
Huh. I think there are a BUNCH of people very defensive to Baldoni who post on here. I'm a lawyer too. I don't especially like Lively (and not employed by her team obvs) but I'm appalled by some of the yuck people are posting about her here. I don't see the same sort of stuff being posted about him here -- the very personal negative comments. The anti-Baldoni stuff seems, to me (and maybe I'm biased, because I am against men hiring PR firms to astroturf and make their coworker look bad) to be less personal and more targeted at his actual actions in the case and real events. jmho |
That’s a bit of a stretch |
Hiring PR when you’re getting bad press while promoting your work is not retaliatory, and Lively is alleged to have encouraged everyone involved unfollow Baldoni at the same time. So yeah, hiring PR seems reasonable to me! The NYT title “we can bury anyone” is spliced and stripped free from context, as cited in Baldoni’s lawsuit. I do think there’s a contingent here, again, supporting Lively which is intensely anti-fact in terms of the discussion. |
“Very defensive to Baldoni” and you’re a lawyer? What’s your practice area? Your writing is not giving esquire. |
Really? Seems like the stuff posted about her is fairly run of the mill for someone in the limelight, and also relevant in that it makes clear her reputation wasn’t so sterling before all of this. The Lauren Sanchez posts are far harsher and she didn’t do anything to anyone (well except her ex who seems to have happily moved on). Why do you care so much if people are snarky about a B list actress? |
Thanks. Read the post I was responding to - I just repeated that language verbatim, switching out people. That person (who likes Baldoni) also says they are a lawyer. Take it up with her lol. |
ITA. People are free to not like Blake Lively for god’s sake. She’s not chocolate. |
DP but I disagree and agree with PP. If you sign an agreement saying you won't retailiate, and then you retaliate through a PR firm, seems like YOU are the bad guy. Note specifically that the PR work discussed wasn't specifically to make Baldoni look good but to make Lively look bad. If that bears out in the Wallace deposition and/or discovery, that seems bad for Baldoni. |
This is a tale as old as time. A he said she said, the he is a prominent hollywood player who hires a vicious PR firm, the internet rips the woman apart. Zero attempts to look at the situation from both sides. Please provide a single example where in a contentious dispute between a man and a woman in hollywood the woman is believed and the man is injured.
It only happens when someone is SUCH a predator that they assault SO many women that it can't be explained away (weinstein/cosby). And even then they end up getting out of jail! Prediction: this turns into a 150 page thread talking about what a see you next tuesday you all think she is. Just like all the other multi hundred long page threads in this forum. There isn't one about a man though! It's ALWAYS about the woman. Examine your ingrained misogyny people. Second prediction: I get a bunch of people replying to me yelling about Blake being awful and Baldoni being her victim and I just blindly take the woman's side. I'll just get in front of all of those and tell you what I would say in response. These situations are almost always complex with different levels of power at play (in this case, while Lively and Reynolds have significantly higher household name recognition, Baldoni has extremely powerful industry connections, so is not the david to their goliath). And I believe that almost every celebrity is somewhat egotistical/narcissistic almost by the nature of the gig. Therefore it is my belief that there is almost NEVER a party completely innocent here. There is always blame to be found on both sides because it is almost always giant egos fighting with each other. But here, there is never nuance, it is always the woman sucks and the poor man we had a crush on 10 years ago because he was hot in that movie that one time is innocent. |
He did not just "hire PR." It is normal for someone in his position to "hire PR." He hired the crisis manager who handled Johnny Depp during the Amber Heard issues (when pad armies of posters destroyed Heard online). This team then worked up a plan to go after Lively online. They hire Jed Wallace who specializes in astroturfing (posting fake posts/comments on social media in large numbers to push a narrative). Baldoni texted this team with links to posts describing an actress as "hard to work with" getting lots of traction online and saying "this is what we need." Tons of posts saying the same about Lively subsequently appear all over the Internet. The crisis team then text each other that "thanks to Jed and his team" the online narrative is better. That's not "hiring PR." And it's significantly worse than simply unfollowing a person you do not like on Instagram. |
DP but hard, hard agree from me with these last two posts. Thank you for voicing my concerns better than I have. |
lol at Baldoni being considered a Hollywood power player with "extremely powerful industry connections." Baldoni is backed by a billionaire with no ties to Hollywood. That matters, and is why Blake and Ryan were able to throw around their weight so much. You seem to acknowledge the complicated dynamics here yet are getting so many basic things wrong. |
What does DP mean? I’m sort of new here |
ha, that’s called “working for crazy client” something that you generally get to avoid in BigLaw. lively insisted she was mortally offended at the childbirth scene, so they had to do something to get it in there. The weird footnote is their way to avoid sanctions. |
I have teens and mid is the most apt description for the complaint. If I read a complaint, and it seems inconsistent with the way people actually behave or tries to gloss over the omission of very relevant details, I’m suspicious about the validity of the claims. |