It depends on personal preference. If you want to live in a big city with vibrant life outside the campus, things to do, more of a real life feel, then you’d hate the small college town experience. Most people that went to Yale, Princeton, or Dartmouth say it’s boring and sheltered. Living off campus has its own advantages for example living with the boyfriend/girlfriend, some of the best parties. Some just don’t like the undergrad dorm/frat experience. |
Yeah, you're gonna need to back up that bare assertion with some evidence. |
Okay, but we are talking about UC Berkeley, not NYU or Columbia. I wouldn't call Berkeley, California "a big city with vibrant life outside of campus." I would say that most college kids at these top schools do not have a car on campus and are not big partiers anyway. |
Within my circle of friends and acquaintances. Or you want a statistically relevant study? Ask around, talk to people, see if it’s a good fit. I say it from personal conversations with people I’ve known for years, and visited all campuses except Princeton. I know people from Yale and Dartmouth that transferred because they didn’t like it there, and it was not the academics. I also bet there are people that enjoy the experience. Why is it so hard to believe that it’s not for everyone? I couldn’t care less about guaranteed dorm rooms for the full four years of undergrad. For various reasons, many want to live on their own and don’t need a babysitter and dealing with the drama and immaturity of teens. Weird for posters to pick on the UC Berkeley library, one of the largest research libraries in the country, larger than the ones at Princeton, Stanford, MIT etc. lol at the Disney world comparison, it just shows how clueless some people are. |
Why did you say so much if you weren’t going to answer their question? |
You sound like a helicopter parent. It’s fine that you have a personal opinion about what you’d like for your child. It’s just mind boggling that you don’t fathom that others might want something different. |
What kind of evidence is to your liking, you’d want my friends phone numbers to check for yourself? Sorry, I don’t indulge internet weirdos. |
I can imagine different reasons why someone would want their kid to go to UC Berkeley over Yale, Princeton or Dartmouth, but "living with the boyfriend/girlfriend" and "best parties" are not high on my list of priorities for my kid. |
Way to move the goalposts there. Your original claim was that "most" people who attended these schools said it's boring and sheltered...not that these schools aren't for everyone. |
That was in reference to living off campus at any of those colleges. I’m glad you decided to be spokes parent for your kid, who as far as you know is a nerd that recoils at the thought of intimacy with the opposite gender while in college. Feel free to go with the most prestigious college in your circles, and find them someone you approve of in the undergrad dorms. |
This 100%. |
a great grad school. undergrad not so much |
Stanford is actually. |
This 100%. +100 Very high correlation at our Bay Area private |
+1. You don’t go to Berkeley for “a big city with Vibrant life”. Lolol! |