Hormones. And remember, 2nd time around you'll have an older child needing your energy, attention and affection too. So it won't be the same. Enjoy what you have for now. |
We knew we wanted 2 as close together as possible, if we had waited I don’t think I would have ever been “ready”. Got pregnant when DS1 was 6MO and miscarried then got pregnant again and they’re 19 months apart. But I joke had DS2 been born first he definitely would have been an only. It was much harder 2nd time around and DS2 was not an easy baby/toddler. They’re 2.5YO and 4YO now and it’s fun, but hard! |