It’s called a PG year….everyone from our day school who does a PG year goes to Harvard or Yale or Dartmouth. |
Ofc. This happens at many private HS though. But maybe more at boarding. |
Very relevant. Same with siblings college. Usually helpful to show intellectual horsepower. |
Job titles say a lot more about intellectual abilities than educational history. |
Now it's getting all complicated. Either we play up our intellectual and financial abilities or we downplay them... I think everyone is better off being themselves and accepting the results. ![]() |
Serious question. Who in their right mind sends their middle or high schooler to boarding school? A parent who prefers to mostly not participate in their kids formative years? |
Serious response. DD went in 9th grade due to her brothers ASD and needs. He sucked all the energy out of the house. She deserves a formative childhood/teen experience that is not dominated by him. She is happy and thriving at BS. We speak/text multiple times a day. I know more about her classes, friends, and sports than my friends do about their kids. Your “serious question” and comment about a parent not wanting to participate in their kids formative years is just judgmental. Boarding school might not be right for your family but that doesn’t give you permission to say that parents who do feel it is right are wrong. |
It’s right for the right kind of candidate. Clearly not your kid. |
I totally understand the previous poster about wanting child to have an environment where air wasn’t sucked out. Have a bit of that here too. I’m certain other very good reasons as well.
I am nosey though, are there many families that seem like they just want to more hands-off? How prevalent is that? I know it’s more common in other parts of the world and doesn’t have a negative connotation. |
Do you think going to an American school abroad could be a hook, say somewhere in UK? |
Some good stuff on this in other places: https://www.reddit.com/r/ApplyingToCollege/s/Qf6jTjYv5H https://www.reddit.com/r/ApplyingToCollege/s/Pf9jMno1h3 https://www.reddit.com/r/ApplyingToCollege/s/fq4I9KIv9X |
Np. There are some crazy stats in this post: Where the elite study: The T30 for Selective Prep School Matriculants https://www.reddit.com/r/ApplyingToCollege/s/cbRm13RkEp |
Wow. That Reddit link makes a crazy case for his income/wealth subtly impact admissions decisions. “I also think that if there was any doubt beforehand, this further magnifies the questionable priorities that many of these institutions have. I was just at Yales admitted students days and I was surprised how it felt like one in every three or four people I met went to one of the big NE boarding schools...” |
Private college admissions & private high schools: Historically, by forming relationships with guidance counselors at wealthier high schools, colleges could be statistically sure that on average, and over time, they would receive a more affluent applicant pool, which made it easier to stretch their financial aid budgets. this is important bc beginning in the 1990s college administrators decided it would be good marketing for them to financially support all admitted students, but it's easier to keep that promise when the financial need of the class is low, or at least trends steadily year to year. this is why you didn't see many recruiting trips of elite college AOs to very low-income parts of the country - not because it's a bad idea, but because it would put extra strain on the financial aid pool. |
Sigh... no one doubts the stats show wealthy students are over-represented at elite schools. It's because they have every advantage and make better candidates independent of their ability to pay tuition. They are a self-selecting sample. The question is will an admissions officer at a need blind college admit one student over another because of the "signal" that they will be full pay. The answer remains "No". |