Parents who let theirs and OTHER kids drink

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know a single adult who would allow their own and other underage kids to drink and get high in their home with their consent.

My SIL and BIL most certainly do. They have a DD who is the same age as my son. They are both 16. She is allowed to vape weed and is ALLOWED two beers per day. This has been going on for months. Needless to say, we only allow the kids to hang out while we are watching them.

That should be criminal if it's not already.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know a single adult who would allow their own and other underage kids to drink and get high in their home with their consent.

My SIL and BIL most certainly do. They have a DD who is the same age as my son. They are both 16. She is allowed to vape weed and is ALLOWED two beers per day. This has been going on for months. Needless to say, we only allow the kids to hang out while we are watching them.

That should be criminal if it's not already.

It appears that it's not as long as she is doing it at home with their permission. It is, of course, illegal to give alcohol or weed to my child and if they ever did I'd turn them in faster than they could say Miller Light.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is insanity. These parents are opening themselves up to all sorts of liability if something bad (car crash, alcohol poisoning, assault) should happen to one of the teens. They could lose everything financially as well as be criminally prosecuted. Who would risk that?
And yes, call me Karen all you want, my opinion still stands. It is so, so risky in so many ways.

+1. All it takes is one bad incident and the parents are potentially in legal hot water.

[Anonymous]

So when your daughter told you that she was going to a party at a classmate’s house, you didn’t think the kids would be drinking? You need to live in the real world. Talk to your kid so they make good choices. We didn’t allow ours to even go to parties until 10th grade. They talk to us openly about what happens at the parties, including kids getting drunk. Parties are part of growing up. Kids can learn to party responsibly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So when your daughter told you that she was going to a party at a classmate’s house, you didn’t think the kids would be drinking? You need to live in the real world. Talk to your kid so they make good choices. We didn’t allow ours to even go to parties until 10th grade. They talk to us openly about what happens at the parties, including kids getting drunk. Parties are part of growing up. Kids can learn to party responsibly.

+1

All these complaints boil down to parents saying, “I want my kids to be social, but I don’t want them to be around booze, so I yell into the void at parents who aren’t even here to hear it.”

Grow up and put limits on your kids if you feel that strongly they shouldn’t be exposed to alcohol. Most of the time it’s other kids sneaking it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So when your daughter told you that she was going to a party at a classmate’s house, you didn’t think the kids would be drinking? You need to live in the real world. Talk to your kid so they make good choices. We didn’t allow ours to even go to parties until 10th grade. They talk to us openly about what happens at the parties, including kids getting drunk. Parties are part of growing up. Kids can learn to party responsibly.

I know kids sneak out and go to parties with alcohol. They have underdeveloped frontal lobes and make bad choices. The parents who host these parties, on the other hand, should really know better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We are parents that let our son drink with his friends. The parents we know are ok with it and agree. We don’t let anyone leave unless in an uber or with a parent. To each their own. Stop judging.

You should be ashamed of yourself.

+1

It’s sad you are proud of this. It’s nothing to be proud of.

It’s not judging. You are pathetic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We are parents that let our son drink with his friends. The parents we know are ok with it and agree. We don’t let anyone leave unless in an uber or with a parent. To each their own. Stop judging.

You should be ashamed of yourself.

+1

It’s sad you are proud of this. It’s nothing to be proud of.

It’s not judging. You are pathetic.

NP: Are you proud of yourself for getting so worked up about this? Your message probably fell on deaf ears.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are parents that let our son drink with his friends. The parents we know are ok with it and agree. We don’t let anyone leave unless in an uber or with a parent. To each their own. Stop judging.

+1

No one is getting sloppy drunk. No one is getting assaulted.

They are responsible kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So when your daughter told you that she was going to a party at a classmate’s house, you didn’t think the kids would be drinking? You need to live in the real world. Talk to your kid so they make good choices. We didn’t allow ours to even go to parties until 10th grade. They talk to us openly about what happens at the parties, including kids getting drunk. Parties are part of growing up. Kids can learn to party responsibly.

I know kids sneak out and go to parties with alcohol. They have underdeveloped frontal lobes and make bad choices. The parents who host these parties, on the other hand, should really know better.

So yell at your kids for sneaking out. We also warn our kids about adult predators and grooming. Their frontal lobes aren’t so underdeveloped they can’t be held accountable for making bad choices.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So when your daughter told you that she was going to a party at a classmate’s house, you didn’t think the kids would be drinking? You need to live in the real world. Talk to your kid so they make good choices. We didn’t allow ours to even go to parties until 10th grade. They talk to us openly about what happens at the parties, including kids getting drunk. Parties are part of growing up. Kids can learn to party responsibly.

I know kids sneak out and go to parties with alcohol. They have underdeveloped frontal lobes and make bad choices. The parents who host these parties, on the other hand, should really know better.

So yell at your kids for sneaking out. We also warn our kids about adult predators and grooming. Their frontal lobes aren’t so underdeveloped they can’t be held accountable for making bad choices.

Stop providing alcohols to children. It’s against the law.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So when your daughter told you that she was going to a party at a classmate’s house, you didn’t think the kids would be drinking? You need to live in the real world. Talk to your kid so they make good choices. We didn’t allow ours to even go to parties until 10th grade. They talk to us openly about what happens at the parties, including kids getting drunk. Parties are part of growing up. Kids can learn to party responsibly.

I know kids sneak out and go to parties with alcohol. They have underdeveloped frontal lobes and make bad choices. The parents who host these parties, on the other hand, should really know better.

So yell at your kids for sneaking out. We also warn our kids about adult predators and grooming. Their frontal lobes aren’t so underdeveloped they can’t be held accountable for making bad choices.

Stop providing alcohols to children. It’s against the law.

So are child predators. But who yells on DCUM and thinks they’re changing anyone?

I don’t provide alcohols to children. But the anti-alcohol parents on these threads are morons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We are parents that let our son drink with his friends. The parents we know are ok with it and agree. We don’t let anyone leave unless in an uber or with a parent. To each their own. Stop judging.

+1

No one is getting sloppy drunk. No one is getting assaulted.

They are responsible kids.

You are astoundingly naive. Oh and your kids are laugh at you behind your back.

[Anonymous]

I let my late teen kids have an inch or so of wine with dinner once in a while, but I would never give them large quantities of booze to drink while hanging out with friends. That’s weird. If they want to do that, they can ask a sketchy guy going into the liquor store to help them out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So when your daughter told you that she was going to a party at a classmate’s house, you didn’t think the kids would be drinking? You need to live in the real world. Talk to your kid so they make good choices. We didn’t allow ours to even go to parties until 10th grade. They talk to us openly about what happens at the parties, including kids getting drunk. Parties are part of growing up. Kids can learn to party responsibly.

I know kids sneak out and go to parties with alcohol. They have underdeveloped frontal lobes and make bad choices. The parents who host these parties, on the other hand, should really know better.

So yell at your kids for sneaking out. We also warn our kids about adult predators and grooming. Their frontal lobes aren’t so underdeveloped they can’t be held accountable for making bad choices.

Stop providing alcohols to children. It’s against the law.

So are child predators. But who yells on DCUM and thinks they’re changing anyone?

I don’t provide alcohols to children. But the anti-alcohol parents on these threads are morons.

Umh, what????