Just came here to sympathize. My DH is exactly the same. He can’t handle and doesn’t care about kitchen cleanup/lunches/backpacks etc, so I assigned him to do most of bath and bedtime. But he is so dysfunctional that he is completely incapable of getting our kids to bed at a decent time. Even if I send them up for bath at 7, I have to constantly check in to make sure they are progressing through the routine instead of horseplaying or DH just staring at his phone. I told him I do not wish to micromanage the ONE single task he does at home on a daily basis (I do entire morning routine, get kids to school, pickup, make dinner, etc...and work in between).
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