Some people may be very smart, but they were never meant to be teachers. They don't have the knack for it. I have a PhD in science and I would be an awful teacher. I don't have patience and I can't stand explaining things. I just 'do'. |
Why would you expect this in public school but not private school? I have kids in both public and private school and there are dedicated, fantastic teachers as well as horrible teachers in both. And clearly from the responses you've gotten here in this forum there are plenty of these types of teachers at private schools. Yes, it sucks for both public and private school students who get these teachers. It happens at college as well - you'll be paying even more for that and you will have absolutely no control over the professors (or in many cases TAs) that your kid will get. With bad teachers, my kids just taught themselves (lots of internet videos) and worked together with other students to figure out the material. My oldest became quite good at helping other students after his experience and he now works at his college's student math and stats learning lab providing additional help and tutoring (provided to student at no charge). Turns out there are plenty of PhDs who are very smart people but terrible teachers and the colleges know this. |
Private institutions have more leeway in firing. The government and county government do not. Strong teacher unions in some places make it almost impossible to can a public school teacher. |
That is not the case as often as you think it is. Bad teachers get shuffled around to other schools - they don't necessarily stay in the same place. And they absolutely can and do get fired (several were at my kid's public MS and HS). And if private schools have more leeway and can get rid of these teachers so much more easily, why don't they do it? |
Have never seen an underperforming, complaint-laden teacher fired or even pushed out in a DC area private school. |
OP has not offered any specifics. Who knows what “incompetence” means?! |
| My family experienced this last year. My child is an A student and struggled in one class because of a particular teacher. And I say it was a FAMILY experience rather than just my child’s experience because it was a huge ordeal and family effort to get the poor thing through the year. It was a daily rally to keep my child’s morale up due to the constant beating they took. it was terrible. In our case, the teacher is the head of the particular department. Firmly placed and going no where. When talking to admin. We were told my child could get help from an upper class man/student tutor or an on-campus tutor. We paid lots for an adult tutor on top of tuition. It made a huge difference regarding final grades. However it took lots extra time and work and LOTS of extra money for the wonderful and encouraging tutor. Sad that it was a subject my child liked prior to that class. |
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Is the teacher in a STEM subject? They are just very difficult to replace.
I had a teacher colleague who wore jeans to work one day in a school with a very strict teacher dress code. He joked, "I teach AP calc, what are they going to do, fire me?" Obviously, incompetence is on a whole other level. |
I would ask why it was critical that your student get an A in this class. I’m not sure this case is poor teaching or parent expectations. I |
Prob. a white male with no hooks/not first Gen/not URM so has to get straight As to even be considered anywhere. Reality. |
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At first I got into all this tutoring for As. Then I realized private school and other students could help kid learn. Kid needed to take the initiative. A little bumpy but so, so much better. Let the high schoolers know they can manage academic difficulty.
If your kid is failing or really struggling across the board you might need to step in. But at high school level the kid owns the grades. |
Sure fine. It’s relative. Just know that at SFS and GDS there is tons of tutoring and parents helping with homework. My coworkers kid was top of class and every discussion was how did he get through all the material and get As with no tutoring. Answer: his stem Phd parents (from overseas where everyone does stem), basically relived high school with him, helping him through the work and concepts. Got him into an Ivy and then focused on the younger sib the same way. |
My kids always owned their grades. We never did tutors, quite frankly because the only kids that used tutors when my husband and I were growing up were the kids that were failing/falling behind. The rest of us powered through, tried to get extra help at office hours. We soon realized in accelerated middle school math our kids were only a few that did NOT have a tutor. I think you are making the assumption people are talking about tutors. The start of this thread was about an outlier, particularly known 'bad' teacher. In those instances, anyways, tutor isn't even helpful. If they aren't clear and nobody can understand what they are asking for and they aren't even sure themselves, all the tutoring hours in the world aren't going to help on tests. You just got a bad apple. |
My sons are way smarter than me! And that started by middle school. Lol. I am no dummy. I have a graduate degree in STEM too. But, especially my older son, my kids are on an entirely different level. Frankly, I'm too old to remember a lot of what they are learning as well. I am not reliving my high school. Spouse and I are the parents that have no idea what Canvas is and never had kids open it. But, we are very lucky that they both were always self-motivated with no learning difficulties. And, I credit their elementary school Principal who none of us liked at the time for getting the kids self-sufficient and self advocating at a very young age. |