Unfortunately, they can set whatever guidelines they wish; it’s all about what’s in the original contract and if they don’t feel that they can safely care for your dad, they are within their rights to ask him to leave. It’s possible that another facility will handle things differently. |
OP here - thanks for all the responses. To answer some of the questions. he is in memory care unit. It’s AL where we pay extra for memory care programming. But I am getting the sense that the programming is all geared toward Alzheimer’s and not other forms of dementia so there’s a bit of a gap there.
He has a one-on-one aide but the facility will not allow that aide to take him walking. I’m heading off today for a several day visit to try to see whether I can make any headway on this issue where he is, and tour 2 other places to see whether there are better options out there (although the idea of moving someone with dementia is not very attractive). Wish me luck! |
Good luck OP, but you are right, moving someone with dementia can be a huge problem. If you can afford, you may want to hire an aging care expert to figure out how to advocate for him where he currently is and/or to advise you regarding a move. |
Same. Former nursing home nurse here. If the place is unwilling to keep him more mobile they're just lazy or understaffed. The term "use it or lose it" applies most here. Find a place that works with him or hire a private CNA. |
"He has a one-on-one aide but the facility will not allow that aide to take him walking."
OH, HELL no. NOPE. No way. Move him ASAP. This is not typical at all OP. Is the aide certified? There is no reason they wouldn't allow this. |
This place is not looking out for his best interest its time to move him op. |
He's a fall risk who refuses a rollator. The aide may break his fall slightly, but it's reasonable for the care facility to reject that proposal |
I’m sorry, OP. They should not be pushing this as an intervention for his fall risk. In fact, forcing him to be in his wheelchair is considered a type of restraint, which is generally against regulations. As well a good ALF should have a restraint free policy. As a first step, they should be doing a standalone fall assessment to evaluate his risks and root cause what is leading to his falls. Only then, can the proper interventions be determined. As someone involved in your father’s care, you should be a part of determining the proper interventions and care planning. Assuming you use their house pharmacy, you could also push for them to have the consultant pharmacist do a medication review and coordinate with your father’s doctor to see if that is contributing to his falls. Another avenue is bringing in PT or OT to provide an assessment and recommended therapies for your father to improve his gait. Finally, their activities or life enrichment person should do their own assessment and evaluation of your father and come up with enriching activities such as once he can do with a group in the dementia area that he can do outside of his wheelchair. The AIDS should be transferring him from wheelchair to chair and the activity will keep him busy and engaged with what’s going on. But practically speaking, if their solution is to require him to sit in a wheelchair reclined back all day that is a huge red flag. I suppose they think wounds and bedsores are better than falls? You really don’t want that clinical leader who sets the tone for the entire building, floor, and shift responsible for doing the best thing for your dad. |
You’re wrong about memory care. Usually and in all states near DC, it is simply a secured area within the ALF From a regulatory standpoint, it is nowhere near a skilled nursing facility. Some providers, such as Sunrise (HQ’d in Tyson’s), Brookdale and maybe Brightview (HQ’d in Baltimore area) take a high level of care due to their clinical capabilities. But that can vary location to location and is dependent on the nursing staff in house. |
me too. They are basically proposing to restrain him which is not ok. |
If he has dementia he may not be able to use a walker and doesn’t understand the risks. |
No, I did not phrase it well. They wanted to just leave him in bed all day and do bed baths and feed him in bed even though he was an aspiration risks, even though we had paid out of pocket for an electric Hoyer lift and special shower chairs and wheelchairs. The caregivers absolutely wanted to keep giving him that level of care - they thought it was mean to leave him in ned all the day. it was the agency that kept trying to insist on keeping him in bed. We pushed back at that. it was awful. |
OP if he can afford it or you can, I would hire an aging care professional to assess the situation, assess your father and review medical chart and make recommendations. You hire someone who has worked with all the area facilities, knows how to assess your dad, knows what can be requested and can advise you if a move is needed. Even if posters on here are professionals or have experience from their own families, they have not assessed your father.
Also keep in mind even if there is an aide, once a fall happens it's an ordeal. There is risk in just helping your dad up. He needs to be assessed to make sure there isn't a serious injury that can be made worse. If they don't have the medical staff, then they need an ambulance/fire department to come out and determine if he needs to go to the hospital. We paid extra for a large and very strong aide for dad who had some medical training to assess after falls, had the strength to help him up and once he truly could no longer walk, could carry him. |
He has memory issues. He cannot remember to use a walker NOR is capable of it. The facility is still responsible for anything that happens. |
Don't waste the money. He needs to be in a memory unit and get more care. |