Manager asks for honest feedback, wants to talk about her downfalls. How honest do you get?
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Anonymous
This. There is no upside for you. -signed HR |
Anonymous
+1 as PPs said, suggest a 360 review to get more comprehensive feedback. If 4 people have already fled due to her management style and nothing has changed, chances are she’s not great at self reflection and making needed changes. I have a supervisor with similar frustrating traits such as lack of clarity with instructions, being scattered, and the tendency to unnecessarily spiral and overcomplicate issues. BUT we have a good rapport and she is open to feedback in the sense of how I can more successfully work with her. I have to frequently ask specifically what action item is next instead of assuming, and professionally give her reality checks. It can get very annoying and is extra work on my part, but it’s worked. She has other positive traits though such as advocating for the team to senior leadership, humility, and some willingness to adapt. She hasn’t run anybody out yet. And I’m certainly not perfect either! |
Anonymous
| “I wouldn’t say you have “downfalls”, but I know I would benefit from more detailed direction and real-time feedback.” |
Anonymous
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Management should never ask their employees for feedback like this. If this manager is truly interested in becoming a better manager, they need to ask their leadership to facilitate a review/coaching that doesn’t put employees in the awkward situation your boss just put you in.
When you have authority over people’s livelihoods, it’s not fair to do this to them without a (hopefully neutral) third party involved. |
Anonymous
| “I think it would be best to speak to your leadership about it, I’m not really comfortable giving you advice like this. Can we talk about the plan for xyz when you have some time?” |