Swinging in relationships

[Anonymous]

My wife and I have swung on and off for about 10 years. We've had a lot of fun but sometimes it's hard to set up. In fact, the only problem we have ever had is the difficulty in finding another couple where the attraction is mutual. Getting 4 people to agree on something like that is tough, and we are objectively attractive!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't. We tried. We were currently waiting for divorce paperwork to be finalized.

Thank you for sharing.
It does seem like a slippery slope that has a high chance of dissolving a marriage.

another positive...

lol. You’re bad.

[Anonymous]

Maybe I am that weird man in the modern era. I will never be able to have sex with my wife again if she lets another man fu**k her. And for the swingy women out there, it doesn't bother you seeing your man giving it the another woman on all 4s. Ya'll are a bunch of sexually liberated people let me tell ya lol

[Anonymous]

Are single men allowed at these swing clubs? And do you find these clubs? I am single guy 38 in amazing shape good stamina and I am loving the single life with no attachment. I need to attend one of these or I'll be happy to regularly screw some married lady whose husband's Johnson isn:t working anymore lol

[Anonymous]

The non-trashy sex clubs require men to be invited by a woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are single men allowed at these swing clubs? And do you find these clubs? I am single guy 38 in amazing shape good stamina and I am loving the single life with no attachment. I need to attend one of these or I'll be happy to regularly screw some married lady whose husband's Johnson isn:t working anymore lol

It’s in CO but single men are allowed.

$300 entry fee for Saturday. $20 entry fee for single woman LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are single men allowed at these swing clubs? And do you find these clubs? I am single guy 38 in amazing shape good stamina and I am loving the single life with no attachment. I need to attend one of these or I'll be happy to regularly screw some married lady whose husband's Johnson isn:t working anymore lol

It’s in CO but single men are allowed.

$300 entry fee for Saturday. $20 entry fee for single woman LOL

https://www.scarletranch.com/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seems logistically to complicated for many reasons. The biggest one would be meeting just regular, normal people. The second would be finding a couple with everyone attracted to everyone. Also finding time to devote to this as well. Seems like one of those things that sounds good in theory but the practical implementation gets messy.

I've always wondered how you approach this with another couple. Nobody has ever approached us (I guess we're not hot enough?) and I can't imagine making things awkward with any of our couple friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't. We tried. We were currently waiting for divorce paperwork to be finalized.

Thank you for sharing.
It does seem like a slippery slope that has a high chance of dissolving a marriage.

another positive...

lol. You’re bad.

Yes, the ladies like "bad." You know this!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Seems logistically to complicated for many reasons. The biggest one would be meeting just regular, normal people. The second would be finding a couple with everyone attracted to everyone. Also finding time to devote to this as well. Seems like one of those things that sounds good in theory but the practical implementation gets messy.

I've always wondered how you approach this with another couple. Nobody has ever approached us (I guess we're not hot enough?) and I can't imagine making things awkward with any of our couple friends.

You meet people in the scene, you don't make things weird with people you already know or random strangers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I brought it up to DH. He thought it was hot and so did I.

The trend I'm seeing here is that it's hot when the woman brings it up, but not when the man brings it up.

Yes. 100%.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe I am that weird man in the modern era. I will never be able to have sex with my wife again if she lets another man fu**k her. And for the swingy women out there, it doesn't bother you seeing your man giving it the another woman on all 4s. Ya'll are a bunch of sexually liberated people let me tell ya lol

I don't think you're weird. But you may be an outlier among those who post in this particular thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe I am that weird man in the modern era. I will never be able to have sex with my wife again if she lets another man fu**k her. And for the swingy women out there, it doesn't bother you seeing your man giving it the another woman on all 4s. Ya'll are a bunch of sexually liberated people let me tell ya lol

I don't think you're weird. But you may be an outlier among those who post in this particular thread.

PP man - I'm with you. I can't have sex with a man if I know he's f...ing other women at the same time, leaving alone watching him f..k someone in front of me.

As to swinging, I'm in my 40s. There are SO FEW men in their 40-50s that I'm attracted to physically! I'm in a good shape, but men often are overweight, bold, lazy etc. It takes me 6 months on average to find a single man on dating apps who I would want to have sex with. I can't imagine logistics of finding 2 couples where everyone is attractive to everyone

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Seems logistically to complicated for many reasons. The biggest one would be meeting just regular, normal people. The second would be finding a couple with everyone attracted to everyone. Also finding time to devote to this as well. Seems like one of those things that sounds good in theory but the practical implementation gets messy.

I've always wondered how you approach this with another couple. Nobody has ever approached us (I guess we're not hot enough?) and I can't imagine making things awkward with any of our couple friends.

You meet people in the scene, you don't make things weird with people you already know or random strangers.

But aren't people on the scene random strangers? How do you know they are not having genital herpes, for example, or other deceases?

[Anonymous]

Not swinging, but my dh has brought up me being a hotwife before... I'm not into sleeping with other people, but he sure wouldn't mind if I did. In fantasy anyway, real life doesnt always work out so perfectly/happily once its done.