Was she interested???

[Anonymous]

Yea these were some quite obvious signals
Did you want her or are you glad you didn’t get her hints?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP is she chubby or otherwise unattractive? It sounds like your instincts dismissed her out of hand and confused you because she was making an obvious proposition. No woman in 2026 is inviting a man into her hotel room unless she wants to have sex.... and/or sue your emoloyer.

Op here. She is attractive- likely a couple years older than me. I would not kick her out of bed. In the workplace you just never know of others intentions. Even if I were single, I would hesitate.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is she chubby or otherwise unattractive? It sounds like your instincts dismissed her out of hand and confused you because she was making an obvious proposition. No woman in 2026 is inviting a man into her hotel room unless she wants to have sex.... and/or sue your emoloyer.

Op here. She is attractive- likely a couple years older than me. I would not kick her out of bed. In the workplace you just never know of others intentions. Even if I were single, I would hesitate.

When are you going to come out?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is she chubby or otherwise unattractive? It sounds like your instincts dismissed her out of hand and confused you because she was making an obvious proposition. No woman in 2026 is inviting a man into her hotel room unless she wants to have sex.... and/or sue your emoloyer.

Op here. She is attractive- likely a couple years older than me. I would not kick her out of bed. In the workplace you just never know of others intentions. Even if I were single, I would hesitate.

Even if single, don’t hookup with colleagues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is she chubby or otherwise unattractive? It sounds like your instincts dismissed her out of hand and confused you because she was making an obvious proposition. No woman in 2026 is inviting a man into her hotel room unless she wants to have sex.... and/or sue your emoloyer.

Op here. She is attractive- likely a couple years older than me. I would not kick her out of bed. In the workplace you just never know of others intentions. Even if I were single, I would hesitate.

Agree that it’s not safe to hook up with coworkers. I was in your situation with a non-coworker once, and pretty much did what you did. Learn from my mistake. Sleep with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:30yo married man, recently went on an out of town business trip for a meeting with a female colleague I have been working with over a years time. She is single. At end of the day at work, she offered to drive me to my hotel room. She accompanied me up to my hotel room, we made small talk and then she went to edge of the bed, sat down and then fell back and commented something to the effect how comfy the bed was. I had planned to go out for dinner with her and she suggested room service to which I objected as I wanted the go out to eat. We had a nice dinner and she dropped me off front of the hotel. Nothing happened. I didn’t think much of any of this until I discussed it with a co worker who commended me for not taking advantage of the situation. What was this woman thinking?

wtf.

Gross

wtf would you also supposedly tell a mother coworker.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If she is hot, you blew it OP. If not, no harm no foul.

+1. Yup. She was on the prowl

Or to get doofus boy fired.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think her laying on your bed, talking about how comfortable it is and wanting to get room service leave little doubt she wanted to hook up.

Why else would someone want to get room service in someone else's room?

Room service for two is the ultimate proof of a senior and subordinate hooking up. If you put dinner in for two in your expenses even better.

Op really dodged a bullet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married man here. Have to be honest. If she is hot, I would have jumped her. Most married men would do the same, otherwise they are just liars.

She sounds like a total bimbo.

Is this one of those sales dept jobs that hires dumb athletes who are used to hooking up with everyone they meet?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Obviously she wanted to hookup. We did you invite her into your hotel room? You're married. You were sending the wrong signals.

This. You are not very bright.

And what on earth did you two talk about over a long dinner, after her sexual proposition and your rejection?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Married man here. Have to be honest. If she is hot, I would have jumped her. Most married men would do the same, otherwise they are just liars.

No, no they wouldn’t have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Obviously she wanted to hookup. We did you invite her into your hotel room? You're married. You were sending the wrong signals.

This. You are not very bright.

And what on earth did you two talk about over a long dinner, after her sexual proposition and your rejection?

Right? OP might end up fired anyways after this scorned woman takes her revenge.

[Anonymous]

I think she was subtly flirting w/you……the bed comments especially so.

Does she know that you are married??

[Anonymous]

How could this guy be do clueless? Did he really not realize the implications of inviting her up to his room? There's always a public place to sit in a hotel. And then how could he not see the signals she was sending? She practically held up a sign for sex.

[Anonymous]

Ask your wife