For example: Hyatt Regency Scottsdale offers a lot on-site (water park, cultural programs, etc.) and also shuttles for hiking. So your older child can go do something fun while the younger one naps in the room. https://www.hyatt.com/en-US/hotel/arizona/hyatt-regency-scottsdale-resort-and-spa/scott |
Great advice! |
It's not the location. It's your family and you won't ever escape them. |
Agreed! Sounds a lot like our "journey" to improve our family trips- came to almost the exact same place on prioritizing sleep to get everyone in a good place, and thus to aim for apartment/home rentals for more space and comfort, and thus, sleep. |
One of our favorite trips when the kids were little was to MDI in Maine. We stayed at one of the cabins at the KOA Waterside campground (make sure it's the waterside one, not the one closer to Bar Harbor)
Lots of very chill activities for the kids, a few short hikes, delicious ice cream. It was great. |
We didn't take many real vacations, other than to visit family or left our children behind, until the youngest was 3 or 4. |
Same. If we took vacations before age 5 at all, it was usually to visit family, or a direct flight beach vacation. |
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There are no vacations with small children. There are only trips. If you want a vacation, leave the kids with the grandparents and go with your husband somewhere. Win-win for all involved. |
This. Simplify your vacations until the youngest is 3 or 4 and you’ll start enjoying the vacations much more. |
I feel like some of this is of course based on kids’ personalities but also parental perspective. We’ve traveled extensively with our kids, including when they were toddlers, and I wouldn’t say we’ve ever had a bad trip. We spent a week in Italy sought seeing like mad with a 6 yo and a 1.5 yo. On this and other trips, there were meltdowns, complaining, a jet lagged toddler wanting to play at 3 am, crying on the plane at some point, no time to relax, etc, but these things didn’t define the trip/were not what happened the majority of the time. The good parts far outweighed the annoyances for us.
I assume your experience has been different if you consider the entire trips to be disasters. In that case, something like a camping trip, a cabin, or a few days at a beach might be better for your family right now. No expectations except everyone swimming/hiking/hanging out. Something low key. |
Disney wise you can also "rent" DVC points to stay at one of the DVC properties (Disney World, Disneyland, Hawaii, Vero Beach, Hilton Head) which include kitchenette's. They also have 1/2 bedrooms (with sleeper sofa's or murphy beds in the living room).
Otherwise we 100% plan our trips (even Disney) around sleeping hahaha. If we're staying up late the night before, say for the Halloween Party at WDW, then we don't do a park the following day. Then we can sleep in and have a lounging type of day. Park days we like to go super early so we can do more before: 1. More people arrive (shorter lines) 2. Weather is cooler 3. Kids are "fresh" after a good nights sleep and food I find in general that doing things in the morning, then taking a break in the afternoon is a good plan for any type of vacation. |
Maybe just put your money into their 529's or your 401K's and skip the vacations. |
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