Married women - do you ever fake it?

[Anonymous]

Lots of liars on here

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Anonymous wrote:Um... I think most women have faked it from time to time.

Why? It’s totally not necessary.

It is similar to when a man just does it because it is easier vs saying no.

[Anonymous]

No never. He would feel it anyway.

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Anonymous wrote:No. Never. I don’t understand why anyone would.

Because you love your DH and want him to be happy? 🙄

Pretending to O would only create more problems, not make anybody happy. DH needs to know what actually feels good to you and what it looks/feels like when you O

Depending on the circumstances, something that makes a woman O one day might not make her O the next day. I'm pretty sure men would rather not hear "it's not happening for me today, but you can go ahead and finish."

PP you are responding to. Are you a man? My husband is totally ok with hearing that, if it's the truth. I'm happy to focus on him some days, and vice versa. We like to give and receive.

Exactly. but also, neither one of us is shy about just getting the job done ourselves. If he finishes before me, I'm happy to take care of myself.

This makes me really sad. If my guy notices that I'm taking too long or might not get there with P in V. He will stop go down on me until the big O and then go back to the original P in V until he finishes. I'm sad that the expectation is for you to finish yourself.

[Anonymous]

No. But if I know he’s close, I do this hot little moan. It always sends him over the edge. I wouldn’t consider that faking an O though.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No. Never. I don’t understand why anyone would.

Because you love your DH and want him to be happy? 🙄

Have you considered that your DH loves you and wants to be pleasing you?

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Anonymous wrote:No. Never. I don’t understand why anyone would.

Because you love your DH and want him to be happy? 🙄

Pretending to O would only create more problems, not make anybody happy. DH needs to know what actually feels good to you and what it looks/feels like when you O

Depending on the circumstances, something that makes a woman O one day might not make her O the next day. I'm pretty sure men would rather not hear "it's not happening for me today, but you can go ahead and finish."

PP you are responding to. Are you a man? My husband is totally ok with hearing that, if it's the truth. I'm happy to focus on him some days, and vice versa. We like to give and receive.

Exactly. but also, neither one of us is shy about just getting the job done ourselves. If he finishes before me, I'm happy to take care of myself.

This makes me really sad. If my guy notices that I'm taking too long or might not get there with P in V. He will stop go down on me until the big O and then go back to the original P in V until he finishes. I'm sad that the expectation is for you to finish yourself.

I'm sad that you assume things I never said. I'm sad that you feel the need to manufacture problems where there are none.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Um... I think most women have faked it from time to time.

You would be wrong.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No. Never. I don’t understand why anyone would.

Because you love your DH and want him to be happy? 🙄

Have you considered that your DH loves you and wants to be pleasing you?

DP. Yea. I know that. Have you considered that maybe I’m just not going to get there and I have other things I need to do?

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Anonymous wrote:No. Never. I don’t understand why anyone would.

Because you love your DH and want him to be happy? 🙄

Pretending to O would only create more problems, not make anybody happy. DH needs to know what actually feels good to you and what it looks/feels like when you O

Depending on the circumstances, something that makes a woman O one day might not make her O the next day. I'm pretty sure men would rather not hear "it's not happening for me today, but you can go ahead and finish."

PP you are responding to. Are you a man? My husband is totally ok with hearing that, if it's the truth. I'm happy to focus on him some days, and vice versa. We like to give and receive.

Exactly. but also, neither one of us is shy about just getting the job done ourselves. If he finishes before me, I'm happy to take care of myself.

This makes me really sad. If my guy notices that I'm taking too long or might not get there with P in V. He will stop go down on me until the big O and then go back to the original P in V until he finishes. I'm sad that the expectation is for you to finish yourself.

I'm sad that you assume things I never said. I'm sad that you feel the need to manufacture problems where there are none.

All this sadness is making me sad too. Now I relate to that Smashing Pumpkins album about infinite sadness.

[Anonymous]

I used to sometimes when we had sex. I didn't want to disappoint him. I know thats stupid. I don't think he's ever given me one. No one has. 😔

[Anonymous]

I think a lot of people are being dishonest on this thread!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think a lot of people are being dishonest on this thread!

I think you got that backwards. A lot of women lie to their husbands and feel totally fine about it. Even frame it as "doing him a favor."

[Anonymous]

If I’ve had a couple of drinks I can’t O. I’m still horny and enthusiastic, but won’t be able to get over the finish line. DH always finishes, and I’m happy to be along for the ride!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If I’ve had a couple of drinks I can’t O. I’m still horny and enthusiastic, but won’t be able to get over the finish line. DH always finishes, and I’m happy to be along for the ride!

Same. Switched to gummies. MUCH better time.