Actually that wasn’t me. I was the poster that preceded the teacher post. I commented about your like attracts like observation, which I thought was good. |
What year is your experience from? Happy to listen to other perspectives but there are clearly people posting about really old experiences, which is about as helpful as comparing the real estate market now as it was 20 years ago. |
Mine is GWOT era. I entered after 9/11 and got out a few years ago. I think you’re right on the generational turnover; I specifically remember the officers and their spouses being drastically different than my peers and spouses that I currently know. My parents, both sets of grandparents, and many uncles and aunts on both sides were also military, some got out and others retired. The generational differences observation happens to fit at every level for my family. I think maybe the deployment optempo and the nature of the GWOT also strongly affected both the officer and the spousal dynamics in the same way the Cold War affected the officer and the spousal dynamics of my parents and their peers? |
Are all officers in one house?? |
I'm not the poster you quoted, but I don't understand your question. |
I think OPs point is that some might be pompous and self righteous. Not all, of course. |
There are pompous and self righteous people in all sorts of occupations. |
Your dh doesn't have the right qualifications. I've lived amongst this group and people were making more than that decades ago. I made that much 20 some odd years ago working for one of the independent govt agencies. My spouse left the military decades ago and went to work for a contractor being paid that much. Both spouse and I are tech/engineer types. |
Of course, the military is a huge industry with all kinds of field. My spouse is in bio and officer with clearance, and private firms offer more. The officer and soldier class divide is pretty big. |
PP claimed multiple houses. |
I don’t understand the question. |
My spouse pivoted and did something entirely different after retirement, on purpose. His experience was transferable in some aspects, but he didn't go to military lobbying, consulting etc. Non military stuff. I've worked throughout. We have made lots of sacrifices on the way including times where it felt like we were subsidizing parts of his military duty with both family time and finances - though I know the benefits make it a wash. We are currently quite wealthy. Assumptions don't work well with military families (or anyone). |
Probably a greater indicator of the DMV than the military. You can’t tell me it’s the military that are bringing the pompousness in the area! |
I still don’t understand. You’re asking if every single military officer is housed under one roof? |
I’m confused too. If you follow the thread there was a claim military people rent out the houseS (multiple) they own that were purchased with a housing allowance. |