My heart goes out to you OP. I hope you are aware of and take advantage of resources available to help victims of domestic violence, especially since you have children.
https://www.thehotline.org/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=domestic_violence https://www.alexandriava.gov/DomesticViolence https://vsdvalliance.org/ In the near term, please go get an x-ray. |
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Broken elbow PP here. If you still have pain, please get an in person visit & Xray - it's probably not just the bruising that is causing pain. Even if it's a hairline fracture, you need a few weeks of immobilization in a half cast. But, it could also been torn ligaments, or a bone chip.
Immobilization is kind of a pain, but you can still wiggle your fingers. Use disability/accessibility hacks for work - speech to text for writing. Maybe there's a touch screen device or plug in track pad that you can get from work that would be easier to operate than a mouse? If you work at a company with an HR office, there might be someone who can help you w/ accessibility. |
How could the nurse possibly know? |
Nowadays, with things like MyChart, OP’s ER record will be seen by future providers, even if they are totally unrelated. |
^^if they use MyChart. |
Nowadays, with things like MyChart, OP’s ER record will be seen by future providers, even if they are totally unrelated.
^^if they use MyChart. OP here -- yes, this exactly. My Chart is great but not so great if you still value your privacy. No worries, no one threw me down the stairs, I literally just mis stepped in the dark (because I'm old and can't see in the dark). I have an x-ray scheduled to see if it's actually a hairline fracture. The bruising is turning yellow, the swelling has gone down but the pain point on my elbow proper is still pretty high. So we'll see. |
So what's the alternative? You just lie when you fill out medical forms? Do you say no previous injuries, hospitalizations, medical incidents? One problem with incomplete information is that it makes it harder for doctors to make an accurate diagnosis. If they have fuller information e.g. several years of blood test results, heart monitoring, scan results, mammogram results, blood pressure measurements, etc they might be able to spot patterns and diagnose chronic or acute problems. |
^^if they use MyChart. OP here -- yes, this exactly. My Chart is great but not so great if you still value your privacy. No worries, no one threw me down the stairs, I literally just mis stepped in the dark (because I'm old and can't see in the dark). I have an x-ray scheduled to see if it's actually a hairline fracture. The bruising is turning yellow, the swelling has gone down but the pain point on my elbow proper is still pretty high. So we'll see. What if you have osteoporosis or similar, which doctors might suspect if they could see that you've had multiple fractures. If you keep skipping between hospital systems to maintain your privacy, this might go unnoticed. |
OP it's a sad way to live actively denying yourself medical care because of what I suspect is a history of domestic abuse. Please get medical care. |
It's taken you 6 days and counting not to get an x-ray yet? |