Yuck no |
I do not understand sending a child to sleep away camp. 7 is too young. |
Girl Scout leader with three daughters here. An extroverted, adaptable, social butterfly can do well at 7 for a week. Other kids do better waiting until 8-10.
Two of mine started camp at 7ish. Oldest was 7.5 and had done troop camping at the same camp before, so she knew what she was signing up for. Middle daughter is more shy and even though she had also done a lot of troop camping by then, preferred to wait until 8.5 and wanted to go with a friend the first year. Youngest is a social butterfly like the oldest and started the summer she turned 7 without any troop camping experience. Went by herself but her older sister was there the same week (in a different group). All continued the next year, so had good enough experiences to want to go back! |
My 7 year old niece is at two week sleepaway camp, right now, and having the time of her life. Her older brother is there on year 2 and my son is there on year 7. My brother, parents and I have all been seeing the pictures and are in awe of how happy she looks all the time. Her brother wasn’t ready at 7, but my son started just after turning 8 and he easily could have started at 7. If she wants to go to camp and is asking to go to camp, she’s ready for camp! I can’t wait to hear all about it from her (and the boys) tomorrow when they come home. Camp time is the best time! |
We sent DS at 7 for a 5 day sleepaway to test the waters. At 8 did 2 weeks and now it will be his 3rd summer doing 2 weeks.
We will probably increase it to 4-5 weeks summer 2026. |
I grew up in a European country and we had trips at age 8 but with teachers we knew and parents trusted. I wouldn’t send my 7 year old to a camp where they didn’t know any adults. |
I sent my sons at 6 years old. Sure there was crying. But they cry at home about stuff too. Camp is about growing up a bit. |
Not the same. Your kid is off on their own 24 hours a day with no real way to contact anyone outside of camp. |
My kids all went to sleep away camp when they were 7. None of them took a friend. They all really loved it. My younger two started going to four week camps when they were 10, and my oldest is a CIT this year.
They’ve all been to day camps too, but they don’t love them the way they do sleepaway camp. |
The camp will contact you if there is an issue, and you can contact them as well. You can also go and get your kid if you need to for whatever reason. It’s your kid. The camp isn’t kidnapping them. |
This and BTW I think it’s fantastic my kid is on their own for 24 hours a day. It fosters a sense of independence, being responsible on their own, no mom to tell them what to do. Our camp doesn’t allow screens of any kind (no watch, phone, ipad) and makes a point of telling parents not to call the camp or contact them unless an emergency. You can write a letter and your kid can do the same, that’s it. We get 1 letter in 2weeks, lucky if we get 2. I also suspect the counselors ask the kids to write home or else we would get no letters. Having too much fun to miss mom and dad. This is a big reason I send my kid to sleep away since he was 7 is to foster independence and confidence, especially since he is an only. He likes it when I give him more independence. You have got to cut the cord sometime. Some kids are ready earlier than others. |
Non-responsive. The potential risk here includes people employed at the camp. Do you think they are going to call you and tell you about the inappropriate things they did to your child? Or are they going to tell your child not to talk about it? |