Interpret this text please - AITA?

[Anonymous]

You sound very dramatic, and easily offended. Don't create a problem where there isn't one.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm in my 50s and hate talking on the phone. My DH WFH and I text him to ask a question. I love texting.

But, sending a flower instead of answering is definitely this guy's way of not committing to an answer about tomorrow. To his credit, he didn't not text at all. Plenty of people do that.

OP, you might not be a good fit for this.

You may have misread the OP. Not only did he commit, he actually suggested they hang out tomorrow. OP confirmed.

OP here: No, I suggested we hang out tomorrow. He did not suggest it. And he did not commit - later when we texted he said he couldn't do tomorrow. He committed to next week.

All before the flower?

I said I was free to hang out tomorrow. And next weekend.
Flower.
I said my feelings were hurt.
As part of his response he said tomorrow wouldn't work.

So you got a response but still decided to come here to carry on and see if you are justified in continuing your tantrum.

Are you divorced?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm in my 50s and hate talking on the phone. My DH WFH and I text him to ask a question. I love texting.

But, sending a flower instead of answering is definitely this guy's way of not committing to an answer about tomorrow. To his credit, he didn't not text at all. Plenty of people do that.

OP, you might not be a good fit for this.

You may have misread the OP. Not only did he commit, he actually suggested they hang out tomorrow. OP confirmed.

OP here: No, I suggested we hang out tomorrow. He did not suggest it. And he did not commit - later when we texted he said he couldn't do tomorrow. He committed to next week.

All before the flower?

I said I was free to hang out tomorrow. And next weekend.
Flower.
I said my feelings were hurt.
As part of his response he said tomorrow wouldn't work.

OP - you are troll or very bad at communication. This is not what was said in the OP or first couple pages of responses.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm in my 50s and hate talking on the phone. My DH WFH and I text him to ask a question. I love texting.

But, sending a flower instead of answering is definitely this guy's way of not committing to an answer about tomorrow. To his credit, he didn't not text at all. Plenty of people do that.

OP, you might not be a good fit for this.

You may have misread the OP. Not only did he commit, he actually suggested they hang out tomorrow. OP confirmed.

OP here: No, I suggested we hang out tomorrow. He did not suggest it. And he did not commit - later when we texted he said he couldn't do tomorrow. He committed to next week.

Based on your posts, which have everyone confused, maybe written communication is not the best option going forward. Try calling next time

Wow. I am the PP you misread. I didn't misread (as confirmed by OP.) You clearly continue to misread. So I would say your written comprehension is not the best. So maybe dial it back a bit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm in my 50s and hate talking on the phone. My DH WFH and I text him to ask a question. I love texting.

But, sending a flower instead of answering is definitely this guy's way of not committing to an answer about tomorrow. To his credit, he didn't not text at all. Plenty of people do that.

OP, you might not be a good fit for this.

You may have misread the OP. Not only did he commit, he actually suggested they hang out tomorrow. OP confirmed.

OP here: No, I suggested we hang out tomorrow. He did not suggest it. And he did not commit - later when we texted he said he couldn't do tomorrow. He committed to next week.

Based on your posts, which have everyone confused, maybe written communication is not the best option going forward. Try calling next time

Wow. I am the PP you misread. I didn't misread (as confirmed by OP.) You clearly continue to misread. So I would say your written comprehension is not the best. So maybe dial it back a bit.

There are multiple people with different interpretations which means OP wasn’t clear.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm in my 50s and hate talking on the phone. My DH WFH and I text him to ask a question. I love texting.

But, sending a flower instead of answering is definitely this guy's way of not committing to an answer about tomorrow. To his credit, he didn't not text at all. Plenty of people do that.

OP, you might not be a good fit for this.

You may have misread the OP. Not only did he commit, he actually suggested they hang out tomorrow. OP confirmed.

OP here: No, I suggested we hang out tomorrow. He did not suggest it. And he did not commit - later when we texted he said he couldn't do tomorrow. He committed to next week.

All before the flower?

I said I was free to hang out tomorrow. And next weekend.
Flower.
I said my feelings were hurt.
As part of his response he said tomorrow wouldn't work.

OP - you are troll or very bad at communication. This is not what was said in the OP or first couple pages of responses.

Wow, everyone must be drinking tonight. OP said exactly what she said she said.

Saturday night posts are some of my favorites for people being so self-righteously wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm in my 50s and hate talking on the phone. My DH WFH and I text him to ask a question. I love texting.

But, sending a flower instead of answering is definitely this guy's way of not committing to an answer about tomorrow. To his credit, he didn't not text at all. Plenty of people do that.

OP, you might not be a good fit for this.

You may have misread the OP. Not only did he commit, he actually suggested they hang out tomorrow. OP confirmed.

OP here: No, I suggested we hang out tomorrow. He did not suggest it. And he did not commit - later when we texted he said he couldn't do tomorrow. He committed to next week.

Based on your posts, which have everyone confused, maybe written communication is not the best option going forward. Try calling next time

Wow. I am the PP you misread. I didn't misread (as confirmed by OP.) You clearly continue to misread. So I would say your written comprehension is not the best. So maybe dial it back a bit.

There are multiple people with different interpretations which means OP wasn’t clear.

Saturday evening reading comprehension is frequently not great.

[Anonymous]

You seem 15, not 50.

[Anonymous]

I would drop you in a hurry if you responded so negatively, OP. Yes, unfortuntely, YATA. If you think he needs to work on his communication, then you definitely need to work on your emotions and reactions.

[Anonymous]

If he couldn't meet the next day, then that's what he should have said. He was clearly avoiding a real response by sending a picture of a flower. OP, this is a red flag and you know this. That's why you felt "hurt". I don't think you're TA. Don't stick around for him to keep doing this to you.

[Anonymous]

Just pick up the phone and call.
Texts are fine but only up to a point

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm in my 50s and hate talking on the phone. My DH WFH and I text him to ask a question. I love texting.

But, sending a flower instead of answering is definitely this guy's way of not committing to an answer about tomorrow. To his credit, he didn't not text at all. Plenty of people do that.

OP, you might not be a good fit for this.

You may have misread the OP. Not only did he commit, he actually suggested they hang out tomorrow. OP confirmed.

OP here: No, I suggested we hang out tomorrow. He did not suggest it. And he did not commit - later when we texted he said he couldn't do tomorrow. He committed to next week.

All before the flower?

I said I was free to hang out tomorrow. And next weekend.
Flower.
I said my feelings were hurt.
As part of his response he said tomorrow wouldn't work.

I understood all of this

[Anonymous]

I don’t think text is the best way to communicate hurt feelings. But I also think his initial response (the flower) was kind of dopey and evasive. How are things when the two of you are together?

[Anonymous]

Uhh…he is the a. When someone tells you that they are free to get together tomorrow if you are available, then your next response should be whether or not you are available.

This is true in any context.

[Anonymous]

OP is cognitively off-kilter. Let this thread end.