FT.





Great. He certainly doesn’t want you more than 30 minutes a month.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:

This is all I think of when I see these women. Sad and pathetic.


I’m really sorry he didn’t leave his wife for you.


Seriously. Why else would you be so irate that another woman stayed in her marriage? I find these threads so weird. The vitriol directed at betrayed women. It comes from the poster and whatever weird sh@t they having going on in their own lives.

There are a lot of triggered APs here misplacing their ire at not getting the ring.

The Holidays are coming. Tough time of year for the APs. Get ready…it’s going to get worse until the new year.
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