I'm not a STA parents but I agree. Yours is a very reasonable post & approach. I think you're absolutely right that even in strong communities (school or otherwise) with many good, well-intentioned people and ethical values being modeled and taught, things happen and it's the response of the community and the leadership that is important. |
Wow, not sure it's fair for others to jump on PP for defending herself when she was attacked as a person and parent. Sure she could have said "sorry to hear about your circumstances" (or something more eloquent and kind) but this response ignores the original post and was really harsh. |
Yes. As even more Prep graduates go onto successful and prominent careers, it will be very humiliating. |
It was, but it obviously came from a place of intense, personal pain, and you don't hit back or pour salt in the wound under those circumstances. You take the high ground and acknowledge the pain. |
Yes, only the boys who go to this high school are qualified to do anything because ‘they’ve decided that this is so’ and ‘they belong to the best country clubs’ No one else even exists in comparison. . |
+1 not good |
The school is not pushing believe all woman. The school is allowing the girls to feel empowered. Funny I heard students were upset there wasn’t enough “believe all women” I think the head of school handled it fairly while keeping it appropriate to the girls to feel strong. |
My daughter is at another girls school but I don’t think Holton will have any trouble getting many applicants. I was proud of Holton and how they stood by their alum. I think my daughters school and community would do the same. Women need to stand with women. |
| I’m proud of the Damascus Jv football high school boys for speaking about being raped/assaulted by other boys. Cases like this have helped people find the strength to report assaults to the police which is a big advance. No one wants to be assaulted and it’s shocking that even with all of the publicity that cases like this have received people will still try to get away with it. |
| Any sense whether colleges treat Prep any differently this admissions season? |