Re: One Day - Real life examples of couples who are physically mismatched

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lots of white women who feel threatened by plain looking women of color dating good looking white guys, it seems?

Asian American woman here - it's well known in our circles that you don't have to be a particularly attractive Asian woman to have non-Asian men attracted to you. So long as you are thin and with shiny hair, an Asian woman will get a lot of attention. Unfortunately, this is largely due to historically ingrained stereotypes that sexualize Asian women, but the point stands.

Don’t even have to be thin TBH.

-not thin Asian woman

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of white women who feel threatened by plain looking women of color dating good looking white guys, it seems?

Asian American woman here - it's well known in our circles that you don't have to be a particularly attractive Asian woman to have non-Asian men attracted to you. So long as you are thin and with shiny hair, an Asian woman will get a lot of attention. Unfortunately, this is largely due to historically ingrained stereotypes that sexualize Asian women, but the point stands.

No one is feeling threatened by anything. We’re just confused by why the unattractive women of color think the unattractive white men they are dating are so hot. They aren’t.

What is it to you?

Don't be confused. Find your own hot/ not so hot man/ woman and be happy.

I think what bothers me is the internalized racism. How the ugly Asian chick thinks the ugly white guy is hot just because he isn’t an ugly Asian guy and vice versa. (For instance when the ugly Jewish guy thinks the ugly Asian chick is hot because she isn’t an ugly Jewish girl.)

That sort of self hate bothers me.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of white women who feel threatened by plain looking women of color dating good looking white guys, it seems?

Asian American woman here - it's well known in our circles that you don't have to be a particularly attractive Asian woman to have non-Asian men attracted to you. So long as you are thin and with shiny hair, an Asian woman will get a lot of attention. Unfortunately, this is largely due to historically ingrained stereotypes that sexualize Asian women, but the point stands.

Yes, attractive Asian women date attractive Asian men. Unattractive Asian women date UNATTRACTIVE men. I know lots of Asian women/white men couples. None of the people involved are anything to write home about. This is common knowledge.

And they often reproduce to make attractive smart babies. I know several average looking smart Asian/white couples who have beautiful children. Think Priscilla Chan/mark zuckerburg types. I’m not sure what their children will grow up to look like but probably more attractive than they are individually.

Haven’t you already seen where this leads, to? No, those babies are only cute until puberty. And then their parents’ unattractive features rear their ugly heads. It’s actually worse than Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg individually because at least Priscilla and Mark are a specific type. Their kids are a weird combination of both parents ugly. It’s bad, really bad.

I honestly don’t know what their kids look like. I saw some pictures of them when they were toddlers.

I actually think many people are beautiful, often mixed race people. In my circles, there are quite a few extremely good looking mixed Asian and white people, not just East Asian but south Asian. I might be biased because I’m Asian.

I’m an attractive Asian married to a fellow attractive Asian. We have good looking kids.

Maybe it is just our circles or my opinion but I think the half white half Asian, half white half black kids are the most beautiful.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of white women who feel threatened by plain looking women of color dating good looking white guys, it seems?

Asian American woman here - it's well known in our circles that you don't have to be a particularly attractive Asian woman to have non-Asian men attracted to you. So long as you are thin and with shiny hair, an Asian woman will get a lot of attention. Unfortunately, this is largely due to historically ingrained stereotypes that sexualize Asian women, but the point stands.

No one is feeling threatened by anything. We’re just confused by why the unattractive women of color think the unattractive white men they are dating are so hot. They aren’t.

What is it to you?

Don't be confused. Find your own hot/ not so hot man/ woman and be happy.

I think what bothers me is the internalized racism. How the ugly Asian chick thinks the ugly white guy is hot just because he isn’t an ugly Asian guy and vice versa. (For instance when the ugly Jewish guy thinks the ugly Asian chick is hot because she isn’t an ugly Jewish girl.)

That sort of self hate bothers me.

I’m from NY and I have seen many of these ugly Asian Jewish couples. Both probably don’t think they are ugly and that is fine.

I have an Asian friend who is larger than most other Asian women. She and her sister are not the types most Asian men like as they have bigger bones and larger than a lot of Asian men, meaning fatter, not taller. One sister only dates white guys and the other one only dates black men. They often say how unattractive Asian men are. It is unfortunate because it is almost like insulting yourself since you are badmouthing your own race.

[Anonymous]

White women are triggered that women of color are now also considered acceptable mates for desirable white men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:White women are triggered that women of color are now also considered acceptable mates for desirable white men.

This is not new. White women date men of color. White men date women of color.

I read somewhere (here) that Asian men and black women are the groups that other races date the least.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lots of white women who feel threatened by plain looking women of color dating good looking white guys, it seems?

Asian American woman here - it's well known in our circles that you don't have to be a particularly attractive Asian woman to have non-Asian men attracted to you. So long as you are thin and with shiny hair, an Asian woman will get a lot of attention. Unfortunately, this is largely due to historically ingrained stereotypes that sexualize Asian women, but the point stands.

No one is feeling threatened by anything. We’re just confused by why the unattractive women of color think the unattractive white men they are dating are so hot. They aren’t.

What is it to you?

Don't be confused. Find your own hot/ not so hot man/ woman and be happy.

I think what bothers me is the internalized racism. How the ugly Asian chick thinks the ugly white guy is hot just because he isn’t an ugly Asian guy and vice versa. (For instance when the ugly Jewish guy thinks the ugly Asian chick is hot because she isn’t an ugly Jewish girl.)

That sort of self hate bothers me.

Do these people tell you these things? How come you know so many people who have this perception?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:White women are triggered that women of color are now also considered acceptable mates for desirable white men.

