Men dont want to marry someone who earns $80k unless they are VERY hot any more than a woman does. |
| If you want to go into project management, get the PMP certification. It sounds like you don't yet have a lot of experience in that area so the certification will get you more attention from hiring managers so you can get the experience you need to get closer to $200K. |
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Here is best advice I ever got to single women from blue collar or middle class backgrounds and a college degree with an average job.
Pick your horse and ride it. Meaning you can't marry super rich or a blue blood family. You dont have the pedigree or fancy degree or big job. But you can pick a horse to ride in the race and ride him to victory. My old job in Big four girls from local colleges around 27-30 with parents who were like cops, firemen, consturction workers who was first gen college whould grab a guy who was manager on track for senior manager than hopefully Partner or someone they met at client who was on track. Usually a guy with there background but a go getter with better career prospects. Then you ride him to winners circle. If you were already rich you would pick the horse that already won the race. |
Today girls want to be senior managers themselves. |
| Send back your communications degree. Your post is riddled with typos and is incomprehensible. |
Yeah good luck with that. Maybe 15% make it with that background. |
How is it possible to not understand. You pick the guy at manager/sr. Manager level who you think will make Partner. Example my own wife. We are both blue collar and neither parent went to college and both immigrants. When we met she made exactly $100 a year more than me. She $55,100 and me $55,000. However, at 32 she was already sick of rat race and old boys club at work and wanted to get married and have kids. We married and based on fact I was broke, family broke she still thought with a MBA and being tall, good looking, white male she could ride me to winners circle. With her support behind scenes in first ten years of marriage we had 3 kids and moved my salary from 55k to 400k My SIL ride my more successful brother from 60k to 750k with her community college degree. My wife’s friend ride a guy from zero to one million a year! She was a nurse married guy in “draw” on Wall Street and he made it to top. |
That is why you have to pick carefully. My wife’s friends had 100 percent success rate. Remember men who are Rich and good looking can marry rich and good looking. Most of rest of use have to marry rich or good looking And sadly some marry ugly and poor. Poor and good looking men can easily with guidance from proper women can be rich. My peak earnings was $990k. My wife is very focused on my career. |
That’s exactly my point, I am a woman left the big 4 rat rate and bringing 300k+, surely less than your 400k but it’s not the end of the world. |
And those who does, don’t want to marry staff 2s making 85k/year 😂 |
Yes they do. My friend who actually was a big four partner when single only wanted to marry a SAHM wife. It drove some women nuts that he would have such a rule. They are always working and want kids. My buddy waited till 43 to marry and wanted three kids back to back to back. Wanted to buy a house. Wanted to move to surburbs. Have a big Catholic Wedding with a big fancy receptions. He had zero time for any of that. He married a younger women with zero career who was very pretty who stopped working the day they got engaged so she could plan wedding, do house hunting. Get ready to be a mom and have kids. His Dad was a big executive so he also had money from inheritance coming his way. He need a wife. No more money. |
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Find a man who believes in the "provider" nonsense. And make sure he makes at least $300k/year. It's my understanding that some men are so stupid and will readily hand over their hard earned money to a woman just because she is beautiful
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| Become a flight attendant and marry a pilot. |
Try all men. Jeff Bezos, |
such ladies flock to art dealers, event planning and museum work, they don’t interview for big 4 entry level jobs. Big 4 young women often come from state schools, had stable upbringing but don’t have the same social skill as someone from money. The partner may choose them for a fling when traveling but he will marry someone who can fit his goals, like catholic or lots of siblings where she took care of babies. |