gardening is hard work

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:is gardening/DIY a white person thing?

All of the asian and indian families i know use services and landscapers.

My next door neighbors are Chinese and they work on their yard and planting beds about 10 house each day. I think they pull weeds the minute they pop out of the ground. I've never seen people more fastidious about their garden.

We have 2 Asian neighbors who are the same. They have these massive trellises in their backyards and are constantly working on their gardens. In the summer it's magnificent. I'm going to walk over there one day and ask them for tips.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:PP here, fair enough. i am asian myself who is dating a gardening-lover but i can't stand it and just thinking of when i grew up and now, i never remembered or knew any asian or indian families out digging away in their yards on the weekend.

i like nature a lot but hate the weeding, mowing, planting, raking...just anything to do with outdoor home maintenance/beautification.

Yeah, it actually sounds like you don't like nature.

[Anonymous]

If only my neighbors cared enough to do it themselves or hire a service! Some of us have beautiful yards, both DYI and via service. Others have never even heard of an edger and barely drag out a lawnmower every 3 or 4wks.

I want to night-raid their lawn and edge along the sidewalks and curb and trim their bushes!

If we ever put our house on the market I swear I'm going to hire a landscaper for them so they don't bring down our property value! LOL

All nice people, but 3 or 4 houses can make a section of the block look crappy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm in 20016 and I feel like hardly anyone else does their own yard work. I enjoy it and I think it's good for the kids to see myself and hubby taking care of our home.

I live in 20016 too and HATE yard work and gardening more than any other kind of physical work. Yuck. Thank God we have a great service. DH loves yard work and gardening but with two kids on travel teams and multiple sports and leagues there just isn't much time in the Spring at least. I don't see anyone here doing their own yard either.

[Anonymous]

I love gardening, and I'm the only one on my very long block who gardens. There's a woman who has a vegetable garden at the far end of the block, but not a single person has a real garden. Lots of landscapers planting annuals, mulching, mowing. It's depressing to see all the same kinds of shrubs in everyone's yard. When I grew up everyone gardened. It was a small town, and people traded plants, stopped to admire one another's garden each spring and summer. I wish I had more time to garden, but I only hire a service when I'm desperate, like now that we're selling our house. The rest of the time it looks shaggy, but I like it that way, and I love all my perennials and unusual plants that no one else has!

[Anonymous]

As the old saying goes:
If you want to be happy for one day, get drunk.
If you want to be happy for one week, get married.
But if you want to be happy for all your life, become a gardener.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm in 20016 and I feel like hardly anyone else does their own yard work. I enjoy it and I think it's good for the kids to see myself and hubby taking care of our home.

I live in 20016 too and HATE yard work and gardening more than any other kind of physical work. Yuck. Thank God we have a great service. DH loves yard work and gardening but with two kids on travel teams and multiple sports and leagues there just isn't much time in the Spring at least. I don't see anyone here doing their own yard either.

I live in 20016 and I do my own yard work. It doesn't always look perfect, but I love doing it and we can't afford a service.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm in 20016 and I feel like hardly anyone else does their own yard work. I enjoy it and I think it's good for the kids to see myself and hubby taking care of our home.

I live in 20016 too and HATE yard work and gardening more than any other kind of physical work. Yuck. Thank God we have a great service. DH loves yard work and gardening but with two kids on travel teams and multiple sports and leagues there just isn't much time in the Spring at least. I don't see anyone here doing their own yard either.

I live in 20016 and I do my own yard work. It doesn't always look perfect, but I love doing it and we can't afford a service.

Hi Neighbor! I feel the same way (and so does my wallet). I think it's funny when I'm out there mowing my lawn people pull over in their pick ups and ask me if I want to hire them. It's not that hard (or weird) to mow your own lawn!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm in 22207 and we have a yard service but also do a lot of our own gardening. This is true of MOST of my neighbors. Maybe they have someone come and mow their lawns but they are out weeding, planting flowers and herbs and so forth. I seriously doubt that anyone is looking at you like you are some kind of freak. You must be super self-conscious to think anyone gives a damn what you are doing?

I call humble-brag. "People of DCUM-land, look how down to earth I am compared to my pretentious and snotty neighbors who throw their money away."

OP here. Well, aren't you a typical 22207 cunt?

[Anonymous]

I can't be in the heat for extended periods of time and my neighbors complain when I mow the grass before noon on the weekend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can't be in the heat for extended periods of time and my neighbors complain when I mow the grass before noon on the weekend.

Why don't you do it on the weekend?

[Anonymous]

My husband and I do our own yard work. He mows, I garden, mulch, plant. We really are in the minority. One landscape company comes by once a week and does everyone's lawn, except ours and our elderly neighbors'.

My other neighbors have neat lawns, but that's it. No flowers, no plantings, just plain. One neighbor drove by and told me (in a critical tone) that "I'm always in my garden pulling weeds." I love it. Its a great stress reliever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can't be in the heat for extended periods of time and my neighbors complain when I mow the grass before noon on the weekend.

Why don't you do it on the weekend?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm in 22207 and we have a yard service but also do a lot of our own gardening. This is true of MOST of my neighbors. Maybe they have someone come and mow their lawns but they are out weeding, planting flowers and herbs and so forth. I seriously doubt that anyone is looking at you like you are some kind of freak. You must be super self-conscious to think anyone gives a damn what you are doing?

I call humble-brag. "People of DCUM-land, look how down to earth I am compared to my pretentious and snotty neighbors who throw their money away."

OP here. Well, aren't you a typical 22207 cunt?

Can we please refrain from using the word "cunt" when simply disagreeing with someone? I think it's pretty hateful.

[Anonymous]

I have a veggie and perennial garden in my front yard (20816) and we do all our yardwork. Our next door neighbor on one side does theirs too, but pretty much everyone else in the hood uses the same leaf-blowing yard service.

I get tons of positive comments from people walking by, and kids love it.

It is hard work, but the best kind. I spent 7 hours in the yard Sunday. I would quite my job and work in my garden FT if someone would pay me.