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I don't think you get the challenges that bright students in rural America and the inner city face. There is no culture of academic excellence. A kid from these environments scoring a 1350 is extraordinary. The national average is about 1040 - and that includes all the strong kids in the Bay area, the tristate area, the DMV, the Chicago burbs and so on. Rural America and the inner city is a lot lower than that. A private school parent in DC looks at a 1350 and goes, ok, we can fix that. A few thousand on tutoring and we can bump that up to a 1500. These things are not happening in 99 percent of America. A kid with a shitty education in a shitty location scoring a 1350 is a superstar. |
Half the 1500 are asian. They study hard and take the test without accommodations. If they could somehow get it through their thick skulls that GPA and SAT is not enough, they'd get admitted a lot more often. |
You've built a mythical coal miner's daughter in your mind that goes to school with a piece of paper and pencil tucked into their waistband. There might be a tiny handful of kids like that in the country. They're not squeezing anyone out. I doubt there are 20 kids like that in any entering class. The question is how prepared is the school to hold their hand and help bring them up to speed. |
White people love New Hampshire. |
Where there's a will, there's a way. Why should we bend over backwards to send these kids to the best schools if they had no gumption? University of Their State will be just fine. |
And if you're that farmer's daughter from Iowa you'll be leaps and bounds ahead of your family by going to University of Iowa. You don't need to to fly across the country to a place you're never been with people so different than you. But, guess what, the farmer's daughter's kids will be primed to reach the next rung. This is the way it's historically been to just try to do better than one's own parents. When did we decide some need to be catapulted to the top over others who may be more deserving or capable? |
You live in a bubble. My 11th grader’s class (at a public magnet) has 5-6 exceptional kids that fit the description. And another 30-40 that are capable, but won’t even manage to take the test or go to a 4 year college. |
Capable of what? |
DP. Lol. Point is they are neither less deserving nor less capable. Quite the contrary in most cases. My kid is privileged—stable home, UMC, 1550+ SAT, multiple state and national awards in multiple ECs, etc. But we are very well aware (from first hand experience) that he’s in no way more capable or gifted than many of his less advantaged (and therefore less accomplished) peers. Test prep, etc. are the educational equivalent of makeup. They may put a superficial gloss on something but they don’t change its intrinsic nature. |
They are less capable if they need tons of support and scaffolding with remedial classes. |
Excelling academically, scoring well on SAT, attending a competitive 4 year college. |
No, they just didn’t get the opportunities or educational baseline that your kids did. They’re every bit as capable, or more so. |
Gumption? You have no idea what these kids go through. It certainly puts your average anxiety ridden UMC kid to shame. |
Elite schools are wary of appearing to be closed off to all but multi-millionaire trust fund kids from Manhattan. That’s why they admit farmers’ daughters from Iowa, and it’s also why they admit suburban kids with high test scores. Those high-scoring suburban kids are several socio-economic rungs down from the Manhattan elite for whose benefit the schools really exist. They really don’t need to be catapulted into that rarified class, and would probably be better off attending the University of Maryland and becoming dentists or accountants like their dads. |
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There is no reason to dismiss the multi-generational achievement of a family that resulted in an accepted candidate. Many families work for generations to put themselves in this position. What we call privilege is normally just generationally-compounded accomplishment. There is no reason to seek to undo it or frame it as illegitimate.
Color me not-shocked that high-achieving white families have surged now that admissions are more closely based on measurable factors. |