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Anonymous wrote:It's easy to get upset when your kid isn't get selected on things especially if you feel like the kids that got selected over and over again aren't living up to the standard. Truth is, you just never know why certain kid get selected and you will never know. There's 0 transparency in youth soccer at club level and at national level. Hopefully your kid takes it as a life lesson and work harder as that will pay off later in life in some other way.
In an ideal world, what specific transparency information would you want?
Ideally, the coach would say at the beginning of the season "these are the criteria I use to make talent ID recommendations". But they won't because it's better for them not to. Even if they did give some reasonably sounding criteria like work ethic, skills, attitude, etc. it's still a subjective assessment at the end of the day. The same way your boss won't say why Bob got the promotion but you didn't.
bu bu but i cant make deals in the dark if i set criteria and tell the team. Subjective assessments are BS when VEO exists and your DC os confident they are outworking peers in practice.
DMV soccer at least in the age group will go no where without winning team combinations and parents and programs willing to put in the marketing energy for the WHOLE team.
Its no wonder there are no call backs outside less than a handful of kids. I dont know how some of yall put up with it and pay $$ for it.
Anways what ever happened w the make up session. Could it be ruffling feathers before and after dropping balls doesn’t always work out?
Seriously Ive never seen this before. A whole session was added and disappeared overnight. Was a message sent to the MA?!