you're awesome - DCUM made me smile today. for once.
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| I'm sorry if you already answered this, but what is your race? I ask, because I always think white women are less accepting of their larger size, whereas black women seem to be more accepting of themselves. |
| Sorry, OP. I think you're fooling yourself. If you're obese, after a certain amount of time, you have body odor issues (especially the vaginal area....) |
I am multi-racial. Some east meets black
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You're entitled to your opinions. *shrugs* I don't understand how that happens to people who bathe on a regular basis. None of the obese women I know smell. But then again my face isn't in anyones vagina. |
er, um. all vaginas have a smell. a clean one has a certain smell and a dirty one does too. nothing to do with weight. a sweaty skinny girl will be a little ripe too. |
| Is your boyfriend fat? |
Not at all. I'm typically not attracted to fat men. |
| Is he shorter than you? That would look odd. |
No, he's 6'5, slim, and gorgeous, and successful. |
| Do you shop at Lane Bryant? Are there any other stores with cute clothes in larger sizes? |
If you should lose weight, are you afraid he'd no longer be interested? Do you have diabetes? Hypertension? How does your doctor feel about your weight? How old are you? |
I do, but some of their clothes are ugly. I like igigi.com,kiyonna, torrid( they have awesome clearance sales on their lingerie sometimes.), and believe it or not sometimes target has cute pieces. |
No, I'm not worried. If he wasn't he never loved me for myself to begin with. We have had this conversation. He walks with me, and when I rarely exercise he exercises with me, at my pace so as not to make me feel bad. I once joked that he wouldn't love me at 200 lbs. He said he would, I'd just be fun sized LOL. I have none of those. My dr. wants me to continue losing weight. I'm 28. |
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Were you fat while you were in K-12?
It seemed acceptable even for teachers to crack jokes or make mean-spirited comments about fat people in class and everyone would laugh. I remember thinking that I'd feel uncomfortable if I were fat. |