You can’t help your genetics, but you can train and fuel your body appropriately for your sport. That can make or break any athlete, genetically gifted or not. Small kids that train too hard to overcome the genetic lottery can actually make things worse for themselves in the long run. |
Meh. Some kids are always going to be stronger. The others will not catch up in size. Look at their parents. The other kids might eventually surpass the more powerful ones in skill, but winning at a younger age gives a huge advantage in motivation to keep winning and to sharpen skills. |
There are also some really big 10y/olds who swim at a snails pace. Chalking early success up to size is really oversimplifying things. Some kids are just better at swimming than others. If your kid is good now, they’ll likely want to continue swimming. Every swim kid has to deal with a slump at some point. |
This is weird. Everyone cheers for the swimmers and it all fades to background noise for the kids in the water anyways. It’s bizarre to ostracize a dad for cheering too much. “Crush him!” isn’t that bad. Even the 8u scream out “eat my bubbles!” for their teammates. |
You think it’s appropriate for a grown man to scream “crush him” about a 10 year old kid? Who also was a teammate? This is everything that is wrong with youth sports in this country. |
I don't find that bizarre at all, it seems appropriate to me. It can be cute if it's 8u kids, no so much for dad, two entirely different things. |
There are 10 yo girls who are well into puberty and 5'6" and 115 lbs. My 10 yo is 50" and 53 lbs. Based on a conversation with her pediatrician she's likely going to hit puberty at 13 yo--well on the late side. It does matter. It's not everything, but it absolutely matters. Some 10 yo girls are built like teens and others are still built like little kids. (The same split happens for boys, but a bit later.) |
The PP clearly has sour grapes about some big kid beating their smaller kid. Why else personally attack someone over such a banal comment? Some kids “smoke” their competition despite not looking like Michael Phelps. That was my point, which went right over her head. I’m not that dad, and I would not scream that at a meet, but come on, it’s a competitive sport. Have some fun! |
I have a 13 year old swimmer whose doctor told me I have another 2 years before puberty. She has just started growing and at 5 feet and some change is well below the height of all of her friends who have had their periods and have stopped growing. Her dad if 6’5” and I am 5’8” so she has a chance at some height but probably won’t hit it until 15-16. Three years is a long time to be fighting to keep up with the 5’5” and 5’6” girls. So she has to keep loving it. |
Both of these cases are very rare. There isn't a single 5'4" 10 year old girl on our team, and it's a pretty big team. The fastest girls are around 5' or 5'1" with one or two who are much shorter. And very few 13 year olds who are about 5 feet tall are going to grow so much taller that they can catch up with the taller girls on the team. |
It's really not rare. You can look at any group of 10-13 yo girls and see the divide between those who are looking like teens and those who still look like kids. One group is noticably bigger and stronger than the other. |
Yeah, the 13 year olds are noticeably bigger and stronger than the 10 year olds... |
Parents acting like fools. Do better. |
Uh, no. Nice try. Even in a group of just 10 yos there is a split. |
Not always. I have seen 10 year olds at meets that look 22. Huge. |