Don’t want to host nephew for the summer

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Tell them you unfortunately will be not able ti host him. End of story.


^^Another disgusting POS Karen.
Anonymous
No, you are definitely not obligated or being rude by not wanting to host your nephew, bully or not.

It was super rude of your Mother to even suggest it.
She has put you in an awkward position no less.

If you host your nephew - you will just be very bitter + resentful about it and it will ruin your entire summer (as well as your son’s.)

It won’t be your fault if he cannot do the internship, this is a common manipulation tactic that many people use….
I see it all the time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Tell them you unfortunately will be not able ti host him. End of story.


^^Another disgusting POS Karen.


Ummm…no. She has a spine. Go away.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Tell them you unfortunately will be not able ti host him. End of story.


^^Another disgusting POS Karen.


^^ another mysogynist selfish user who thinks the world resolves around yourself.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm really surprised how many people think OP should do this. This is a 16 year old kid. I'm assuming OP must have changed the details b/c I seriously can't imagine any law firm giving a 16 year old any kind of meaningful internship- at most they would be working as a legal secretary (and even that is probably a stretch.) A 16 year old can't be left alone for a week if the family wants to go on vacation. A 16 year old doesn't cook for themselves. A 16 year old needs transportation. I would feel differently if CPS had called and asked the family to take the 16 year old in so he didn't go to foster care. But the way this situation is presented OP is being asked to take in a child, who will significantly impact their family life, just b/c the kid wants to do something that is objectively of little value.


It's a troll who keeps getting fed. Has OP come back? No reputable law firm has 16-year-old interns. Do you think LAWYERS want the liability of a teenager accidentally finding out confidential information about a client, let alone having a teen driver in their lot with all their fancy cars all summer?



Maybe it was an internship with DOGE?

Nah in that case the kid would get $300K and could pay for housing.
Anonymous
It's one thing if your nephew has drug problems or violent tendencies, but he sounds just like any other teenager. I assume this is your sibling's child? It would be very cold to say no to this, especially since you have a spare room.

I remember staying with aunts and uncles for months during the summer as a teenager. And I wouldn't think twice about letting my or DH's siblings' kids stay with us. This is family!
Anonymous
Families are not all the same.
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