Why is Dakota Johnson wasting her time with Chris Martin?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She has been dating Chris Martin for years now and is in her mid thirties while he is pushing 50. He already has 2 kids is divorced. Why is she wasting her fertility on this old guy who already has kids?

I also find it strange how many beautiful wealthy actresses there are wasting what’s left of their fertility away. Dakota is rich, dating an even richer man, plenty old enough, and both have a lot of leisure time — why would she not be trying to have kids? It makes no sense. But she’s hardly alone in Hollywood. Childless actresses off the top of my head whose fertility window is closing or closed:

Brie Larson, Sofia Vergara, Margot Robbie (lies about her age), Aubrey Plaza, Emma Watson, all of the Olson sisters… on and on.

Makes perfect sense to me why the Olsen sisters don’t have kids. They seem deeply impacted by the way they grew up. I get the feeling they’ve never been in a place where they didn’t feel ambiguous about the stability of their lives and how they could raise a child whose childhood wasn’t messed up like theirs.

There is one relentless poster on this thread and others who gets angry when people speculate why mid-late thirties female actresses don’t seem to be pursuing parenthood. The answer is because celebrity or not, women don’t have forever to make the decision like a man does, which said poster does not seem to understand. It’s fine if someone doesn’t want to have kids, but it’s a fair question to ask about women of a certain age who need to at least preserve their fertility - ideally with a partner- even if they do want kids down the road. Said poster also makes it seem like it’s impossible for an established, thirty something woman to maintain her Hollywood career while having kids, which is just so inaccurate- see Reese Witherspoon, cate blanchett, Kate winslet, Nicole Kidman, and countless others.

Why is it any of your concern? They might not want kids and you just said that it’s fine if they don’t.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She has been dating Chris Martin for years now and is in her mid thirties while he is pushing 50. He already has 2 kids is divorced. Why is she wasting her fertility on this old guy who already has kids?

I also find it strange how many beautiful wealthy actresses there are wasting what’s left of their fertility away. Dakota is rich, dating an even richer man, plenty old enough, and both have a lot of leisure time — why would she not be trying to have kids? It makes no sense. But she’s hardly alone in Hollywood. Childless actresses off the top of my head whose fertility window is closing or closed:

Brie Larson, Sofia Vergara, Margot Robbie (lies about her age), Aubrey Plaza, Emma Watson, all of the Olson sisters… on and on.

Makes perfect sense to me why the Olsen sisters don’t have kids. They seem deeply impacted by the way they grew up. I get the feeling they’ve never been in a place where they didn’t feel ambiguous about the stability of their lives and how they could raise a child whose childhood wasn’t messed up like theirs.

There is one relentless poster on this thread and others who gets angry when people speculate why mid-late thirties female actresses don’t seem to be pursuing parenthood. The answer is because celebrity or not, women don’t have forever to make the decision like a man does, which said poster does not seem to understand. It’s fine if someone doesn’t want to have kids, but it’s a fair question to ask about women of a certain age who need to at least preserve their fertility - ideally with a partner- even if they do want kids down the road. Said poster also makes it seem like it’s impossible for an established, thirty something woman to maintain her Hollywood career while having kids, which is just so inaccurate- see Reese Witherspoon, cate blanchett, Kate winslet, Nicole Kidman, and countless others.

Why is it any of your concern? They might not want kids and you just said that it’s fine if they don’t.

Why is anything about celebrities lives of others concern? It’s because they live public lives.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He split with her when she wouldn't marry him and have kids. then they got back together

not everyone has dreams of being a suburban housewife

He actually wanted more kids?

He has an Apple, he wants an Orange.

Or maybe he wants a Peach.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She grew up with Melanie Griffith’s extreme neediness, constant drama and instability. That would do a number on any kid, and affect their view of relationships.

+ 1 million

[Anonymous]

She's the adult child of addicts. Her parents started a relationship when her mom was 14 and he was 22. Ew. Then both her parents had multiple marriages and divorces. I wouldn't wish her childhood on anyone. Now she's involved with an older, divorced dad. It's probably best if she remains childless. I hope she finds peace.

[Anonymous]

I never wanted children. Got pregnant in collage , despite being on BC. Aborted as I was not ready and the father showed up with a new date one week after the procedure. I’ve never regretted having a child. My nephew is fabulous and he can carry on the family line.

[Anonymous]

Oh geez, college. I had to address that before the Harpies came after me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh geez, college. I had to address that before the Harpies came after me.

Also screwed up saying not regret NOT having a child. I really need to check “preview”.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She has been dating Chris Martin for years now and is in her mid thirties while he is pushing 50. He already has 2 kids is divorced. Why is she wasting her fertility on this old guy who already has kids?

I also find it strange how many beautiful wealthy actresses there are wasting what’s left of their fertility away. Dakota is rich, dating an even richer man, plenty old enough, and both have a lot of leisure time — why would she not be trying to have kids? It makes no sense. But she’s hardly alone in Hollywood. Childless actresses off the top of my head whose fertility window is closing or closed:

Brie Larson, Sofia Vergara, Margot Robbie (lies about her age), Aubrey Plaza, Emma Watson, all of the Olson sisters… on and on.

Makes perfect sense to me why the Olsen sisters don’t have kids. They seem deeply impacted by the way they grew up. I get the feeling they’ve never been in a place where they didn’t feel ambiguous about the stability of their lives and how they could raise a child whose childhood wasn’t messed up like theirs.

