Meren’s politics are well to the left of Megan McLaughlin’s but she’s basically taken on the role of being a thorn in the superintendent’s side, which is what McLaughlin did with Brabrand. She hates being rushed into decisions and she’s been a consistent skeptic of anything relating to the western HS because she’s felt she hasn’t had enough information to make informed decisions. People claim she’s just trying to “protect” South Lakes, but I think it’s more her unhappiness with the process and timeline. But if the response to this is just to make Western an option school for years on end, it gets the school off to a very shaky start. |
Most people on this board use last names without titles. It is kind of ridiculous for someone to be annoyed that you used her title, it is her title and you are discussing her in a professional light. You left off the third group who don't know you have a PhD. I have a PhD, I use the title at work because it is appropriate there. I don't correct kids at Scouts on my kids sports teams. I don't introduce myself as Dr, I just use my first and last name. I don't see the title as all that important and I am not offended if people don't use it. The only time I push it is if a person is a jerk or I think is belittling me. And yes, I judged the person who corrected my kid who knew them their entire life as Mr/Mrs to Dr when they earned a PhD. The kid has known you for 9 years by a certain name, they are not belittling you because they forgot that you earned a doctorate a few weeks back. Chill |
OMG, that's not me you weirdo. |
| I think it’s pretentious to use Dr. if you aren’t a medical doctor. |
DH is retired military with a respected rank. Those who knew him when, use that term or his first name. After he retired form service, some use it, most don't. He certainly does not correct people. Demanding to be called by your title outside of workplace is pretentious. |
This is so funny. What does gender have anything to do with it? Nobody called Brabrand Dr. Brabrand, and nobody cared. |
Yeah, no. I earned a PhD and the title associated with my degree is Doctor. It is different than an MD but still earned. |
Thanks, Dr. Jill. |
No one cares that you have a PhD. Seriously. I have one too. Yes we worked hard for it, but it means nothing outside our workplaces. Most people I interact with outside of work don't even know unless what I do for a living somehow comes up. Our expertise does not affect the everyday person in the way an MD's expertise does. And most MD's are pretty humble too. |
I think you are right. She seems very risk averse and hates to vote on something she doesn’t have full information about. |
DP. I usually refer to people like you as Doctor A$$hole. You’re so insecure. |
Didn't she have an EdD? |
Calling someone by a title is a form of respect. Your PhD may have earned you respect among your colleagues, so they call you Dr. The rest of the people you run into on a daily basis couldn't care less, and will continue to call you by your name. Your extra years of school mean nothing to us. I call my medical doctor "Dr" because he is performing a service for me. If some rando who lives in my neighborhood wants to be called Dr. instead of Mr/Mrs. they can kick rocks. Your PhD gets you at title in your professional setting, where it actually applies. That's it. If you try to force it anywhere else it just tells us you are pretentious and not someone we want to associate with. |
That's like expecting everyone to call someone "Chief Executive Officer Mary" because they earned it somehow. Why do you think anyone should value the title some organization gave you over titles any other organization hands out? Oh look, it's "Eagle Scout Vance" and "Assistant to the Regional Manager Schrute." Titles for everyone! |
I think people who have done the work deserve the credit in a professional setting. If she was my child's friend's mom and insisted on being called Dr. Reid that would be a different story. |