Cheater's future?

[Anonymous]

I has 3 boyfriends in my past who cheated and as soon as I found out I split immediately. Anyways, one of the three has remarried and I legitimately feel sorry for his wife. When you hear of a cheater dating again how do you feel? Personally, I'd love to write her and tell her she is probably a saint for agreeing to suffer for the long haul! I really don't think some people get better but stay ruthlessly self centered.

[Anonymous]

Crazy Ex much?

You want to write a letter to an ex's partner just to say how big a douchebag your ex is? No wonder three guys stepped out on you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Crazy Ex much?

You want to write a letter to an ex's partner just to say how big a douchebag your ex is? No wonder three guys stepped out on you.

Such a mean girl thing to say. Women are the worst. You've definitely been cheated on too with that logic, charm school.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Crazy Ex much?

You want to write a letter to an ex's partner just to say how big a douchebag your ex is? No wonder three guys stepped out on you.

Such a mean girl thing to say. Women are the worst. You've definitely been cheated on too with that logic, charm school.

LOL. You couldn't be farther from the truth. Man. Married. Never cheated on.

News flash- they're your EXES. Let it go. Live your life and let them live theirs. Why the fuck would you try to sabotage someone else's marriage?

[Anonymous]

Be happy for them, OP.

[Anonymous]

Just sit back and enjoy the shit show OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Crazy Ex much?

You want to write a letter to an ex's partner just to say how big a douchebag your ex is? No wonder three guys stepped out on you.

Such a mean girl thing to say. Women are the worst. You've definitely been cheated on too with that logic, charm school.

LOL. You couldn't be farther from the truth. Man. Married. Never cheated on.

News flash- they're your EXES. Let it go. Live your life and let them live theirs. Why the fuck would you try to sabotage someone else's marriage?

You never really know...

[Anonymous]

OP why would you feel sorry for her when you don't know anything about the nature of their relationship? Just because YOUR relationship with Mr. Ex wasn't what you had hoped that doesn't mean her relationship with him is destined to be equally disappointing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP why would you feel sorry for her when you don't know anything about the nature of their relationship? Just because YOUR relationship with Mr. Ex wasn't what you had hoped that doesn't mean her relationship with him is destined to be equally disappointing.

People hold on to the "once a cheater, always a cheater" mantra way too tightly.

Maybe these people have grown up? OP, move up and move on!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I has 3 boyfriends in my past who cheated and as soon as I found out I split immediately. Anyways, one of the three has remarried and I legitimately feel sorry for his wife. When you hear of a cheater dating again how do you feel? Personally, I'd love to write her and tell her she is probably a saint for agreeing to suffer for the long haul! I really don't think some people get better but stay ruthlessly self centered.

Uh. You worry about you.

[Anonymous]

A lot of people (men especially) cheat on many women and then turn a corner and straighten up. Either they are ready to "settle down" or they've matured or they find someone they just don't want to mess around on. MANY married men have cheated in previous relationships, ages 18-28 especially are no ones dignified years!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP why would you feel sorry for her when you don't know anything about the nature of their relationship? Just because YOUR relationship with Mr. Ex wasn't what you had hoped that doesn't mean her relationship with him is destined to be equally disappointing.

This. I know a now reformed cheater. It happens.

[Anonymous]

Or maybe he's in an open marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A lot of people (men especially) cheat on many women and then turn a corner and straighten up. Either they are ready to "settle down" or they've matured or they find someone they just don't want to mess around on. MANY married men have cheated in previous relationships, ages 18-28 especially are no ones dignified years!

you had me until "men especially." The women sampled here are equally guilty. Stop playing "victim women" and spell out the truth. The cheating is done by both genders and pretty damn equally. Men may get caught more, but women are doing it and having other men's kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A lot of people (men especially) cheat on many women and then turn a corner and straighten up. Either they are ready to "settle down" or they've matured or they find someone they just don't want to mess around on. MANY married men have cheated in previous relationships, ages 18-28 especially are no ones dignified years!

you had me until "men especially." The women sampled here are equally guilty. Stop playing "victim women" and spell out the truth. The cheating is done by both genders and pretty damn equally. Men may get caught more, but women are doing it and having other men's kids.

Apparently about 10% of the time. Imagine coming home to a family every day and a wife KNOWING that the child you love as your own is not your child.