Hawaii: good looking ready to commit men

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Anonymous wrote:There are an equal number of beautiful women there. Unfortunately, it is very hard to make a good living there so many people work several jobs. If you are bringing your high income there and are somewhat attractive, you will find someone.

I have amazing hair that will fit beautifully with the waves there. This is happening! /s




Just need to work on my cooking and laundry and submissiveness.

No, you don’t. You’re perfect the way you are. We local ladies don’t put up with crap. Just learn local customs, be kind and respectful, share the load and you’ll be fine.

[Anonymous]

This was not my experience at all. When I lived there, the local men had a hard time making real money. They all worked multiple jobs and seemed very emeshed with their families.

My friend divorced and stayed on island. This is 10 years ago and she is still single. She couldn’t find a normal guy to date. And she’s Filipino, so she has some shared cultural history with the locals.

And to those that think everyone is thin and beautiful- not even close. The Hawaiians give new meaning to body self acceptance. Huge women on the beach all the time. I’m not a thin woman but I felt thin when I lived there.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Gotta be hard to attract women to leave their lives and families and live all the way out there. It's like the frontier in the old-timey days.

For a small bride price I'd consider it though!

Every Hawaiian 🌺 I’ve made stateside is lovely, cool, laid back. Warm communities. I dunno, maybe I could be persuaded under the right circumstances. I’d move alone first. And no PACOM contracts! Ha.

FYI, do not refer to Hawaii residents as “Hawaiians”’unless they are of Native Hawaiian ancestry.

They are. Thanks.

DP

It's the flipside of a Asian perso born in TX. Most people would not call this person a Texan.

If you are white and born in Hawaii, I guess you shouldn't be called a Hawaiian.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hawaii is a real melting pot and Pacific-Islanders are a good looking people. Yes, OP, I agree with you, if you don't mind "island time" lots of hot, family-oriented men.

To me, "island time" would be a feature!

[Anonymous]

Commit to what, OP? Sounds to me like commit to hide the sausage and not much else. Sounds like they said that as pick-up lines esp knowing you were there temporarily.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Gotta be hard to attract women to leave their lives and families and live all the way out there. It's like the frontier in the old-timey days.

For a small bride price I'd consider it though!

Every Hawaiian 🌺 I’ve made stateside is lovely, cool, laid back. Warm communities. I dunno, maybe I could be persuaded under the right circumstances. I’d move alone first. And no PACOM contracts! Ha.

FYI, do not refer to Hawaii residents as “Hawaiians”’unless they are of Native Hawaiian ancestry.

They are. Thanks.

DP

It's the flipside of a Asian perso born in TX. Most people would not call this person a Texan.

If you are white and born in Hawaii, I guess you shouldn't be called a Hawaiian.

No, if you are not of Native Hawaiian ancestry, you don’t call yourself a Hawaiian. Has nothing to do with skin color.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There are an equal number of beautiful women there. Unfortunately, it is very hard to make a good living there so many people work several jobs. If you are bringing your high income there and are somewhat attractive, you will find someone.

I have amazing hair that will fit beautifully with the waves there. This is happening! /s




Just need to work on my cooking and laundry and submissiveness.

No, you don’t. You’re perfect the way you are. We local ladies don’t put up with crap. Just learn local customs, be kind and respectful, share the load and you’ll be fine.

You are truly kind and encouraging! Thank you! I like no-mess sisters. Respect and kindness are SOP in my family, so is no BS.

PS: YAY for Door Dash, Uber Eats and Wash and Fold! Heeeheee!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hawaii is the land of good looking and friendly people. Flawless skin, hair and teeth, fit physique, beautiful. Everyone is awesome.

And they generally don't like white people.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hawaii is a real melting pot and Pacific-Islanders are a good looking people. Yes, OP, I agree with you, if you don't mind "island time" lots of hot, family-oriented men.

They tend to be a bit misogynistic.

I don't mind a bit of misogyny from hot guys. My eggs shrivel up when I encounter the DC Big-Law uglies.

[Anonymous]

Under-employed men are far more enthusiastic about marriage than common sense would suggest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Under-employed men are far more enthusiastic about marriage than common sense would suggest.

Depends on the woman, but pick an attitude:

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Actually — it doesn’t matter.
Semantics.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hawaii is the land of good looking and friendly people. Flawless skin, hair and teeth, fit physique, beautiful. Everyone is awesome.

And they generally don't like white people.

That is true.

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Anonymous wrote:We have had a barbecue- family members have brought their single friends. Don’t be a dingdong

Multiple men told you during your first conversation at a family barbecue that they are ready to commit?

some guys do this when there's not a good supply of single women around. it smacks of desperation but there you have it

Or they are just trying to get laid with a buddy's out of town cousin. Think the sweet sensitive angle is a fast track.

+1 Not sure why Op will believe this.

+20. A mainlander is easy pickings!

[Anonymous]

living on an island, everyone knows everyone or is related. Small minded, small town thinking. Very little professional opportunity outside of military or tourism. Alaska has a lot of single men too, but really not worth settling down with a surviavlist. Same story, different weather.

[Anonymous]

Be careful. Hawaii's economy is heavily tourism based so it's like a revolving door of people. Men and women there make money charming tourists who pay for things while they are there and get money from them and then are done with them upon leaving.