Today's newsletter from Nobel Prize winner Paul Krugman has a lengthy review of various data sources comparing European countries and the US--here's a few paragraphs
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This. Quality of life in the US sucks for that majority of us at this point. |
Does it suck for you? |
People in those countries live longer with less. |
I actually don't think it does! I think we just have a morale problem. We somehow think that everyone else has it better, but they don't. I think we need a big campaign to bring happiness back to the US and that starts with less complaining and more looking internally at all the great things you do have. Of course, Americans also fritter away too much money on consumer items, the latest car, etc and then complain about spending 10k a year on health care. I know I complained about my unpaid maternity leave, but I make 3x what my counterpart in Europe does (165k vs 50k). Even with 12 weeks unpaid, I still made more that year. Yes, some things do need fixed in America, but the average person has so many great things going on in their lives. We just can't see it because we're blinded by nonstop complaining on tiktok and reddit (I'm convinced some of these are foreign bots). |
Agree with this. On the internet American women constantly complain about their lack of leave or unpaid leave, but rarely mention their much much higher salaries. At one point I was planning to be a trailing spouse in the UK and facing a $100k+ salary cut. Everyone kept going on about the paid parental leave (which from the government is around $400 a week), as if 12 more weeks of paid leave makes up for a six figure salary cut over decades. Who would trade millions of dollars for 12 weeks of paid leave?? The truth is we don’t have parental leave because it’s less necessary. Women in most European countries don’t have a spouse or partner who can support a family. It takes 2 office job salaries to equal almost 1 office job salary in the US. Here if an American woman wants to stay home, she can do so and isn’t dependent on the government. |
Why is living the longest the goal? I've had grandparents and relatives survive into their 90s and they wished for death every day. Your body is broken and doesn't work right, you're confined to a small space because it's too hard to get around, all your friends are gone, your family sees you as a burden. They are over it. |
Even Canada's (which has a very similar lifestyle and costs compared to the US) mat leave is 55% of earnings (max $695/week). This is way more than the other European countries, but still nothing like the 12 weeks paid that American women think everyone else is getting. And here in the US you can easily get a similar amount from short term disability. More than money, I would have liked for my job to be held for a year so that I could return to the same job. |
There are also many more opportunities for part time/freelance/at home jobs in the US. I don't know many sahms, but I know many taking advantage of these options, including myself. And I make nearly as much as my brother in France who works full time, and has a wife who works full time. Childcare is still a struggle for them, and they only make it work thanks to my parents who have my nephew over for school breaks. |
| There is an article today in the Wall Street Journal that Sweden is becoming more capitalist and losing socialism. Taxes have been reduced the last 3 years and social services are being paired back. |
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We live in a K shaped country. If you have a good income at a Fortune 500 or Big Law or consulting or whatever company, everything is rosy. You have good health insurance. You make a good income. Your real estate and investments are all up. Things are peachy.
It sucks for other Americans. More than 4 million lost their health insurance in recent months. Inflation in everything is absurd. It is tough to find a decent job these days. The UK, Italy, and France are fundamentally middle class countries. That's what they value and that's what they protect. In the US, it's get rich or die trying. There's a difference. |
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I worked for a NY based US company bought be a large German company. I was part of sr. Mgt team. A few things shocked the Germans in their visits to NYC.
1) big Dunkin’ Donuts coffee cups!! Very jealous 2) amount of kids we have. All of my mgt team had 3-4 kids and nearly all had SAHM wives. 3) salaries and bonus much higher. 4) our commutes were longer than the expected The Germans all seemed to have working spouses, most rented, most lived close the office in smaller places. My second job an English company and my boss was shocked I mentioned I have a 2,000 sf basement!!! He never heard of such a thing. Once for fun I walked laptop around. It is finished, he was also shocked I had 4 cars |
Basements are not common in houses in the UK. He was probably secretly judging you or at the minimum somewhat bemused re the four cars. |
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