There is one relentless poster on this thread and others who gets angry when people speculate why mid-late thirties female actresses don’t seem to be pursuing parenthood. The answer is because celebrity or not, women don’t have forever to make the decision like a man does, which said poster does not seem to understand. It’s fine if someone doesn’t want to have kids, but it’s a fair question to ask about women of a certain age who need to at least preserve their fertility - ideally with a partner- even if they do want kids down the road. Said poster also makes it seem like it’s impossible for an established, thirty something woman to maintain her Hollywood career while having kids, which is just so inaccurate- see Reese Witherspoon, cate blanchett, Kate winslet, Nicole Kidman, and countless others.

Why is it any of your concern? They might not want kids and you just said that it’s fine if they don’t.

Why is anything about celebrities lives of others concern? It’s because they live public lives.

No, they don’t. They are public *performers* and you falsely believe that gives you some right to their personal lives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He split with her when she wouldn't marry him and have kids. then they got back together

not everyone has dreams of being a suburban housewife

He actually wanted more kids?

He has an Apple, he wants an Orange.

Or maybe he wants a Peach.

And maybe she just wants the Banana.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She has been dating Chris Martin for years now and is in her mid thirties while he is pushing 50. He already has 2 kids is divorced. Why is she wasting her fertility on this old guy who already has kids?

ITA.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He split with her when she wouldn't marry him and have kids. then they got back together

not everyone has dreams of being a suburban housewife

He actually wanted more kids?

He has an Apple, he wants an Orange.

Or maybe he wants a Peach.

And maybe she just wants the Banana.

He doesn't look like he'd have a good banana.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She has been dating Chris Martin for years now and is in her mid thirties while he is pushing 50. He already has 2 kids is divorced. Why is she wasting her fertility on this old guy who already has kids?

I also find it strange how many beautiful wealthy actresses there are wasting what’s left of their fertility away. Dakota is rich, dating an even richer man, plenty old enough, and both have a lot of leisure time — why would she not be trying to have kids? It makes no sense. But she’s hardly alone in Hollywood. Childless actresses off the top of my head whose fertility window is closing or closed:

Brie Larson, Sofia Vergara, Margot Robbie (lies about her age), Aubrey Plaza, Emma Watson, all of the Olson sisters… on and on.

Makes perfect sense to me why the Olsen sisters don’t have kids. They seem deeply impacted by the way they grew up. I get the feeling they’ve never been in a place where they didn’t feel ambiguous about the stability of their lives and how they could raise a child whose childhood wasn’t messed up like theirs.

There is one relentless poster on this thread and others who gets angry when people speculate why mid-late thirties female actresses don’t seem to be pursuing parenthood. The answer is because celebrity or not, women don’t have forever to make the decision like a man does, which said poster does not seem to understand. It’s fine if someone doesn’t want to have kids, but it’s a fair question to ask about women of a certain age who need to at least preserve their fertility - ideally with a partner- even if they do want kids down the road. Said poster also makes it seem like it’s impossible for an established, thirty something woman to maintain her Hollywood career while having kids, which is just so inaccurate- see Reese Witherspoon, cate blanchett, Kate winslet, Nicole Kidman, and countless others.

Why is it any of your concern? They might not want kids and you just said that it’s fine if they don’t.

Why is anything about celebrities lives of others concern? It’s because they live public lives.

No, they don’t. They are public *performers* and you falsely believe that gives you some right to their personal lives.

Lol, okay. Fame is entirely what keeps them relevant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She has been dating Chris Martin for years now and is in her mid thirties while he is pushing 50. He already has 2 kids is divorced. Why is she wasting her fertility on this old guy who already has kids?

I also find it strange how many beautiful wealthy actresses there are wasting what’s left of their fertility away. Dakota is rich, dating an even richer man, plenty old enough, and both have a lot of leisure time — why would she not be trying to have kids? It makes no sense. But she’s hardly alone in Hollywood. Childless actresses off the top of my head whose fertility window is closing or closed:

Brie Larson, Sofia Vergara, Margot Robbie (lies about her age), Aubrey Plaza, Emma Watson, all of the Olson sisters… on and on.

Makes perfect sense to me why the Olsen sisters don’t have kids. They seem deeply impacted by the way they grew up. I get the feeling they’ve never been in a place where they didn’t feel ambiguous about the stability of their lives and how they could raise a child whose childhood wasn’t messed up like theirs.

There is one relentless poster on this thread and others who gets angry when people speculate why mid-late thirties female actresses don’t seem to be pursuing parenthood. The answer is because celebrity or not, women don’t have forever to make the decision like a man does, which said poster does not seem to understand. It’s fine if someone doesn’t want to have kids, but it’s a fair question to ask about women of a certain age who need to at least preserve their fertility - ideally with a partner- even if they do want kids down the road. Said poster also makes it seem like it’s impossible for an established, thirty something woman to maintain her Hollywood career while having kids, which is just so inaccurate- see Reese Witherspoon, cate blanchett, Kate winslet, Nicole Kidman, and countless others.

Why is it any of your concern? They might not want kids and you just said that it’s fine if they don’t.

Why is anything about celebrities lives of others concern? It’s because they live public lives.

No, they don’t. They are public *performers* and you falsely believe that gives you some right to their personal lives.

Lol, okay. Fame is entirely what keeps them relevant.

She is an actor. Sometimes she makes public appearances. That's the extent of her job. Everything else is her personal life and NOYB.

[Anonymous]

Could someone with more braincells explain this thread? There are and always have been tons of childless women in the entertainment industry. If DJ never breeds, who would notice or care? It would be a pretty typical outcome. CM seems decent enough to be a life partner and his kids are mostly grown.