Boarding at STA may give you an admissions boost. |
Oh well here we go. The door knocker from 2008 tells all. This is not correct. They could have picked any school in the city. |
NP. So let me get this straight. Your son started in 9th grade at STA and it took him more than a year to find friends? In a small school that is all boys? I doubt that this is the message you intended to convey, but that is hardly a ringing endorsement of the school or the kids who attend. |
This is not unusual at all. It was the same experience for kids I know at Gonzaga, STJ, Sidwell, etc. It's not easy to make friendships in high school (friends that you do things with outside of school). Kids are super busy with academics, sports, etc. My daughter is at NCS and I have friends whose daughters joined in 9th and still don't feel connected to anyone 1 or 2 years later. It can be tough when you change schools for high school. It's kind of luck-of-the-draw. Do you end up in classes with kids you really click with? That's one of the downsides of the small (15) class sizes of these schools. By the end of freshman year you may have never really met half the class even if it's only a class of 80. |
Interesting. Wasn’t the case at all with my kids, who are at schools that you name here. Those schools perhaps worked harder to make sure that incoming 9th graders more immediately felt at home. Glad that it eventually worked out for your son at STA. |
I think this is more common than you think. It's not always easy to find a new group at a new school and it depends a lot on the cohort. It's often not until 10th grade where they feel settled in. This was also more of a problem in COVID years. My DS started in 9th (not at STA) and then COVID hit in March before spring sports. Then they were out of school until the second half of 10th grade - when activities remained limited. They had friends all along but didn't feel fully settled into a friend group until 11th. |
No actually they could not have selected any school. The Cathedral schools is just not safe for a president and they are hands on parents and would be at the school more often than others and it would shut down three schools normal routine every time they came to the school. Yes heard they really loved GDS and NCS as well. |
What? Sixth is a particularly nice group. |
You heard wrong about NCS. The Obamas (and the Clintons) never even toured NCS. |
DP. Are you still obsessing about this? Noone cares. Seriously. It's been 15-25 years since this occurred. Move on. |
NCS doesn’t fit the Obama brand. |
I’m responding to the PP. This exchange doesn’t concern you. And since you don’t care, please scroll past my posts (and this thread). |
Agreed. Most friendly grade in the Lower school in my opinion. |
Heard it is very insular among the Chevy crowd. |
Really? Where did you “hear” that? 🙄 |