Live In Nanny Wages

[Anonymous]

How is she going to cook and eat??? While living with you?

[Anonymous]

I have once a week cleaners and helpers. When they came to help with an event for which I ordered food, I asked them what they would like me to order for them and I ordered them full meals. If my family was ordering food I would certainly order for the live in nanny as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:a live in is worth about 5/hour more than live out. ours is 16/hour if we got a live out it would be 20+/hour

16 is super cheap. Our 15 year old makes 18 an hour working.

[Anonymous]

We did a live-in nanny for a while. The convenience is AMAZING. But it does cost $$$.

OP, you mention that you are considering this to lower your out of pocket expenses. Do you want to share the math? Having a live in nanny increased our expenses in a number of ways:

Getting take out. Of course if you are taking orders for take out and she's sitting there, you are going to include her! We were getting take out 1-2x/week so including her entrees added up.

She's at your house, so you're going to include her in things like birthday parties, fancy dinners, social events, etc. On her bday we threw her a party and got her a bunch of gifts. Adds up.

It's her house and she'll rightly expect to use it. We have a pool so our nanny hosted a few pool parties. We let her and her guests eat our food/drinks. Adds up.

Your utility bills will go up a bit. Our nanny liked hot showers and keeping her windows open in the winter. LOL.

I found that another person in the house meant stuff did wear out quicker, etc. She ruined a very nice Le Cruset dutch oven because she didn't understand enamel scratches, and she ruined my Dyson. This stuff happens, you have to accept it and eat the cost.

She wanted to go along with us on certain outings (this could be very nanny dependent) so obviously we would buy her lunch here or there.

The biggest thing I learned is that we don't have a great set up for a live in nanny. Our nanny is VERY social and it wasn't a good fit for me (a total introvert). We didn't have a basement apt or in law suite - she was just in a large bedroom with her own bathroom. Having to share the common areas was very painful for me.

But, again, for the time we did it, the convenience was unparalleled. No cancellations due to bad weather or car trouble. Less sick days off. Working late or last minute switches to the schedule became easy. Just don't think it's going to be easy on your pocketbook!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, you realize room and BOARD means food; right?

If you believe it will be such a burden to grocery shop for her, add that to her responsibilities.

No. She is a nanny not a housekeeper. If this is added then hourly rate goes up $5/hr.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We did a live-in nanny for a while. The convenience is AMAZING. But it does cost $$$.

OP, you mention that you are considering this to lower your out of pocket expenses. Do you want to share the math? Having a live in nanny increased our expenses in a number of ways:

Getting take out. Of course if you are taking orders for take out and she's sitting there, you are going to include her! We were getting take out 1-2x/week so including her entrees added up.

She's at your house, so you're going to include her in things like birthday parties, fancy dinners, social events, etc. On her bday we threw her a party and got her a bunch of gifts. Adds up.

It's her house and she'll rightly expect to use it. We have a pool so our nanny hosted a few pool parties. We let her and her guests eat our food/drinks. Adds up.

Your utility bills will go up a bit. Our nanny liked hot showers and keeping her windows open in the winter. LOL.

I found that another person in the house meant stuff did wear out quicker, etc. She ruined a very nice Le Cruset dutch oven because she didn't understand enamel scratches, and she ruined my Dyson. This stuff happens, you have to accept it and eat the cost.

She wanted to go along with us on certain outings (this could be very nanny dependent) so obviously we would buy her lunch here or there.

The biggest thing I learned is that we don't have a great set up for a live in nanny. Our nanny is VERY social and it wasn't a good fit for me (a total introvert). We didn't have a basement apt or in law suite - she was just in a large bedroom with her own bathroom. Having to share the common areas was very painful for me.

But, again, for the time we did it, the convenience was unparalleled. No cancellations due to bad weather or car trouble. Less sick days off. Working late or last minute switches to the schedule became easy. Just don't think it's going to be easy on your pocketbook!

All of your cons are on you.
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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And I should clarify that this proposed new arrangement would still have her earning ~80k/yr or $30/hr. We are certainly not trying to take advantage of anyone.

That is one hella deal! Lucky gal who gets that job.

+1 80K a year plus free room and board sounds great.

Most nannies do not want to live with their employers because of the lack of privacy and independence. 80k sounds competitive full-time comp for an experienced nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We did a live-in nanny for a while. The convenience is AMAZING. But it does cost $$$.

OP, you mention that you are considering this to lower your out of pocket expenses. Do you want to share the math? Having a live in nanny increased our expenses in a number of ways:

Getting take out. Of course if you are taking orders for take out and she's sitting there, you are going to include her! We were getting take out 1-2x/week so including her entrees added up.

She's at your house, so you're going to include her in things like birthday parties, fancy dinners, social events, etc. On her bday we threw her a party and got her a bunch of gifts. Adds up.

It's her house and she'll rightly expect to use it. We have a pool so our nanny hosted a few pool parties. We let her and her guests eat our food/drinks. Adds up.

Your utility bills will go up a bit. Our nanny liked hot showers and keeping her windows open in the winter. LOL.

I found that another person in the house meant stuff did wear out quicker, etc. She ruined a very nice Le Cruset dutch oven because she didn't understand enamel scratches, and she ruined my Dyson. This stuff happens, you have to accept it and eat the cost.

She wanted to go along with us on certain outings (this could be very nanny dependent) so obviously we would buy her lunch here or there.

The biggest thing I learned is that we don't have a great set up for a live in nanny. Our nanny is VERY social and it wasn't a good fit for me (a total introvert). We didn't have a basement apt or in law suite - she was just in a large bedroom with her own bathroom. Having to share the common areas was very painful for me.

But, again, for the time we did it, the convenience was unparalleled. No cancellations due to bad weather or car trouble. Less sick days off. Working late or last minute switches to the schedule became easy. Just don't think it's going to be easy on your pocketbook!

DP. This is a very useful summary of pros and cons. I have experienced some of these with nannies but never had a live-in because I am also an introvert and having someone FT in my house is all I can handle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We did a live-in nanny for a while. The convenience is AMAZING. But it does cost $$$.

OP, you mention that you are considering this to lower your out of pocket expenses. Do you want to share the math? Having a live in nanny increased our expenses in a number of ways:

Getting take out. Of course if you are taking orders for take out and she's sitting there, you are going to include her! We were getting take out 1-2x/week so including her entrees added up.

She's at your house, so you're going to include her in things like birthday parties, fancy dinners, social events, etc. On her bday we threw her a party and got her a bunch of gifts. Adds up.

It's her house and she'll rightly expect to use it. We have a pool so our nanny hosted a few pool parties. We let her and her guests eat our food/drinks. Adds up.

Your utility bills will go up a bit. Our nanny liked hot showers and keeping her windows open in the winter. LOL.

I found that another person in the house meant stuff did wear out quicker, etc. She ruined a very nice Le Cruset dutch oven because she didn't understand enamel scratches, and she ruined my Dyson. This stuff happens, you have to accept it and eat the cost.

She wanted to go along with us on certain outings (this could be very nanny dependent) so obviously we would buy her lunch here or there.

The biggest thing I learned is that we don't have a great set up for a live in nanny. Our nanny is VERY social and it wasn't a good fit for me (a total introvert). We didn't have a basement apt or in law suite - she was just in a large bedroom with her own bathroom. Having to share the common areas was very painful for me.

But, again, for the time we did it, the convenience was unparalleled. No cancellations due to bad weather or car trouble. Less sick days off. Working late or last minute switches to the schedule became easy. Just don't think it's going to be easy on your pocketbook!

You are a generous person, pp.