38F - OLD apps: not getting any matches

[Anonymous]

OP, what is your policy regarding guys who wear hats? That's the issue I'm dealing with myself. TIA

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think great core probably refers to six pack abs.

And short little legs?

I saw a 9.5 inch dick on a guy who was 5’9”. He was basically a human tripod.

Mom?

Yes, sweetie?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
UVA grad making 130k ...

Must have undergrad and/or graduate degree
Height: 5’9 - 6’4
[age 37-50]
Open to children
Distance: 30 miles

Single white men 5'9"+ age 37-50 making $130k+ are only 1% of the population. This does not include a graduate degree or openness to kids.

https://igotstandardsbro.com/results?minAge=37&maxAge=50&excludeMarried=true&race=1&minHeight=175.26&excludeObese=false&minIncome=130000

If you would date a 50-year-old man then a man your age might date a woman in her twenties. By comparison, single not non-overweight white women under 5'9" age 27-40 are 9% of the population.

https://realitycalc.com/results/age1=27&age2=40&excludeMarried=true&excludeMothers=false&race=false,false,false,false,white&height1=48&height2=69&excludeObese=false&excludeOverweight=false&income=0&incomeType=false&

If you do not start trying for one or two years then you will have a child in your forties. A 38-year-old man would prefer a woman under 35 to avoid fertility problems.

Um Wow, why are you limiting stats to just the white race?

[Anonymous]

Wow. No wonder I get so many likes from women who would have been out of my league when I was in my 20s!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow. No wonder I get so many likes from women who would have been out of my league when I was in my 20s!

And what happens when they learn you're still awkward?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow. No wonder I get so many likes from women who would have been out of my league when I was in my 20s!

And what happens when they learn you're still awkward?

They overlook that because of their biological clocks and then twenty-five years later brag about their "grey divorce."

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You sound high maintenance with that profile. You are short and want a tall man? You want more children? Slow down, you are not even divorced yet.

Guys might see this as a big red flag.

I don’t have any children as my exhusband never wanted any. I’d like to explore love with someone who is open to children.

The fact that you want children is probably a plus, I am 30 and don't want more kids which makes things rough. My 2 kids don't tend to deter too many people- it's the fact I don't want more that turns them away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound high maintenance with that profile. You are short and want a tall man? You want more children? Slow down, you are not even divorced yet.

Guys might see this as a big red flag.

I don’t have any children as my exhusband never wanted any. I’d like to explore love with someone who is open to children.

The fact that you want children is probably a plus, I am 30 and don't want more kids which makes things rough. My 2 kids don't tend to deter too many people- it's the fact I don't want more that turns them away.

You’re 30, though. Op is 38.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
UVA grad making 130k ...

Must have undergrad and/or graduate degree
Height: 5’9 - 6’4
[age 37-50]
Open to children
Distance: 30 miles

Single white men 5'9"+ age 37-50 making $130k+ are only 1% of the population. This does not include a graduate degree or openness to kids.

https://igotstandardsbro.com/results?minAge=37&maxAge=50&excludeMarried=true&race=1&minHeight=175.26&excludeObese=false&minIncome=130000

If you would date a 50-year-old man then a man your age might date a woman in her twenties. By comparison, single not non-overweight white women under 5'9" age 27-40 are 9% of the population.

https://realitycalc.com/results/age1=27&age2=40&excludeMarried=true&excludeMothers=false&race=false,false,false,false,white&height1=48&height2=69&excludeObese=false&excludeOverweight=false&income=0&incomeType=false&

If you do not start trying for one or two years then you will have a child in your forties. A 38-year-old man would prefer a woman under 35 to avoid fertility problems.

Um Wow, why are you limiting stats to just the white race?

Why shouldn't she!? There is nothing wrong with having a racial preference. There is absolutely nothing racist about that. I have plenty of black friends that don't want to date white people, and that doesn't make them racist. I swear, DC liberals are the dumbest people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
UVA grad making 130k ...

Must have undergrad and/or graduate degree
Height: 5’9 - 6’4
[age 37-50]
Open to children
Distance: 30 miles

Single white men 5'9"+ age 37-50 making $130k+ are only 1% of the population. This does not include a graduate degree or openness to kids.

https://igotstandardsbro.com/results?minAge=37&maxAge=50&excludeMarried=true&race=1&minHeight=175.26&excludeObese=false&minIncome=130000

If you would date a 50-year-old man then a man your age might date a woman in her twenties. By comparison, single not non-overweight white women under 5'9" age 27-40 are 9% of the population.

https://realitycalc.com/results/age1=27&age2=40&excludeMarried=true&excludeMothers=false&race=false,false,false,false,white&height1=48&height2=69&excludeObese=false&excludeOverweight=false&income=0&incomeType=false&

If you do not start trying for one or two years then you will have a child in your forties. A 38-year-old man would prefer a woman under 35 to avoid fertility problems.