Meh. I think men are triggered that plain looking women can be superficial.

[Anonymous]

There are so many Asian woman - White man couples in metro areas. They are almost without exception highly educated people who met in their highly selective college, graduate school, at their white-shoe firm, tech company, etc., etc. Young people in close proximity to each other in these "curated spaces" gravitate towards each other, even if people on the outside of these circles don't get it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of white women who feel threatened by plain looking women of color dating good looking white guys, it seems?

Asian American woman here - it's well known in our circles that you don't have to be a particularly attractive Asian woman to have non-Asian men attracted to you. So long as you are thin and with shiny hair, an Asian woman will get a lot of attention. Unfortunately, this is largely due to historically ingrained stereotypes that sexualize Asian women, but the point stands.

Yes, attractive Asian women date attractive Asian men. Unattractive Asian women date UNATTRACTIVE men. I know lots of Asian women/white men couples. None of the people involved are anything to write home about. This is common knowledge.

And they often reproduce to make attractive smart babies. I know several average looking smart Asian/white couples who have beautiful children. Think Priscilla Chan/mark zuckerburg types. I’m not sure what their children will grow up to look like but probably more attractive than they are individually.

Haven’t you already seen where this leads, to? No, those babies are only cute until puberty. And then their parents’ unattractive features rear their ugly heads. It’s actually worse than Priscilla Chan and Mark Zuckerberg individually because at least Priscilla and Mark are a specific type. Their kids are a weird combination of both parents ugly. It’s bad, really bad.

I honestly don’t know what their kids look like. I saw some pictures of them when they were toddlers.

I actually think many people are beautiful, often mixed race people. In my circles, there are quite a few extremely good looking mixed Asian and white people, not just East Asian but south Asian. I might be biased because I’m Asian.

I’m an attractive Asian married to a fellow attractive Asian. We have good looking kids.

Maybe it is just our circles or my opinion but I think the half white half Asian, half white half black kids are the most beautiful.

I don't know about white/black biracial kids since I don't see that pairing often where I live now (not in DMV), but I feel like most white/asian kids turn out looking generic hispanic regardless of their parents level of attractiveness. I know more than a handful of couples where the asian mom or white dad (or both but that is rare) are model-level beautiful but their kids all look like average hispanic kids. Same if the parents are below average looking asian and white.

Genetics are fascinating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are so many Asian woman - White man couples in metro areas. They are almost without exception highly educated people who met in their highly selective college, graduate school, at their white-shoe firm, tech company, etc., etc. Young people in close proximity to each other in these "curated spaces" gravitate towards each other, even if people on the outside of these circles don't get it.

Yes, but they are usually very unattractive. Smart yes, ugly yes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lots of white women who feel threatened by plain looking women of color dating good looking white guys, it seems?

Asian American woman here - it's well known in our circles that you don't have to be a particularly attractive Asian woman to have non-Asian men attracted to you. So long as you are thin and with shiny hair, an Asian woman will get a lot of attention. Unfortunately, this is largely due to historically ingrained stereotypes that sexualize Asian women, but the point stands.

No one is feeling threatened by anything. We’re just confused by why the unattractive women of color think the unattractive white men they are dating are so hot. They aren’t.

What is it to you?

Don't be confused. Find your own hot/ not so hot man/ woman and be happy.

I think what bothers me is the internalized racism. How the ugly Asian chick thinks the ugly white guy is hot just because he isn’t an ugly Asian guy and vice versa. (For instance when the ugly Jewish guy thinks the ugly Asian chick is hot because she isn’t an ugly Jewish girl.)

That sort of self hate bothers me.

Do these people tell you these things? How come you know so many people who have this perception?

My best friend in college was a very cute Asian girl. She wasn’t beautiful, but she was super cute. In order for her to be remotely interested in an Asian guy, he had to be very good looking, but any run of the mill White guy would do. I thought it was sad. (She ended up with an ugly White guy and her kids are very, very unattractive. I don’t get it.)

I knew lots of others like this, especially Indian girls and Jewish guys. They’d prefer anyone to their own. Successful Black guys are famous for this, too. Is this really something new for you!?! I knew lots of people like this because I went to college with a lot of South and East Asians and Jews. Meanwhile, I never met one say Chinese/Indian couple in college. I’ve met a few since, but none of the people involved went to college in the US. All the Asians I knew in college l, who did interracial dating, had their eye on the prize: a white person.

If that’s not self-hating, I don’t know what is.

[Anonymous]

I’ve noticed lots of white men from my college - Princeton marrying POC recently. I think this is relatively new phenomenon.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:There are so many Asian woman - White man couples in metro areas. They are almost without exception highly educated people who met in their highly selective college, graduate school, at their white-shoe firm, tech company, etc., etc. Young people in close proximity to each other in these "curated spaces" gravitate towards each other, even if people on the outside of these circles don't get it.

Yes, but they are usually very unattractive. Smart yes, ugly yes.

In cities like DC ("Hollywood for ugly people"), being thin, well educated, and rich get you farther along than being attractive, poor, and lacking educational pedigree.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:There are so many Asian woman - White man couples in metro areas. They are almost without exception highly educated people who met in their highly selective college, graduate school, at their white-shoe firm, tech company, etc., etc. Young people in close proximity to each other in these "curated spaces" gravitate towards each other, even if people on the outside of these circles don't get it.

Yes, but they are usually very unattractive. Smart yes, ugly yes.

In cities like DC ("Hollywood for ugly people"), being thin, well educated, and rich get you farther along than being attractive, poor, and lacking educational pedigree.

You do realize that they are also rich, well educated, attractive people? But they tend to stick to their own, whatever they own is.