I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

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Anonymous wrote:Here's how this "story" is going to end: the cops will report back that the boyfriend is at home, sitting on his couch. My advice to you, OP, is to come up with a better ending for this piece of performance art.

Would be much better if they report back that while his truck is there, he is NOWHERE TO BE SEEN!

It's only Wednesday.

Yes, that could be the next plot twist ... OP needs to keep her doors locked ... (seriously, though, I hope not, OP).

[Anonymous]

I recommended this thread to the GOMI front page.

[Anonymous]

I really love that even you, Jeff, are addicted to this thread. OP-I am really sorry this is happening to you.

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:OP, can you call Uncle J back and convince him to do an AMA thread? We'll need something to do after the police call you back.

We <3 Jeff!

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OP I have read the whole thing but I just want to clarify: you've been to visit him at his actual residence? Does he live on his parents land or his grandparents land?

It would be weird if he lived on his parents/grandparents land and yet you haven't met them when you've visited. So we've confirmed he is estranged from his parents and uncle ... is he estranged from his grandparents?

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Anonymous wrote:But do we even know if the guy is alive?

I'm waiting for state police to call me back

Why would they call you, a non-relative, and not the uncle? Why didn't HE call? He's the family member, not you.

Probably because I'm the only one he's talked to in the last damn 2 years

You said you met the uncle. Fix that plot point, hon.

She met a different uncle.

Oh, FFS. Then why didn't she get in touch with THAT one?

In defense of the OP: my husband has 3 aunts and 2 uncles. I've met 2 or the aunts and 1 of the uncles and I have no idea how to get in touch with them directly. I don't have their phone numbers and they're not on Facebook and I don't have email addresses. I could probably find this information online somewhere, but it's not completely outside the realm of possibility that the OP met some of Bobcat Boyfriend's relatives and did not immediately commit their phone numbers, addresses, etc. to memory.

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jsteele wrote:OP, can you call Uncle J back and convince him to do an AMA thread? We'll need something to do after the police call you back.

OP here: He honestly was too nice and sweet on the phone. I don't want to put him at risk of being attacked by the assh**** on this forum.

Yes, but YOU gave out his name on the internet, honey! But I know you're sooooo concerned about him.

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OP here: Oh & Jeff, are you able to find out who I am in real life? Because the "white trash" and "fake" people are getting annoying and I think if you were able to see who I really am and that all the things I've said about myself are true and confirm that, those people could just shut up.

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Anonymous wrote:I recommended this thread to the GOMI front page.

ha, love this.

[Anonymous]

This thread will be an excellent way to tell who we know in real life is reading DCUM. I'm gonna start dropping bobcat references in my conversations and see who picks them up!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: Oh & Jeff, are you able to find out who I am in real life? Because the "white trash" and "fake" people are getting annoying and I think if you were able to see who I really am and that all the things I've said about myself are true and confirm that, those people could just shut up.

You gave out the uncle's name on the internet yesterday and publicly accused him of poaching.

The horse is out of the barn, sweetheart.

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Why did he turn down your friend request on Facebook?

I thought FB didn't inform the requester that the friend request was declined. I thought it just sat out there as a request forever.

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Anonymous wrote:I recommended this thread to the GOMI front page.

ha, love this.

But clearly we want this to SOMI

[jsteele]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: Oh & Jeff, are you able to find out who I am in real life? Because the "white trash" and "fake" people are getting annoying and I think if you were able to see who I really am and that all the things I've said about myself are true and confirm that, those people could just shut up.

I removed the white trash comment (and your response). I haven't checked enough to see if I could identify you. All I know for sure is that you appear to be posting from Rhode Island.

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Anonymous wrote:Here's how this "story" is going to end: the cops will report back that the boyfriend is at home, sitting on his couch. My advice to you, OP, is to come up with a better ending for this piece of performance art.

OP here: Once I hear back from the police which will hopefully be soon, I'll update and that's that. Thread should be locked or deleted after that as I have no interest in taking this any further once I find out if he's been home this whole time or is indeed missing.

Do you actually expect the police to help you...follow...this guy? I'm actually starting to understand why bobcat man took the opportunity to disappear for a while.