Um Wow, why are you limiting stats to just the white race?

Why shouldn't she!? There is nothing wrong with having a racial preference. There is absolutely nothing racist about that. I have plenty of black friends that don't want to date white people, and that doesn't make them racist. I swear, DC liberals are the dumbest people.

OP didn’t limit herself. The poster providing statistics did. It’s a reflection that the vast majority posters don’t even stop to consider the non-white population exists and that it’s 2025 and many many people date interracially, your statement about your “plenty of black friends” notwithstanding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
UVA grad making 130k ...

Must have undergrad and/or graduate degree
Height: 5’9 - 6’4
[age 37-50]
Open to children
Distance: 30 miles

Single white men 5'9"+ age 37-50 making $130k+ are only 1% of the population. This does not include a graduate degree or openness to kids.

https://igotstandardsbro.com/results?minAge=37&maxAge=50&excludeMarried=true&race=1&minHeight=175.26&excludeObese=false&minIncome=130000

If you would date a 50-year-old man then a man your age might date a woman in her twenties. By comparison, single not non-overweight white women under 5'9" age 27-40 are 9% of the population.

https://realitycalc.com/results/age1=27&age2=40&excludeMarried=true&excludeMothers=false&race=false,false,false,false,white&height1=48&height2=69&excludeObese=false&excludeOverweight=false&income=0&incomeType=false&

If you do not start trying for one or two years then you will have a child in your forties. A 38-year-old man would prefer a woman under 35 to avoid fertility problems.

Um Wow, why are you limiting stats to just the white race?

Why shouldn't she!? There is nothing wrong with having a racial preference. There is absolutely nothing racist about that. I have plenty of black friends that don't want to date white people, and that doesn't make them racist. I swear, DC liberals are the dumbest people.

OP didn’t limit herself. The poster providing statistics did. It’s a reflection that the vast majority posters don’t even stop to consider the non-white population exists and that it’s 2025 and many many people date interracially, your statement about your “plenty of black friends” notwithstanding.

This.

That person definitely told on themselves by bringing up racism and just focusing on black people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Single white men 5'9"+ age 37-50 making $130k+ are only 1% of the population. This does not include a graduate degree or openness to kids.

https://igotstandardsbro.com/results?minAge=37&maxAge=50&excludeMarried=true&race=1&minHeight=175.26&excludeObese=false&minIncome=130000

Anonymous wrote:why are you limiting stats to just the white race?

Since the calculator lacks options for education and kids, I substituted the broadest racial restriction. Removing this restriction raises the proportion of men from 1.1% to a whopping 1.4%.

Luckily another calculator will work! www.keeper.ai/calc says men 37-50 are 19% of the population. Including height, income, and unmarried reduces this to .36%, which is 1.9% of the men in this age group. Additionally including "wants kids" and "masters degree" decreases it to .20%, which is 1.1% of this age group, identical to my original estimate.

Instead of denying reality and screaming about racism, just admit you are an aging spinster because 1) you are picky and 2) most high-income men are already married. A 38-year-old man can date women in their thirties and even upper-twenties. These men have a lot more options than you.

Finally, I required $130k+ based on OP's income. But lowering income to $80k will triple the available men from 1.4% to 4.2%.

https://igotstandardsbro.com/results?minAge=37&maxAge=50&excludeMarried=true&race=0&minHeight=175.26&excludeObese=false&minIncome=130000

https://igotstandardsbro.com/results?minAge=37&maxAge=50&excludeMarried=true&race=0&minHeight=175.26&excludeObese=false&minIncome=80000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have been on the apps on and off since I separated from my STBXH. I am looking to gently dip a toe in dating and…it’s not going well!

My stats:

5’0 118lbs
Brunette with nice skin and classic style
UVA grad making 130k
I am told I am quite pretty and sweet. I have no idea why I’m receiving no matches!

It is very demoralizing. [/quote
Wish I could learn more about you. 6'1", 200 lbs. white guy, in good shape, super clean, masculine and make 250K+. Funny, no ego but confident, and very very normal.

Op here. Let’s meet for coffee ☺️

[Anonymous]

Goodtime wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have been on the apps on and off since I separated from my STBXH. I am looking to gently dip a toe in dating and…it’s not going well!

My stats:

5’0 118lbs
Brunette with nice skin and classic style
UVA grad making 130k
I am told I am quite pretty and sweet. I have no idea why I’m receiving no matches!

It is very demoralizing.

You sound like you have a lot going for yourself. I’d love to have a conversation and get to know you. Possibly have dinner if that goes well.

This is OP. That is sweet. I’d like that! 😀

[Anonymous]

Op here, for all the men here who have expressed an interest in me, and if you are serious, please reach out! I’d love to connect! 🥰