DH turned his emotional abuse and screaming on DD

[Anonymous]

Tell him he does not "get to have" daughter because he terrified her with his actions. Make that in an email so you have record and detail what he did.
Tell him if he can't understand that he needs to talk to his doctor asap.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men really love their daughters. Even men who abuse their wives tend to not show the same disgusting behavior towards their daughters.

I'm sorry OP, but you and your daughter deserve better. Don't stay.

Substantiate this please. I disagree and believe that divorced men often turn their shame and shortcomings and subsequent rage on their daughters once they’re old enough to have opinions or not always flatter or agree with dad.

Mine would frequently gaslight the kids about his drinking. The first time DD was old enough to call him out on him driving them drunk, he unleashed his abuse on her.

Abusers, abuse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell him he does not "get to have" daughter because he terrified her with his actions. Make that in an email so you have record and detail what he did.
Tell him if he can't understand that he needs to talk to his doctor asap.

That’s all well and fine but no police were called, no physical altercations happened, and mom can’t unilaterally withhold a 10 year old
From father of it will come
Back to bite her in court. As a victim: please believe me she. I say that the courts do NOT care about verbal abuse. They don’t even care about physical abuse of the mother. At all. Facts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tell him he does not "get to have" daughter because he terrified her with his actions. Make that in an email so you have record and detail what he did.
Tell him if he can't understand that he needs to talk to his doctor asap.

That’s all well and fine but no police were called, no physical altercations happened, and mom can’t unilaterally withhold a 10 year old
From father of it will come
Back to bite her in court. As a victim: please believe me she. I say that the courts do NOT care about verbal abuse. They don’t even care about physical abuse of the mother. At all. Facts.

OP and when I called the hotline they didn’t say this outright but it was said between the lines that I should not withhold contact/interaction with DD. I’ve left it open to DH to meet her at events or pick her up from things to take her to where we are staying, even though she doesn’t want to see him. Fortunately/unfortunately he has not made an attempt to arrange plans with her.

[Anonymous]

Do not withhold but empower her to express herself. At some point he will not be able to force her to spend time with him.

[Anonymous]

OP where are you located? People can help more if we know the basic location to send you resources hotel recs etc.